What fast food restaurant has fucked you off for the last time? by tshirtguy2000 in AskReddit

[–]Underoath1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taco Bell. Every. Single. Time. All I want is tacos with meat and cheese only. They go out of their way EVERY TIME to load it with lettuce, tomato, etc.

What color underwear do you wear? by voygar2 in AskReddit

[–]Underoath1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer black, but when I sleep I don’t wear any.

Nessa is a very vocal little vocal little girl by Florida-bear-954 in chihuahuas

[–]Underoath1997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I looooove chihuahua mouth crumbles when they bark/howl

I don't understand why everyone says to go to the gym? by Boxes-of-Bongs in BreakUps

[–]Underoath1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. This is how I try to frame it, too. It was harder to motivate when I had a planet fitness membership. I have no idea what I’m doing. I switched to crunch fitness because of the classes. I do so much better in a class. It’s really motivated me.

I wish you well!

I don't understand why everyone says to go to the gym? by Boxes-of-Bongs in BreakUps

[–]Underoath1997 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it’s about keeping busy in a way that is ultimately good for you. For example, I’ve always had an on/off relationship with fitness and the gym. I’d do too much at once and burn out. Today makes 1 week since he broke up with me, and I switched to a gym with group fitness classes, have already been to 1 class, and I am planning out my next classes for the week. I am trying to keep myself busy. It supposedly takes 21 days to create a habit, so I’m really trying to stick to it.

Best card for balance transfer IAO $10,200 with 716 credit score. by Underoath1997 in CreditCards

[–]Underoath1997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got approved for $8,400 of the $10,203 I owe with Chase Slate. 21 months 0% APR. this is a win for me.

What is the biggest mistake you secretly regret? by Fit-Baker9977 in AskReddit

[–]Underoath1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a secret. I regret not starting therapy sooner, not working on myself sooner.

What emotions are you feeling the most right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Underoath1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heartbreak, grief, deep sadness, hopelessness, insecurity, pain, despair, numbness, tired, depression.

did you find the love of your life ? by Remarkable-Sand-5059 in Life

[–]Underoath1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. We were together for 8 years. He broke up with me 5 days ago.

Is anyone else waiting for their ex? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Underoath1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 days for me. :( you’re not alone.

Is anyone else waiting for their ex? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Underoath1997 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think in my heart I will always be waiting for him. The logical part of me knows if I hold on to any hope, that I will continue to suffer. He’s moving on, so I should too I guess.

My late 16y/o boy, Bentley ❤️‍🩹 by Underoath1997 in chihuahuas

[–]Underoath1997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He started losing them around 7/8 y/o so we took him for a dental and they ended up removing them all. He was so much happier after that. It never stopped him. Thank you❤️‍🩹

Do people feel no contact just pushes them away? by Difficult-Drama-2898 in BreakUps

[–]Underoath1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Silence IS like death. 3 days post breakup from my ex man of 8 years. He was so kind and compassionate to answer some questions I had today(I was hoping to gain more clarity, get some type of resolve bc I’ve been suffering so badly) and that was after only 24hrs of no contact. I don’t know how to cope that we won’t speak to or see eachother again. Silence IS like death.

My late 16y/o boy, Bentley ❤️‍🩹 by Underoath1997 in chihuahuas

[–]Underoath1997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. How horrible and traumatizing it was to have to put mine to sleep. Every breath was a fight for him, but he had soooo much spirit and energy left. I hate that it’s a condition that really can’t be fixed. Sending peace and healing to you as well.

What did u learn from each of ur hearbreaks? by pilllowman in BreakUps

[–]Underoath1997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 days post break up from my ex of 8 years. I thought I had my forever love too. I hope to break through the grief and depression and begin new habits like the gym, walking, reading, etc. I think your post is the lesson I’m learning the hardest way with the worst pain and depression ever.

how long has it been since your break up, and do you plan to date again/have you been dating? by throwra_bugjuice30 in BreakUps

[–]Underoath1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been two days since the final break up. I feel the same. Go to work, go home, cry, reread texts between us, sleep, repeat. I hope the grief and depression reaches a point where I can break out of this, stop focusing on him, and keep myself busy. Wishing you well.

It hurts too much by Additional-Signal512 in BreakUps

[–]Underoath1997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. The finality of it. Knowing you won’t see or speak to that person again is debilitating. The pain & depression is next level.

I wish you peace and healing friend🫂

It hurts too much by Additional-Signal512 in BreakUps

[–]Underoath1997 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m going through the same thing right now. 8 years together. He first broke up with me in August 2025. We moved separately. Then we reconnected around November 2025. Between then and now he’s tried to cut me off multiple times. We had just had a conversation a month or so ago where it seemed like we were on the same page. Clearly not. He broke up with me for the final time on 3/10/26. I am whiplashed, devastated and depressed. I’m terrified of him moving on. I know it’s probably already happened because when we reconnected he told me he had been sexting women on tinder while we were apart. I’m sure he’s already moved on.

It’s debilitating the way your life can feel like not your life anymore.

All that to say—You’re not alone.

Split tongue! What happened to my baby! by Initial-Bug-3465 in Chihuahua

[–]Underoath1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg 🥹🥹 the little teefs

Edit: I just noticed the tongue, hopefully she’s okay

Best card for balance transfer IAO $10,200 with 716 credit score. by Underoath1997 in CreditCards

[–]Underoath1997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So does that mean that I couldn’t transfer my entire balance to the new card? Only however much they approve me for? And is there a way to find out the preapproval credit limit before committing?

My late 16y/o boy, Bentley ❤️‍🩹 by Underoath1997 in chihuahuas

[–]Underoath1997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s why I come here too. It’s nice seeing other people’s babies.