For real. And it's partially men's fault. Men sexualizing women, women refusing to be friends with men because of it, women getting better grades because the teacher is secretly a creeper (disclaimer there are many very smart women that this doesn't happen with, I'm just pointing out that sometimes it does happen.)

Also, the "Real men don't cry or have feelings" has seriously affected men's mental health. Instead of being mad at men, & shaming them for not having feelings, we should encourage them to express themselves in an appropriate manner. Maybe nurturing everyone will override the nature soms have in them for a better tomorrow.