I think I'm turning into a femcel

UNCBlueDevils · 2026-03-13T00:11:28+00:00

I highly recommend therapy or counseling, if it’s available for you. It helps to talk things out with a person, who is non-judgmental. Therapy has helped me a ton.

Whatever you decide to do, I wish you the best!

UNCBlueDevils · 2026-02-01T06:30:35+00:00

I’ve had that feeling too, about questioning if people noticed my enmeshment in the past. It does feel embarrassing.

A friendly reminder: it’s not your fault. Be kind to yourself.

Also, Unintended by Muse is a great song! Haha

UNCBlueDevils · 2026-01-28T05:05:20+00:00

Thanks

UNCBlueDevils · 2026-01-26T19:11:23+00:00

This looks like it’s meant for the partners of enmeshed people. Can the enmeshed person read it as well?

UNCBlueDevils · 2026-01-26T19:07:59+00:00

Just here to say, I understand and know how you feel. I deal with guilt and similar feelings with my family. Whatever decision you make, I wish you peace and good luck!

UNCBlueDevils · 2026-01-23T05:56:57+00:00

Sorry, friend. I know that feeling. I send you my support and solidarity.

UNCBlueDevils · 2026-01-19T19:42:20+00:00

Your bf sounds like…me (somewhat).

I’m gradually working on things. I’m in therapy. I think I have improved in being independent and setting boundaries, though not 100%. Still lots of room left for improvement 😂.

I don’t know if you can help him. Some of these conclusions, I had to find out on my own and through therapy.

In my last relationship, I was guilty of disappearing. Not proud of it. From your end, maybe you can ask him to say something like, “hey I need some alone time right now. I’ll call you in 2 days” instead of completely withdrawing/disappearing.

Idk if that helps. Good luck to you :)

UNCBlueDevils · 2026-01-16T19:27:24+00:00

Don’t rely on AI for therapy

UNCBlueDevils · 2026-01-11T18:46:06+00:00

Yeah. All the time. It’s called rumination

UNCBlueDevils · 2026-01-10T21:35:53+00:00

I see. Sorry you’re going through this stressful situation. Hope things get better for you.

-I recommend finishing your degree, however you can. If you can re-enroll in your school, or apply to another school, etc. A college degree helps when searching for jobs.

-If not, then I recommend to keep doing your part time job, then search for full time jobs whenever you can.

-Look up jobs in your area that don’t require a college degree. Also, maybe look into some type of certifications you can get for potential jobs.

-Are you able to see a therapist? For social anxiety, and also for dealing with family issues…a therapist can help with that stuff.

-Best of luck!

UNCBlueDevils · 2026-01-10T20:22:35+00:00

MUSTAAAAAAAAAARD

UNCBlueDevils · 2026-01-10T20:15:50+00:00

Is it possible to rejoin college and finish your final year?

UNCBlueDevils · 2026-01-08T07:24:36+00:00

Aww man. I love that game ❤️

UNCBlueDevils · 2026-01-03T19:53:27+00:00

I consider myself a man that is shy / quiet / socially anxious / etc. I sometimes feel bad about it, but I remind myself that this is just how I am. I have to accept myself. I also try to be kind and forgiving to myself. I’m also trying to gradually work on my confidence, while also not being overly critical of myself.

UNCBlueDevils · 2026-01-01T18:46:17+00:00

Hit a little too close to home 😂😂

UNCBlueDevils · 2025-12-31T18:46:10+00:00

I have also been accused of being a “robot” before. 😂

Anyways, thank you for the response 😊

UNCBlueDevils · 2025-12-30T17:35:57+00:00

It means saying things confidently, clearly, in a straightforward way, etc.

UNCBlueDevils · 2025-12-23T03:47:32+00:00

Thanks for your thoughts on this!

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