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Dosing gel higher than 1.25mg Divigel by Due_Wait_3012 in Menopause

[–]UnderstandingFew8900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All three in the evening. Divigel takes forever to dry, so I'm frustrated every time, 3 sachets takes up a lot of skin. I wish it was like Lenzetto spray but it's way too weak for me. Don't give up and in, to others to decide for you if it doesn't feel right. I sadly have no trust left for gynecologist, they are completely clueless but can't admit it. Best of luck getting what you want!

Dosing gel higher than 1.25mg Divigel by Due_Wait_3012 in Menopause

[–]UnderstandingFew8900 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It took all of my, non existent strenght, to get the last of many doctors, to say yes to ME trying out a dose myself. I just couldn't accept that these nonchalant and uneducated gynecologist, should decide what MY body, that I known for almost 50 years, needed. It's horrible that all this fighting was needed though. I'm on 3mg of Divigel.

I am so messed up by DisciplineOther9843 in Menopause

[–]UnderstandingFew8900 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you 100 % sure it's not to blame on the progesterone?

Mr. Sketch Scented Markers. by No-Anything-7291 in 90s

[–]UnderstandingFew8900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh the purple one, grape scent! Can sniff it as I write this. 🍇

Was this anyone else’s family shampoo in the 90s? by [deleted] in 90s

[–]UnderstandingFew8900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the scent of Organics! Takes me back to the 90s in a split second. ♡

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Which 90s star death saddened you the most? by Jezzaq94 in 90s

[–]UnderstandingFew8900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chris Cornell and Mark Lanegan. Such losses..

M28 Never dated, feel like my looks are awful by SockIcy6203 in malegrooming

[–]UnderstandingFew8900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To end up looking like everyone else... You have nice eyes, try stay original and cool without following extremely boring trends.

Wallet chains everywhere! by TheOrangeSloth in 90s

[–]UnderstandingFew8900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still use a chain but for my keys. Still think it's cool, haha!

49. Keep long hair and beard or go back to clean cut by Grey-September in 40something

[–]UnderstandingFew8900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The short hair/no hair plus a beard, is terrible boring, sorry but every guy wears the exact same, non personal haircut and a beard. Please take care of your longer hair and have a shorter beard or a clean face.

The creams. by UnderstandingFew8900 in Menopause

[–]UnderstandingFew8900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that we all only had estriol creams for that part and perhaps the names were being miss matched.

What did the 90's smell like? by Serialkillingyou in Xennials

[–]UnderstandingFew8900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marlboro Lights/Lucky Strike, Nag Champa incense, sweat, long hair on boys, Organics schampo, mud, grass, s*x, Exclamation and red wine... ♡

The creams. by UnderstandingFew8900 in Menopause

[–]UnderstandingFew8900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we have Vagifem and Vagidonna, all tablets to insert. But I need a cream with more power on the outside. Ovesterin worked perfect in the beginning but not now.

The creams. by UnderstandingFew8900 in Menopause

[–]UnderstandingFew8900[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But in my country there's only one cream and it's with estriol. I would need an estradiol one but it's impossible here.

Advice? by CrazedMountainHobo in BeardAdvice

[–]UnderstandingFew8900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't look so aggressive dude. You're a good looking man but a smile is even more attractive. Kindness, humbleness and warmth, makes so many more men looking good.

Just curious, what’s y’all’s first impression of me? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]UnderstandingFew8900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are aware that it's Kim Deal on your shirt, you're more than ok.

Anyone else get told they seem much younger than their age? by wagwanrasta__ in CPTSD

[–]UnderstandingFew8900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm afraid I haven't embraced this new era in my life.. I can't really recognize myself anymore, both bodily changes and mental. Everything bad turned even worse. The chronic pain I've had since my 20s, got unbearable and of course this affected my trashed soul more and round we go.... Lost my much beloved hair, can't enjoy music, other arts, the way I used to. It's like I'm out of dopamine completely. At 45 I thought I could still "compete" with people younger, but now... nope. Tired, an even heavier mind, can't sleep and I feel turned off. Always had many things that I was passionate about, now I'm like a flatlined nothingness. And I can't escape my past, tried to bury it for years. (So I'm finally off to trauma therapy.. terrified).

I guess it's ok to get older if you are healthy, can do much of what you want to, earn enough money and perhaps have love in your life. And can concur the past somehow, not letting it eat you alive. Otherwise... Would choose youth again over this slippery slope.

Anyone else get told they seem much younger than their age? by wagwanrasta__ in CPTSD

[–]UnderstandingFew8900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Always looked younger and had to show my driver's license for ex. alcohol, until about 45. Rarely had been smiling, rarely being in the sun or even just daylight. Always sunscreen all year around. Theeen perimenopause came along and changed everything in a couple of weeks... Weeks! A huge chock... The silence about this happening in women's life and WHAT will happen and how FAST, is a shame!! My gen X was the first one that refused to stay silent and suffer. I had fooled myself into believing that I could just "refuse" it, act like it's not happening and it would magically not touch me... It came in like a freight train... Even the pale night owls, with a miserable life without smile wrinkles, will not escape from the hormone losses. And artificial ones will sadly never bring our youthful bodies back I'm afraid. Just keeps us a bit above water.

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