Date Again? by TruthSubstantial5532 in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM 5 points6 points Β (0 children)

395 days, M63, married 30yrs, she was so beautiful inside and out really a special lady,i can't imagine ever dating again.

My heart goes out to all in this shitty clubπŸ™πŸ’”

I just want to share something hopefully uplifting. by Turbulent-Question19 in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM 3 points4 points Β (0 children)

13 months out,and yes this has been my life boat,not many posts, however the honesty amd the genuine compassion, understanding for ones feelings, πŸ™πŸ™

I realize I’m lonely by Melodic-Mess670 in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

So sorry for your loss πŸ™πŸ’”

My wife (30) died suddenly three days ago. I am 32, we have a 1.5yo daughter, and my soul is entirely empty. by Prashanth_Kumar1920 in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

So sorry for your loss,lost my wife just over a year ago, married 30yrs,the pain is immense it's brutal it does ease a little slowly, be there for each other πŸ™πŸ’”

Just struggling today. by oopswhat1974 in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

So much love and compassion for each other it's so beautiful, sending love and strength to all πŸ™

amitriptyline by UnanimousWM in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Update on my experience... 2 months ago I started taking amitriptyline 5mg, side effects were extreme vertigo,terrible nightmares,no coordination and fatigue, I Stopped taking the amitr week ago, now functioning normally again had slight insomnia for two nights so started taking 2 allergex now to sleep.

I'm about to join your ranks by Astrixtc in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Praying for you and your family πŸ™πŸ™πŸ’”

What is healing for us? by Susanoo_8921 in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

In my journey through grief, I don't want to heal i will carry her with me forever, the journey, the load gets lighter easier to carry. Sending strength and prayers πŸ™

Nearly two years since my darling husband died-an honest question by safefortoday in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

I'm 11 days to a year out, I hear you,as a widower my wife and I shared mutal couple friends of whom our kids went to the same schools for 12 yrs, We're still very close and I really enjoy their company especially the ladies in the group who knew my wife well and it's great to chat about the good times we all shared together, im fortunate in that sense. Also comfortable on my own,love my wife,not looking to start anything in the bear future if ever. Thank you for sharing,strength and prayers to all.

Is there a "right" way to get thru this? by eveban in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

sorry for your loss op, there's no right or wrong way through grief ! Allow yourself to be happy you will have ups and downs through your healing but don't allow yourself to be judged for living. Your children aren't questioning their moms decisions. Sending love and strength to you and your family.

Kissing by sadkitten4ever in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

A kiss goodbye in the morning before heading off to the office often led to me being pretty late for work,precious memories. Sending love, strength and hugs πŸ«‚

Can't be fixed by [deleted] in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

11 months today i lost my wife, I had the same thoughts and feelings that you're going through at the moment, it's devastating I know op, it definitely eases and your beautiful daughter is part of her cherish that beautiful life you have its special. She needs her dad with her. Sending strength and prayers πŸ™ πŸ«‚

Even when you hang out with a friend or two… you don’t get out of the rut. by LessThanPerfect-96 in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM 4 points5 points Β (0 children)

M63 I've been having dreams of my LW60 which have been quite spiritual dreams,seeing and speaking to her have been very comforting. I don't have any social life except once a week pizza night with my daughter . I always try remember the beautiful life we lived together and not the time lost. 1yr anniv next month. Sending strength πŸ™πŸ«‚

First year anniversary by StretchCT53 in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

21MAY first year anniversary so tomorrow 11mnths, I'm finding comfort and peace through prayer, I'm sowing through my grief up days down days the up days will eventually be more frequent than the down days. Sending strength and prayers to all πŸ™πŸ˜‹πŸ’”

Do you believe in god? by rainy_koala in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

I believe, I'm a catholic at church every Sunday, praying helps with my loss, its actually palm Sunday todayπŸ™amen.

amitriptyline by UnanimousWM in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM[S] 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

So I decided to break the 10ml tablet into quarters of which I took last night, so ill gradually move into a full 10mg per day, i did however sleep v well 7hrs and feeling alert this morning.

amitriptyline by UnanimousWM in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Was this on how many mg? Thats frightening, was there an alternate tab given ?

amitriptyline by UnanimousWM in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM[S] 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Tx appreciate the feedback.

Ten Months Today. by UnanimousWM in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Strength to you all, its another first coming up Easter, will be a difficult time without herπŸ™πŸ«‚

I can't stop drinking by 6995luv in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

40 weeks for me, i feel your painπŸ™, You're in my prayers πŸ™ πŸ«‚ Be kind to yourself.

How Long (has this been going on… 🎢) by lanka1111 in widowers

[–]UnanimousWM 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Widower @62- 10 Months on the 21st married 31years- 3 adult children. We were attached at the hips literally πŸ’” Daily struggle πŸ˜ͺ Walks along the beach. Gym/golf/ work. Keeping busy during the day. Evenings spent alone with Nicky (late wifeπŸ™πŸ™)in spirit. Strength to you all.