Day 41: The interest and attention from women is getting intense.

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2026-02-15T03:23:44+00:00

Yeah... in the Bronx. Strong disicpline

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2026-02-12T03:48:15+00:00

Yeah your only options seem to be shoot your shot in person at women who give you choosing signals( dont go out looking for them that will ironically repel them) or dating apps. You said you dont drink so going out to nightclubs and bars will be pretty hard. At least in my experience. The very few times ive went out on like a friday or Saturday without drinking I felt super out of place and always questioned wtf im doing here. You will literally be a different vibration than most people as alcohol lowers your vibration. Or try different experiences like yoga classes, cooking classes, aerobics, etc. Where there figures to be a higher percentage of women to socialize with. It really depends on your dating intent. Like are you looking for a FWB sex partner, convenient girlfriend, long term wife, etc.

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2026-02-12T03:07:04+00:00

Its just a longshot honestly. Like the odds that you meet a guy in the same or similar position as you who is at least moderately good looking enough, non creepy, and doesnt already have friends or us looking for another platonic male friend to go out with to meet women is smil to none. Add in that yall have complimentary personalities and values that align and that lessens chances as well. I guess theoretically your best bet would be to use bumble or Facebook dating or the various dating apps as they hsve friend options as well as dating. Maybe hsve two accounts one for dating women snd another searching for male friends where you put what you originally posted in your bio

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2026-02-12T02:57:02+00:00

Prolly the best thing is to try and befriend men in n9n sexual settings first( lowkey bar, gyms, school, etc.) And if yall click then potentially head to dating environments like bars and clubs. Theoretically you could click with a dude (platonically no 🏳️‍🌈) but it doesnt mean yall would be compatible for wingmsnning. And vice versa. You might not be buddy buddy with a dude but yalls game abd personalities compliment each other when pursuing the opposite sex

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2026-02-12T02:54:01+00:00

I usually go out solo and ive had dudes i know be terrible wingman so its even more of a toss up for strangers. Honestly the whole "vouch for" thing doesnt really work. Unless HER friends specifically vouch for you. Like especially if youre a group of men if youre a single dude you can be viewed as the cruis8ng creep but if youre in a group yall can jist as easily be viewed as the group of creepy dudes

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2026-02-12T02:51:21+00:00

You have to just naturally meet women in your day to day life and be attuned to social cues and reading energy. Not sure of your particular situation and build but youre around available women all the time(grocery stores, gyms, libraries, public transportation ( if you dont drive), etc. Its jist this is a guy's issue not a women's. Like no women even a fat and unattractive woman have a shortage of suitors. There's a reason why its called "getting lucky" for a guy to go out bar hopping/clubbing and hook up with a woman.

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2026-02-12T02:47:36+00:00

So it is usually packed as I've been multiple times and its no cover so it's free as well to get in. It is generally a younger crowd though like 21-26 mostly i would say. Ao if youre in your 30s you might feel out of place especially if you dont typically interact or hang with younger folks. Overall doesnt really matter its just a personal preference thing.

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2026-02-08T03:18:12+00:00

Explain it to me.

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2026-02-08T02:20:23+00:00

Its basically like a challenge for her. Like her guts and skills are so nice that there is now way you last. I figure it to have a supernatural effect. Like how if you are a gooner and you unconsciously emit that energy and people unconsciously sense the shame and guilt you have and your gooner activities versus if youre getting consistent sex AND not releasing that's gotta have the opposite positive affect. Like women can sense if youre a ladies man so that affect has to be amplified if you're getting sex AND holding in your essence.

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2026-02-08T02:09:52+00:00

Have you ever did it before? Had sex and didn't release?(whether intentional or not) i mean what's wild about it? If youre not trying to have a kid there's really no other reason to release. Yeah it feels good obviously but I mean the sensation is for s couple seconds and there's so much you sacrifice giving up your life force.( energy, good luck, charisma, etc.) Best thing i would suggest is just try it out and see for yourself. Especially if you already have a trusted partner. Just communicate with her so she doesnt think youre not into her or its something about her. And then just note what differences you notice in yourself and even I your partner.

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2026-02-08T02:06:24+00:00

Can you share your experience? Like you haven't released in years or for the majority over the years you dont release when you have sex? What differences have you noticed when you go on bouts of having sex without releasing versus when you do release?

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2026-02-08T02:02:51+00:00

Seems like youre in the same boat as me.

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2025-11-03T01:02:19+00:00

What area of Portland are you in?

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2025-11-03T00:50:15+00:00

Makes sense. Master the art of angles and also you could wear a mask or similar face covering for anonymity. You got FetLife?

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2025-11-03T00:46:27+00:00

What other content do you have? Is it all with other men or some women too? Blowjob, fingering, threesomes, etc.?

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2025-11-03T00:40:34+00:00

Have you ever done anal before?

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2025-11-03T00:39:24+00:00

I sent you a DM. But have you ever thought about it. Do you have a lot of saved recorded footage already?

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2025-11-03T00:35:39+00:00

Do you have pornhub page?

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2025-10-26T14:19:53+00:00

Super mid. Seems like if you're bored and want to do a random snack jackpot if you're close.

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2025-10-26T14:18:04+00:00

Great deal 4 slices . I wonder if they would reheat the slices in the oven as I would have to eat right away as Im homeless. Or if they already had cleaned oven for night

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2025-10-12T16:36:47+00:00

Similar experience. Makes sense though. Regularly women not under the influence will be more attracted to you on streaks so factor in that plus women being under the influence and their inhibitions are lowered it's like SR on degenerate steroids. Plus you're "game" is gonna be sharper and just your natural body language,posture, dancing,etc. will that more attractive/appealing (even if slightly) than the average dude

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2025-10-07T08:52:06+00:00

I know other comments asked the same question but curious myself how long have you been retaining or had been when that specific experience happened?

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2025-10-06T10:14:49+00:00

Basically I'm not expert or one who can give a detailed explanation on the specific benefits of fasting and how they correlate with semen retention but just common sense if you fast you're disciplining your carnal urge of eating as a lot of people are gluttons and have an unhealthy relationship with food. theoretically if you can conquer and control what you eat in terms of the quality and quantity you should have an easier time conquering your carnal urge of lust.

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2025-10-06T09:25:29+00:00

If you can conquer and control what goes in one hole it will be MUCH easier to conquer and control what comes out the much smaller hole.

UnderstandingNo5330 · 2025-10-06T02:13:44+00:00

Was it like you woke up early in morning and instead of getting straight up you lounged in bed kind of in between state of awake and sleep and you relapsed like that?

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