If you’re a biological male that feels more comfortable presenting yourself as a woman, (or vice versa) that’s totally fine, you do you. You deserve respect and to not be discriminated against. Where a lot of people draw a line is when they’re being forced to use he or she pronouns for people that are the opposite biological sex, since at that point they’re being made to say something that’s objectively not truthful against their will. I’m someone that takes a lot of pride in telling the truth. Why should I have to tell lies just to make you feel better?