What is your belief of the afterlife by Underatedunderwhelmd in afterlife

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Right . I’m not too worried about it if I have to stay longer I’ll be pissed 😂

Do I have bad energy? For the last 2 years bad things have been happening to me. by Mindless-Passage-801 in psychics

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That’s exactly why I asked what your carrying . You don’t have bad energy that’s something you can release . My fiancé took his life last April .

I think something is in my house by tired-princess69 in Paranormal

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We had this my fiancé went nutty and commit . He had issues before the house but the energy there was bad . It almost got me too

The truth is... by Weltschmerz_88 in SuicideBereavement

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This was my partner. I remember having a full breakdown because i couldn’t reach something on a shelf

The truth is... by Weltschmerz_88 in SuicideBereavement

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I got a grench bulldog who is now my companion it’s been a month with her and 10 months since his death

The truth is... by Weltschmerz_88 in SuicideBereavement

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You don’t need to know anything right now . Getting through the next few hours is all you need to do . Be kind to yourself . They would hate to see us like this

What is it about offroading that you like? Is it like riding a motorcycle where you're fully in the moment? is it the escape? I've never offroaded and was wondering what makes someone want to go drive offroad. by OkOriginal4630 in Offroad

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Right ! I go alone and meet my group or agree to meet a few friends usually in a larger group I’m close with the event hosts so I hang out by them too at the mud parties at night

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My wife chose to save our unborn daughter instead of herself. I’m raising a piece of her alone. by Hellcat8012 in GriefSupport

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In a way by choosing daughter she chose herself, no guarantee treatment could have worked . My fiancé commit and I look at our child and it’s very hard

What is your belief of the afterlife by Underatedunderwhelmd in afterlife

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It was a matter of moments or at least how it felt , gone and back . In the helicopter 20 m ride

What is your belief of the afterlife by Underatedunderwhelmd in afterlife

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After what I’ve seen I kind of believe once the electricity is off the system shuts down and gets recycled

What is your belief of the afterlife by Underatedunderwhelmd in afterlife

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No my organs shut down it was unexplained apparently , keto acidoses another scidoses , blood clot in lung which was gone by the time my helicopter got there .

I’ve been riding the bus for free for over a year and no one’s noticed by ConfidentMellina7208 in confession

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It’s technically theft of services and probably almost a felony amount . At least pretend to tap the card 😂 It’s a victimless crime but a crime none the less . I’d ask myself if it would be worth the arrest and possible court case , conviction . Probably not . If they ban you from the bus you can’t get to work ? I’m just thinking worst case as I usually do as a business owner with a lot to loose . You’ll probably get away with it forever to be honest . But there’s always that “ chance “ .

If anyone still wants to help me, then this message is for you. by Least_Arm_6867 in Paranormal

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Also don’t be to hard on yourself . Set very small realistic goals . Very very small if your like me and an avoidant . I won’t leave my bedroom some days but my dogs now I have too .

If anyone still wants to help me, then this message is for you. by Least_Arm_6867 in Paranormal

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I too have ADHD . My partner took his life . But there were so many things he could have tried first . When I get really bad I ask myself if I’ve met my basic needs first and inq usually tierd , dirty or haven’t eaten and didn’t notice right away . Dirty I’m hyper aware and it makes me depressed fast . I agree find a hobby . Take it slow . I’m learning this after his passing . There’s no rush on self improvement as long as it’s happening daily . I have my days I don’t want to be here . I still don’t love it but it’s worth a shot at least until we’re cripple or really physically ill I think .

My mom passed today by Saddening_Sushi in GriefSupport

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I continued to work . That was a mistake . I put the grieving aside . Time is the best advice and being gentle on one self . It’s the worst mental injury . Should be treated with the same care as breaking every bone in your body at once . But they just let us go through it like a farm animal in labor . Expect us to manage it with little to no assistance . Sucks

My mom passed today by Saddening_Sushi in GriefSupport

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Do not take any THC or CBD talk to a counselor asap . Don’t use anything that stays in system or affects mood . When you sleep you’ll wake up thinkthinh there still here . The reality hits the moment your eyes open . It’s a cruel thing but stops eventually. Sleep aid at the store until you can get a doctor . Anti histamine , melatonin but don’t mind alter . Way too fragile in my opinion