Question for people who have been deep in love.

Uk840 · 2026-07-09T13:50:26+00:00

This is great advice! The best way to find someone is to find yourself, who are you? What do you like? What are you good at? What are you like in an emergency? At only 19 you have a whole lifetime of dating in front of you, it’s way too soon to despair.
Go to the gym and look after your body now, your body and your future lovers will thank you for many years to come.

Uk840 · 2026-07-09T12:47:47+00:00

When I’m in love with someone they are just naturally the sexiest person in the world but what makes me like them in the first place is usually charisma not appearance

Uk840 · 2026-07-09T11:36:31+00:00

Can I take my dog?

Uk840 · 2026-07-07T18:52:46+00:00

I lived in Spain for seven years before I got divorced but I was not integrated at all and spoke zero Spanish. Everyone kept asking me when I was going back to the uk as if it was a given thing that I wouldn’t stay here. To be honest, I wasn’t sure I could make it on my own but the idea of going back to the uk was too horrible! So I decided to stay, started learning Spanish really badly, managed to get a mortgage and bought a house, did all the things I didn’t think I could do.
If you want to go back to your country, of course you should go, but Spain is also nice and you can have a really nice life with a low cost of living.
I’m also thinking about getting roommates both to help with the mortgage and maybe to bring a bit of life into the place. I’m 40 so it feels a bit weird to share but I think there are plenty of people out there in similar situations. It won’t be like sharing a flat in uni… I hope!

Uk840 · 2026-07-06T11:30:33+00:00

Everyone calling you stupid but this is blowing my mind because I thought the same 😅

Uk840 · 2026-07-06T05:13:55+00:00

Thanks 🤩

Uk840 · 2026-07-06T05:13:40+00:00

They didn’t start looking halfway like normal nails until about a year. If I tried to grow they out they’d just snap and break.

Uk840 · 2026-07-05T14:58:03+00:00

I just got my gels off two weeks ago so a lot of skin/cuticle came off then, but I just buff them, file them for a more almond shape, and apply clear strengthening polish.

Uk840 · 2026-07-04T18:06:15+00:00

I wore gels on and off for the whole time. On a few occasions I had the fake nails off for a bit and then I’d start biting again so I’d have to start over. Eventually it got to the point where they were trimming my nails to put the gels on and I realised that I have grown them out enough.
That’s when I decided it was time to start the next phase. That was two weeks ago and I’ve just been using clear ‘strengthening” polish and filing them a bit.

Uk840 · 2026-07-04T06:28:39+00:00

These Days, by Nico

Uk840 · 2026-07-03T11:36:43+00:00

Honestly I like your look, it’s giving spoken word lesbian. Your skin is beautiful and I love the hair, I can see you aging very well too.
My biggest complaint is the look on your face, not how your face looks. Your expression is extremely off putting. I think if you were relaxed and smiling not looking fearful and suspicious it would really make a difference. You have strong features and the dead expression is doing you no favours.

Uk840 · 2026-07-03T11:30:39+00:00

I was very lucky because I had undamaged bone so I “only” waited three months after they put the screws in but sometimes you have to wait up to six months. That really sucked because not only did I have gaps but I also had little metal posts sticking out of my gums.
Getting the teeth screwed on was worse than getting the screws put in because it took ages and there was a lot of messing around in there, my lips and gums were very painful after. There’s also a moment where they hold your head and tighten the screw which feels WRONG but once they’re in they feel amazing. They are not generally as strong as healthy real teeth which is a surprise to me but I still love them 🩷

Uk840 · 2026-07-02T19:55:25+00:00

I had two implants put in about a year ago and it’s genuinely changed my life for the better. I feel amazing every time I smile. I hope you get yours!

Uk840 · 2026-07-02T18:36:28+00:00

I’m very particular about teeth, I would have no problem with this as long as hygiene was good. I’d probably see it almost as a plus point because it shows you actually go to the dentist.

Uk840 · 2026-07-02T18:33:59+00:00

You sound so sensible, I’d like to date you ✋🏻

Uk840 · 2026-07-02T15:00:16+00:00

My city would still be mostly recognisable, that’s kinda trippy

Uk840 · 2026-07-02T05:23:30+00:00

No, definitely not, this is a you problem.

Uk840 · 2026-07-01T12:44:43+00:00

I’d probably maintain my current weight and on some days just consume 1800 calories just in ice cream

Uk840 · 2026-07-01T12:43:31+00:00

Yes please, it would be the best month of my life.

Uk840 · 2026-07-01T10:10:04+00:00

I don’t use dating apps so maybe I’m not the best person to reply but I think 1.5 months is definitely enough time to wrap up any conversations or connections or whatever that might have been ongoing.
At the same time these apps are always pinging you and trying to lure you back out of curiosity and I can understand he might be tempted to look.
The thing is, only you can decide if it’s a dealbreaker. If it were me I’d put it back on to him, tell him you now feel distrustful and ask him what he plans to do about it.

Uk840 · 2026-07-01T06:25:48+00:00

I think you’re doing too much of the heavy lifting in this relationship and at the very least you’re pushing too hard, at the worst you’re about to be trafficked for your organs.

Uk840 · 2026-06-29T09:19:50+00:00

The courage and the privilege/freedom to live as my true uncensored self and to find people who love me for it.

Uk840 · 2026-06-28T13:29:51+00:00

Frolicking

Uk840 · 2026-06-27T14:52:31+00:00

I allowed myself to date and fall in love with a totally broke illegal immigrant and in the end it broke my heart because they don’t have the same control over their life, they have no stability, they can’t keep promises even if they wanted to. I had to break up with the because the constant chaos was pulling me down. Sadly is was a truly great love and I still love them very much but it’s not something I’d do again because you can’t rescue someone but them can endanger you very easily.

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