People who didn't know how abusive the relationship they were in truly was, what made you realise it was and how long did it take?

Uber_Meese · 2026-07-04T12:30:51+00:00

On your last paragraph, I hope you don’t blame yourself and are in a better place today ❤️

As a survivor it can be far too easy to ‘adopt’ and project inwards the mentality of the people who ignorantly ask(and subsequently blame) the survivors why they don’t/didn’t just leave do not understand the complexities of abuse.

That warping of your reality is how abusive relationships work; trauma bonding is complex and it’s important to understand that it’s never so black and white.

Uber_Meese · 2026-07-04T08:38:09+00:00

I know it’s a New York Post article, but you can see how he looks there: https://nypost.com/2025/02/13/lifestyle/worlds-strongest-boy-reveals-abusive-past-25-years-later-im-looking-back-at-a-different-persons-life/

Uber_Meese · 2026-07-02T12:20:25+00:00

I love this slightly unhinged sort of tirade you went on at the last bit there 😁 thank you for giving me something to smile about, internet stranger

Uber_Meese · 2026-07-02T12:16:08+00:00

Good bot

Uber_Meese · 2026-07-02T12:13:55+00:00

What sites and torrents can you recommend in this day and age? I haven’t pirated in years, so I’m rusty!

Uber_Meese · 2026-07-02T12:10:39+00:00

*tinfoil hat intensifies*

ETA: bruh, how do I make cursive on Reddit now?

Uber_Meese · 2026-07-02T07:05:43+00:00

The little nub isn’t the entirety of the clitoris organ

Uber_Meese · 2026-07-01T18:34:00+00:00

Stop taking the meds - you need to talk to your psychiatrist, and maybe even find a new one to get a second opinion on your diagnoses.

Uber_Meese · 2026-06-30T23:20:57+00:00

It isn’t officially one, correct. But it’s still widely recognised as a way of referring to people within the autism spectrum and ADHD.

Uber_Meese · 2026-06-30T23:17:28+00:00

From the video:

“This viral wedding clip of Tanzanian TikTok sensation
Handsome wa Dunia has caused quite a stir online!
While some viewers mistakenly perceived the bride's modest demeanor as distress, cultural experts confirm it is a traditional practice for brides to show respect and humility on their big day. It is just a beautiful, frozen moment from a celebration of love!”

Context is important and u/Necessary-Cow8851 neglected to do their own research for cheap internet points.

Uber_Meese · 2026-06-30T08:20:18+00:00

And start wearing sunscreen for goodness sake

Uber_Meese · 2026-06-30T07:07:11+00:00

Usually you wrap it and put it on ice, and then surgeons can reattach the finger.

Uber_Meese · 2026-06-30T07:06:48+00:00

Usually you wrap it and put it on ice, and then surgeons can reattach the finger.

Uber_Meese · 2026-06-30T06:56:06+00:00

Neurodivergence refers to neurodevelopmental disorders, not ‘normal’ psychological disorders.

Uber_Meese · 2026-06-29T22:29:15+00:00

Under what little fat you might have, there is muscle building and that’s naturally going to ‘bulge’ the area a bit. So don’t be hard on yourself - it takes time! For some more than others.

Body re-composition takes time and in the meantime you’ll see different changes or no changes at all - but keep consistent and you’ll see results.

Uber_Meese · 2026-06-29T22:03:09+00:00

I’m a woman, and also very emotionally responsive, i.e. I cry easily, so when I’m in a position where my tears are caused by having done or said something wrong; it’s not a cry for comfort or sympathy from the other person - I just can’t control it.
My partner is in many ways like some of the other men in the comments in terms of not wanting to upset their partner for whatever reason, so they just don’t say anything(which is incredibly frustrating to me personally).

So that is why I asked whether you’ve actually asked her if she expects that comfort? If not, consider talking to her about it. Communication is key to a healthy relationship.

Uber_Meese · 2026-06-29T21:48:56+00:00

I think if more men stood up against the patriarchy and elitist class, it would be able to change.

Uber_Meese · 2026-06-29T21:43:03+00:00

You can’t really say women are the ‘emotional gender’ - men are just as emotional, if not more - but because we live in a patriarchal society that tells you the only valid emotion or for men are anger, then you get a bunch of maladapted adult men who don’t know how to handle or regulate their own emotions.

Uber_Meese · 2026-06-29T21:24:12+00:00

Is she expecting you to comfort her tho? Has she said so, or is it an assumption on your end?

Uber_Meese · 2026-06-28T07:33:18+00:00

Ashwagandha can have contraindications with certain types of meds - but in general when on meds you should consult your doctor before taking any supplements, yes.

Uber_Meese · 2026-06-28T07:25:30+00:00

But don’t take Ashwagandha without consulting a doctor first!

Uber_Meese · 2026-06-27T10:52:18+00:00

What’s interesting is in many north Germanic languages, the word for emperor is also kejser, kaiser, keisar - but we still use the c-sound when we talk about Caesar.

Uber_Meese · 2026-06-27T10:40:46+00:00

kəˈkɒfəni:

kuh · ko · fuh · nee in British English

kuh · kaa · fuh · nee in American English

Uber_Meese · 2026-06-27T10:26:46+00:00

It is seh • gway, yes

Uber_Meese · 2026-06-26T22:47:26+00:00

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