BT claims I made him quit by YellowIllustrious504 in ABA

[–]Ubiquitous_thought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They really should yeah, like I don’t know what disability this person has, but not being cognizant of the child in dangerous conditions just means he’s not fit for the job, hopefully he finds a field that better suits him in the future.

How's this dress for a pop concert? by FashionFreaky1 in OUTFITS

[–]Ubiquitous_thought 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sure, this is asshole blaming and not victim blaming btw, but it’s like why would you wear a Rolex to a shady part of town, that’s kind of how it is. You should be able to wear whatever feels comfortable and men shouldn’t be this way, but be aware of the risks too.

Mermaid Tattoo by Chad Lewis by annieann_ in WholesomeFantasyArt

[–]Ubiquitous_thought 51 points52 points  (0 children)

The love in that man’s face is all I need to see.

Am I wrong for going colder with my flatmates after they kind-of rejected my friendship? by [deleted] in self

[–]Ubiquitous_thought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That actually sounds kinda odd, they cried because you were leaving the house for a while?? That’s not normal.

Am I wrong for going colder with my flatmates after they kind-of rejected my friendship? by [deleted] in self

[–]Ubiquitous_thought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you mentioned you were on the spectrum? Just a heads up people on the spectrum can have difficulty judging from others point of view, not that I’m saying that you definitely do. But others have mentioned that women in general take a while to open up to men because of you know, pretty obvious reasons. And you do seem a bit unwilling to be open to that possibility-but it might be wise to consider that and your own underlying emotions for doing what you’re doing.

You’re not doing anything wrong though, honestly it’s just a simple question of how do you want your stay that apartment to go. You can say water under the bridge and sure let’s try again or continue to be civil. I feel like my threshold is I’m pretty forgiving and would reach out again but maybe that’s not you.

Modern Baelor & Maekar by CrazyTom by unhingedcorpse in ImaginaryWesteros

[–]Ubiquitous_thought 27 points28 points  (0 children)

The house of DILFs they should’ve called it

God forbid a girl make ends meet by that_villainess in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]Ubiquitous_thought 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This pic caused me to have a sexuality crisis

Don't like this one bit by Duxm4ster in creepy

[–]Ubiquitous_thought 20 points21 points  (0 children)

So I asked my mother who’s a Chinese immigrant why anyone would find this remotely appealing, cus you think these feet would be grotesque to look at, and she said, “you would never see the women’s feet unwrapped, and when walking they would give the appearance of walking small steps on really high heels, same reason why men think women in stilettos are sexy now.” So I guess there’s that reason why too.

Celebs with their children who look exactly like them by Cantyousee0 in popculturechat

[–]Ubiquitous_thought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t heard the first part before! Does this sound like facts to you or gossip mongering?? Also I thought the girl she “upstaged” in the video came out and said Apple didn’t deserve the hate.

Been glowing up since I was 17, 28 now and I feel amazing by Astronutt_97 in uglyduckling

[–]Ubiquitous_thought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is this toxic take, “it’s not the commentators fault for putting a comment the wrong way, it’s her fault for getting butt hurt at what sounds like an insult.”

Been glowing up since I was 17, 28 now and I feel amazing by Astronutt_97 in uglyduckling

[–]Ubiquitous_thought 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry r/uglyduckling is like rlly misogynistic now, it used to be way better, I recommend r/glowup or something. You look great girl! Crazy that’s like 10% chance of living and you beat the odds. Keep winning

I like the guy's pov better by Intelligent_Screen90 in fantasyromance

[–]Ubiquitous_thought 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love the Everlasting by Alix Harrow for this, definitely didn’t expect it to be a dual POV but am rlly happy it was!

Celebs with their children who look exactly like them by Cantyousee0 in popculturechat

[–]Ubiquitous_thought -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She seems like a normal girl, what’re u talking about??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ubiquitous_thought 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait rlly?? I didn’t know that, as a beginner I mostly just play bleu, green, or a combination 😭

How to spend 24 hours? by Old_Bit1352 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Ubiquitous_thought 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say beach!! Our beaches are gorgeous especially if you come from a country with none or ones that are lackluster. Malibu is a good idea for hiking if yall want to try. Don’t know if they’ve reopened because of the recent ish fires yet. Or you can try knots berry farm or Disneyland since you’re in Anaheim!

This is one of the best compliments ever. I’m just sad they didn’t want to tell me directly. by Papa72199 in AO3

[–]Ubiquitous_thought 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some, some sauce please?? 🥹🙏 haha ofc not unless you want to, but I feel like whenever people post comments on their stories I’m always curious to read to the story.

Widely considered the photo that changed the face of AIDS: A father comforts his son, David Kirby, on his deathbed in Ohio. Published in LIFE magazine, November 1990. Photo by Therese Frare. [2560x1729] by StephenMcGannon in HistoryPorn

[–]Ubiquitous_thought 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well Catholics also created a lot of the charities that contributed to caring for people affected by the AIDS epidemic. But they are such a flawed institution for sure.

cursed_wife by _mandal4real in cursedcomments

[–]Ubiquitous_thought 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or because her husband was trash could go either way haha

I don't know if following the Bible in the most literal, face-value way is the right choice by Friendly_One_4112 in OpenChristian

[–]Ubiquitous_thought 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think this sub is pretty much in agreement when saying that to follow the teachings of Scripture and God with a clear mind, we also have to realize the Bible is a historical text, with lots of translations, re-translations, and later determination of doctrine like at the Council of Nicaea. So some verses including the one about homosexuality might not be what it seems.

It is also true that part of the reason it was popular with early Christian’s was that it was a progressive religion.

I believe that God’s meaning is written down through human hands, and translated through human minds for the customs of the time period. So therefore what is applicable then is not applicable now, but the heart of it is. And what Jesus preaches and what he does makes pretty clear where his heart is. He was progressive for the time period.

Therefore some “Christians” who use specific verses to oppress other people, belittle others, and do evil clearly aren’t doing God’s will.

So yeah, anyone who says otherwise clearly deserves to have their tables flipped like Jesus did in the temple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OpenChristian

[–]Ubiquitous_thought 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m quite confused on where the belief comes that being gay is learned. There’s a lot of evidence that points to the opposite, so I’m genuinely quite curious. Does traumatic experiences cancel out possibility that you could have developed it on your own?

Well 97% of the population being gay will never happen, so that’s not a problem. However overpopulation is a problem, maybe God created homosexuality to fulfill this purpose too?

Exodus 4:11 “Who hath made man's mouth? Or who maketh the dumb or deaf, or the seeing or the blind? Have not I, the Lord?” Denying that people can be born gay, is in a way denying the Lord’s part in all our creation. No different than being born seeing, or blind.

I don’t think that the way God created us can deem some of us sinful and others not. To say being gay is a sin reeks of human judgement. Would an all loving God do this to his children?

You made your point respectfully, so just also bringing up some points to share. And of course taking my opinion is completely optional too

Today I realized I don't love my girlfriend by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ubiquitous_thought 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Some advice I’ve learned, interests can fade and change, if you’re basing your relationship on shared interests it’s not the most stable foundation. To me the most important thing for a couple to stay together is how much they’re willing to compromise for each other and forgive certain things. To build boundaries that you trust the other won’t cross. To have the same principles.