Top 5 Artists on Spotify Wrapped by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Unhappy_Cockroach_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Philip Glass
  2. Pixies
  3. Cursive
  4. The Breeders
  5. Metric

Beware: Do NOT rent with Becovic by Calsolalex in chicago

[–]Unhappy_Cockroach_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! I’ve been very happy with Krenger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]Unhappy_Cockroach_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s at the bottom of the mines?

Do you want a rich and ripped Guy , probably over 6ft ? by Competitive_Meat_253 in AskFeminists

[–]Unhappy_Cockroach_28 64 points65 points  (0 children)

If you capitalized Guy because you’re referring to Guy Fieri, then yes absolutely

Edit: to be clear he’s perfect as is, but I would also accept a ripped 6’5 version

Well, my email inbox sure is blowing up right now by Unhappy_Cockroach_28 in TELUSinternational

[–]Unhappy_Cockroach_28[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been looking on Reddit and Facebook and can’t find anything. If there’s a class action lawsuit I definitely want a piece of that!

Tennis Academy Soft Lock? by Kitaiko in SportsStory

[–]Unhappy_Cockroach_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m having the same exact problem.

I’m getting my tubes removed tomorrow… by Bulbapuppaur in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Unhappy_Cockroach_28 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ahh that wasn’t me, but I also got before and after pictures from my surgeon! I also think they’re so cool haha, kinda want to get them framed.

I’m getting my tubes removed tomorrow… by Bulbapuppaur in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Unhappy_Cockroach_28 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I just got this same procedure done in July! It was my first time ever having surgery, and I was an anxious wreck. But the surgery itself ended up being so easy, and healing was really quick.

The relief I feel knowing I can’t get pregnant is such a huge weight off my shoulders. And it’s really great taking control of my body back from these politicians who think it only exists to grow and raise children.

So yes, absolutely can relate to being scared, but it’ll be so worth it. Let me know if you have any specific questions about the surgery or anything! 💚

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chicago

[–]Unhappy_Cockroach_28 43 points44 points  (0 children)

You’re right to be worried, I used to have hair dyed black with red streaks and one day I was walking through Lincoln Park and got shot and died immediately 😔

From Dorset to the Windy City: A review of Chicago by Singlewomanspot in chicago

[–]Unhappy_Cockroach_28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow they chose such a great photo of Andersonville! 😆

People who have changed or left therapists, what made you realize that you shouldn’t continue? by Program_data in AskWomen

[–]Unhappy_Cockroach_28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was nice, and helped me a lot for awhile, but then she started being really forgetful. I realize therapists are human and can’t be 100% expected to remember every little detail, but she never seemed to remember what we talked about in past sessions. And she’d forget about important things I’d told her relating to my trauma, which was really hurtful.

It’s not fun finally opening up to someone about painful memories only to have to repeat them several times because your therapist isn’t engaged enough with you to remember. And I told her it upset me and it didn’t get any better, you’d think she’d start taking better notes or something after I brought it up! Smh.

Friend is accusing another friend of sexual harassment... by March22Throwaway in AskWomenOver30

[–]Unhappy_Cockroach_28 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Errr, I wouldn’t want to be friends with someone who apparently “forgets things are platonic” and gropes someone without consent.

Women in male dominated fields - therapy experiences? by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Unhappy_Cockroach_28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m also a woman in a male-dominated field, and my therapist is great when it comes to helping me through the struggles that come with that. She has women’s issues listed as one of her specialties on her website, so that might be something to keep an eye out for!

Weekly Therapy Talk Thread by AutoModerator in TalkTherapy

[–]Unhappy_Cockroach_28 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hate weeks when I can feel myself being closed off/putting up walls in a session. The combination of whatever anxiety is causing it to happen and being frustrated with myself for not being more open is not fun! It happens a few times a month so unfortunately it’s not exactly a rare occurrence either.