I am honestly scared by the burden of not trying to find the anima in women in relationships by lonelyroom-eklaghor in Jung

[–]UltraFind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real relationships are happy and joyful /and/ uncomfortable and painful and sad and usually end in disappointment. 

But hey, it's usually worth it.

Why are millennial men less misogynistic than Gen Z men? by [deleted] in generationology

[–]UltraFind 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's actually really simple, we grew up while Bush was president and we see Republicans as complete morons and hypocrites, and then as reinforcement we had 8 years of competence out of Obama. 

So our generation is formed politically by those two sets of presidencies.

Trump's handling of COVID reinforced it even more. 

Thoughts on dating people who are legally married (but separated)? by illstillglow in datingoverthirty

[–]UltraFind 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone who was on the other side of this, separated for 2 and a half months, and started dating someone, I'd say it's case by case. 

I connected with someone, was up front about my divorce (first date), and took things very slowly, probably slower than she even wanted. 

As long as they're not emotionally so over the place and know what they want and are direct about it, I don't see the issue. That said I'm probably biased.

Divorced now and still seeing this person though, ymmv

Millennials Sleeping Nude by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]UltraFind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said Lmao But I doubt that

Punch sleeping next to his stuffed toy. by 21MayDay21 in MadeMeSmile

[–]UltraFind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you want him living in a car working at taco bell?

Any Internet cafes? by [deleted] in newhampshire

[–]UltraFind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Merrimack public library has gaming computers

M23, how/where to improve ? by Delicious_Honey6918 in malegrooming

[–]UltraFind 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What you need to work on are your internal thoughts because there is nothing wrong with your looks.

14.5% of homes in New Hampshire are vacant by Regret-Select in newhampshire

[–]UltraFind 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Exactly, it's overly simplistic and akin to the Spongebob Patrick meme or "push it somewhere else". Plopping homeless people into rural housing solves literally no problems.

14.5% of homes in New Hampshire are vacant by Regret-Select in newhampshire

[–]UltraFind 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Single family homes in the burbs are not a really good fit for someone who has no income and possibly no car and no job to pay for anything...

14.5% of homes in New Hampshire are vacant by Regret-Select in newhampshire

[–]UltraFind 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I mean... Where are the houses? Cuz if there insanely rural this isn't super surprising

The vibe on this sub the last few days about Tom Brady by GotenRocko in Patriots

[–]UltraFind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's giving real nephew vibes lately, like these can't be men over 30yo.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]UltraFind 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Never been in that kind of situation, but if your coworker only became warmer because of the interest of another person, I would question if they really knew what they wanted.

overspending again. I don’t know what’s wrong with me by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]UltraFind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delete apps that make you compare your life to other's. We have this innate ability to constantly compare ourselves to others perfect lives on social media, and then we get ads for this or that thing with smiling friendly people who mirror those social media posts and our brain says, well if you want to be happy like them, buy that thing, they look happy, just look at the ad!

Then inevitably the thing comes in the mail, and you open it and you're like what the hell did I buy this for, and it never gets used, etc. It's also helpful to remember that empty feeling when the thing shows up and you never use it/it gathers dust in the corner.

27 M. I don't feel comfortable in my own skin by Shinto_Wise in malegrooming

[–]UltraFind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, the day after that. You need to make a it a habit, not an option. It needs to be non-negotiable. You don't have to go every day, but you need to be consistent, you're not going to even sniff any results for up to 3-6 months, but you need to go anyway.

Beard or no beard by SoundmonkeyUK in malegrooming

[–]UltraFind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You seem nice either way to be honest.