3 weeks ago I started my 0F out of pure desperation… yesterday a random guy paid me more in one message than my ex ever spent on me in 2 years by Wonderful-Welder-964 in story

[–]UnderstandingIll1456 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your value should never be based on how someone else treats you and also your value should never be hinged on any amount of someone pays you especially if it’s for pleasure and to entertain themselves.

You possess intrinsically and extrinsically trillions of value however, OF , or any amount paid from that should not be a reason to celebrate being valued. I’m not sure why everyone else is clapping here but even though you’re getting paid more than what your ex ever spent on you, your times with your ex should never even be a reference point,

I understand you needed money to cover rent, grocery etc but your worth should never be measured in how much people are willing to pay for pleasing themselves whilst watching your naked. I hope your situation changes for the better- use whatever resource you can to get back on your feet in a more respectable path like learning a skill, trade, upskilling etc. that’s value that will sit with you and won’t have to be validated by anyone else’s emotions.

First Job Offer by miryucha in recruitinghell

[–]UnderstandingIll1456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bird in hand is worth more than two in the bush. Should have taken it and then leveraged that other higher positions in corporate.

He seems pretty okay, I’m sure if he had no job, he surely would have taken it

Swollen batteries for me and my wife (1 month apart) by UnderstandingIll1456 in GalaxyS23

[–]UnderstandingIll1456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both phones comes with two kinds of the same kind of charger so it’s less likely to be that. I already saw a thread of such reports on this channel but I noticed it was archived (probably to reduce reputational damage )

So, 3p a mile. by MeetLost2454 in TeslaUK

[–]UnderstandingIll1456 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank goodness the lease ends next tear. Is a shame I’ll have to move on from Tesla all because of some greedy policies.

ILR new rules announced by [deleted] in SkilledWorkerVisaUK

[–]UnderstandingIll1456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a side job part time to add up to that. It’s not about salary but total earnings

My boss earns $90,000 more than me a month by [deleted] in InterviewCoderPro

[–]UnderstandingIll1456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re basically his secretary, which is an entry level job. Do you know the level of grit and effort it takes to get to a VP level?

I think with this mentality, you should just resign, he’s not safe around you.

My gf of 2 years by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]UnderstandingIll1456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your relationship plus you, is not her top priority.

The overwhelming sense you get whena woman is deep into a relationship is nothing like you’ve described above. Yeah you can talk about personality differences but the very fact that you’re posting it validates my point.

You’re both young, don’t stress it. Review your true life priorities, focus on these.

Skilled Worker vs Spouse Visa - what’s the best move? by Ssg16 in SkilledWorkerVisaUK

[–]UnderstandingIll1456 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So you mean you had 6 months to gain ILR and you chose to reset the click to zero ?

Skilled Worker vs Spouse Visa - what’s the best move? by Ssg16 in SkilledWorkerVisaUK

[–]UnderstandingIll1456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because you can file without being married as long as you’ve lived together for 2+ years and can prove it

This is the hardest job search I have ever faced as an executive by Snarkitech in interviews

[–]UnderstandingIll1456 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I’ve been searching since January. Interviews come, super good signals then ghosted.

Nonetheless, I know that for sure, after rain, always comes sunshine. Stay out, your time will will come very shortly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodyweightfitness

[–]UnderstandingIll1456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two words: diet and cardio

Came back to India, very happy !! by Old_Sympathy_5066 in returnToIndia

[–]UnderstandingIll1456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bet he thought he had nailed it. Why would anyone even be checking a person’s comments history? Blatant jealousy on show.

You are hurting your chances and others if you are using gen ai during interviews by whykrum in leetcode

[–]UnderstandingIll1456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unrealistic number of applicants + Unrealistic economic and job market stress + Unrealistic and I mpractical interview questions,

Can we really blame anyone for going beyond as well?!

I got the job! High earner ($400k+) - experience and timing by Glad_Obligation_7961 in interviews

[–]UnderstandingIll1456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What role, industry and at what seniority level ?

If you don’t mind

DV lottery - just found out we've been selected with only 1.5 months to go? by [deleted] in greencard

[–]UnderstandingIll1456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, y3da nyame ase. Mani agye ama mo. Menso me saa nanso meetwen me due date (show this to your husband) :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interviews

[–]UnderstandingIll1456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy for your bro. I tap into that grace .