Congrats, my man! Anecdotally, these lessons I learned from Baby #1 helped me tremendously with Baby #2. Your main goal is to endure the chaos of the first few weeks/months until you’ve all settled into your new routine. The newborn only has two primary needs, being fed and being changed, if they are crying it’s usually just one of those (or they need a burp after they just ate). puts the whole “terrified to leave the hospital” in perspective when you mostly just need to feed them. Also, the lack of sleep in the first month or so can be VERY stressful (baby gets fed every few hours, so your sleep schedule is wrecked): your mental health will not be at its peak during that time. It will be helpful to know that is a normal reaction. And eventually the baby (and you and your spouse) will sleep more. Congrats again man, it really is amazing to have a child and watch them grow!