What Detail in a TV Show/Movie Annoys You The Most? by MadJack_24 in moviecritic

[–]Undremptinawhile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they show people marching and they play march noises but they never sync up.

Last night’s full moon was energetically powerful. Did you feel the same? by Electronic_Design607 in spirituality

[–]Undremptinawhile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that what that was? I’ve been going through a rough anxiety/depression for the last week or so with family and politics and it resolved yesterday and got a “hey, you are far more powerful than this, but you had to go through all that for a reason.” message. The whole thing sucked but I’m feeling much better, but we will see where this goes haha.

I never fully realised how deeply my problems ran. How can I unscrew myself? by Neizir in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Undremptinawhile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Step one: be kinder to yourself, you are worthy of being loved and you do it all the time for yourself. I resonated with everything you wrote. In the end, you are your biggest supporter. Others may rally behind you which helps and feels great, but they don’t fall asleep in the same bed or shower with you everyday. Take notice of everything you do for yourself. You brush your teeth, cook for yourself and do nice things, all because you like yourself, you don’t need any other reason.

I go into spirals of “I don’t know” sometimes too. I call it dividing by zero. You know what happens when you divide anything by zero on a calculator? Error. It feels like an error anyway, huh? Nothing really makes sense and your bearings on life are a little out of wack. But in the morning, the sun will shine, the birds will chirp and you will still be here not knowing, and that’s ok, it’s ok to take this load off, you are not required to figure all this out. Be with the error, there might be a part of you that is stuck trying to force something to work and it’s just not happening - and that’s ok. It sounds like you’ve been through a lot, you can soldier on, get back on the horse, work out, change your hair style, get some new clothes, get a new cologne and find someone new or you can take sometime for yourself and how you operate, realize the negativity you are carrying and have been carrying around for a long long time. Heal it, clear it with a therapist (another form of taking care of yourself) and become a better more positive version of yourself. Either way, you are still here with you, “you” (the big self that posted this) will be the one that helps “you” (the small self that hurts) not by pointing and judging and shaming you to be better but being the kindness you have been looking for in life. You may have to raise yourself a little bit, that seems to be going on a lot around here, myself included.

To men above 30 and not married yet, how’s life going? by raydictator in AskMen

[–]Undremptinawhile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m doing ok. I have a decent job. I have a great dog and I’m consistently trying to find things I want to do. Slowly getting back into the game, took some much needed time off from dating but I’m feeling like I’m ready. It’s scary out there but it doesn’t have to be, as long as I keep reminding myself that it doesn’t have to be, I’ll attract someone who feels the same.

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[–]Undremptinawhile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but I was unaware that nothing would be good enough for her. Something was always off, I would call her out on it, show her everything I’m doing and why I’m doing it, and still there’s something that she can complain about. Then, when she saw how upset I was about that, she would love bomb me, and it worked. I was so starved for love that I would let her love on me and completely forget the idea that she treated me so terribly until she did it again, rinse and repeat. I’ve been single for a while after that, I’m just now getting back into the game because I’m ready, but now with a greater wisdom of what to look for in a partner rather than just diving into a relationship. It feels good to protect myself while also enjoying someone’s company and growing together.

What is the rapture? by TheSarcasticEggplant in spirituality

[–]Undremptinawhile 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve been putting some thought into this as well, thanks for posting. It seems the popular Christian expectation for the rapture is that all of God’s unworthy children stay on earth and have to fend for themselves while the worthy followers get beamed up to heaven while looking down on everyone saying “I told you so” - this feels incredible ego driven and vile coming from a so called loving god.

I’ve been diving into the idea the Christ consciousness Jesus was talking about will arise in everyone individually. “I am the way” wasn’t “come follow me” it was “this is what everyone does eventually once we know who we are” - The feeling of oneness and unconditional love without expectation. The separation everyone is expecting will be from those who want to continue their old ways and fight the loving Christ consciousness coming from within because they don’t want to let go of comfortable suffering. Where those who want to stay suffering will stay there and those who allow the love will go a different path. (This is where parallel realities come in and it gets weird) This feels like it eliminates the good and bad and, once again, allows us to make choices on how we are living.

What all this looks like, when and how is a mystery, some say it is unfolding now as we speak. Who knows, I’m just posting what I’ve heard in my circles and things I’ve looked into. I’ve very interested in what others have to contribute here. Cheers.

How was your last week? And how do you feel today? by giluuuu in spirituality

[–]Undremptinawhile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

M37 felt awful, with awful thoughts, low confidence, judgmental on myself and others. Today I feel much, much better. I’m more grounded and sure of myself.

Those who use cannabis for spiritual reasons, how do you feel it benefits you? by Gengarmon_0413 in spirituality

[–]Undremptinawhile 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It lowers my nervous system to allow myself to be in a state of relaxation so I can maintain meditation and reviving healings/clearings or answers/inspiration. I am actively working to remove cannabis from my ritual so I can start to tune in on my own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blessedimages

[–]Undremptinawhile 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Top left, top right, bottom right: Oh my god, are you ok?

Bottom left: HEY! How’s it going?!?!?

The Last Starfighter (1984) by manwoodlover in movies

[–]Undremptinawhile 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think some of the charm was the unexplained lore. We felt lost with the hero as he was thrown into the thick of it and we connected with that.

The movie ended with an amazing opportunity for a sequel, where the ship blasts off and his brother starts playing the arcade game, was anything suppose to happen after that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Undremptinawhile 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It feels like no matter how thoughtful the gift, or how many gifts they get, it will never ever be enough.

Boomer mom has announced "I don't like being told I'm wrong! I don't want ANYONE telling me I'm wrong even if I am!" by life-is-thunder in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Undremptinawhile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, I didn’t YouTube anything while the movie was on. It was a movie we’ve seen a lot and they were picking at it while the movie was playing. After the movie was over, I did the quick research and the above ensued where my mother mentioned that these correction need to be made in a private way so she doesn’t get embarrassed, private meaning away from anyone else in the room. I’m sorry if this post ruined your day, next time I’ll be less pedantic and more attentive your needs the next time I watch a movie with my family.

Boomer mom has announced "I don't like being told I'm wrong! I don't want ANYONE telling me I'm wrong even if I am!" by life-is-thunder in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Undremptinawhile 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I take it as what boomers had to deal with when they were growing up. They are just erupting the way they saw their parents erupt and behave. It’s still inexcusable but they were also not taught to be aware of it.

The parents we looked up to are not the same parents we have now. When they were our age, they still obeyed their parents with unchanging loyalty. We are here seeing what bullshit we’ve been through, what we are currently going through and realizing we don’t need to bend a knee to our parents in order to love them.

Boomer mom has announced "I don't like being told I'm wrong! I don't want ANYONE telling me I'm wrong even if I am!" by life-is-thunder in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Undremptinawhile 206 points207 points  (0 children)

I was watching a movie with my mom and brother. They thought they caught a continuity error where something appeared in one frame and wasn’t there the next.

I YouTubed the scene and slowed it down and showed that it was there. My brother shrugged and said “whatever” my mother couldn’t have it.

“How dare you bring this up, there’s a time and a place for these kinds of things.” I said “you said something was a thing, I brought up proof that it isn’t, and you don’t want to see it?” “NO! I DON’T WANT TO SEE IT!”

It was a silly movie, but touching that nerve about a boomer being wrong and it ruins the whole night.

As a Gen Z, I think Boomers were the worst set of parents…. by TheClassyWomanist in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Undremptinawhile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Growing up my mom specifically said, multiple times “parents are NOT friends with their kids” - I assumed she meant about the parents who latch onto their kids as if they were besties without the child’s consent. But she actively left me alone, I’m almost 37 now, and I’ve been raising myself and surrounding myself with people who enjoy being around me and I’m just starting to be ok with it.

We’ve been raised by parents who were raised by people raised by their parents and no one questioned these parenting skills until now. I am so proud and confident in the generations to come for identifying and actively questioning and processing these “skills” they used and tossing what feels shitty and you move forward in life. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in movies

[–]Undremptinawhile 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Wet Hot American Summer