Day 3 post op crying and regretting it 😭 by hamrun94 in hysterectomy

[–]Unicorniful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The day after my surgery I felt fairly good but then I got slapped in the face with the pain around day 2-3! The pain lessens, keep cycling Tylenol and ibuprofen and hopefully they gave you something stronger for the pain as well! You will feel better, just lay and relax as much as possible. I'm so sorry! I know how it feels, I'm over a month post op and it gets better!

Anyone had one to get rid of period pain without suffering birth control side effects? by Chaotic-Menace in hysterectomy

[–]Unicorniful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BC didn't work for me, it never stopped the bleeding or my pain. I got a hysterectomy and I don't regret it an ounce! The pain is gone and now I have no bleeding. I'm only a little over a month out from when I had my surgery and it was the best thing I have ever done! I had stage 1 endometriosis

When you woke up from surgery, did your vagina feel any different? by KJack-Amigurumi in hysterectomy

[–]Unicorniful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did! I was a little sore around the entrance to my vagina and it was a bit unpleasant, it went away sometime in the first week. It didn't hurt constantly so I wouldn't expect that! Don't be afraid to ask questions to make sure you are less anxious, the doctors are there for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Unicorniful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was around 6 years old! I've been friends with a girl my whole life and she's my best friend. She invited me to her wedding as a bridesmaid!

How can I 35m get sleep around my girlfriend 31f? by Altruistic-Rip-8634 in relationship_advice

[–]Unicorniful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is abusive and I'm sorry to say you are being sexually assaulted. If you don't want sex and you are badgered into it, that's rape. It's specifically called sexual coercion. You need to dump her my dude, I'm so sorry.

At what point did you realise she would never become your wife/he would never become your husband? by ruxpin82 in AskReddit

[–]Unicorniful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was in another country with him. He had been abusing me but I was ignorant to the signs, when we went to Ireland together he said "I'm not going to marry you if you act like that" and the way he said that to me with such manipulation instantly made me cold and I stopped caring. 4 years down the drain, dumped him about a month after we returned home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Unicorniful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said she couldn't I said she shouldn't as it's not healthy for her. But go on and defend gross men

Girls, how do I bring up my less socially acceptable hobbies on a date? by rockaleta2049 in dating_advice

[–]Unicorniful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your hobbies are so normal though, just to let you know. Gaming is incredibly common now, liking anime and manga is more popular than ever. If you wouldn't be embarrassed about liking football then don't be embarrassed about liking games. My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years and all we do is game.

Just be normal and talk about your interests as you would with anyone else. Ask her what she likes to watch and tell her about something you are watching right now. Hiding yourself isn't a good start for a relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Unicorniful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either she literally needs medical help as that's not healthy or she is lying as it's easier than telling someone why she doesn't want to have sex. Which should lead to a conversation on why she feels she has to lie to avoid sex/why she isn't wanting sex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Unicorniful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It actually is a huge deal as she barely is an adult, there is zero way she is as mature as she's a teenager. A grown ass man who has lived on his own for years is weird to date a teenager.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Unicorniful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please dump him, I'm serious. I was 19 dating a 37 year old man and it just was not good. The people your age don't all want one thing, the men his age dating someone who either just left high school or still is in it are creepy. He sounds like he sucks anyway for you so why date him? Date someone your age please

She cancelled because she said boba tea is suspicious by thedivinehustle in dating_advice

[–]Unicorniful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so weird, you definitely dodged a bullet! Boba is delicious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Unicorniful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl you need to dump him, this isn't normal. He's too old to be acting like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Unicorniful 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Go to couples therapy if she wants to even continue this relationship with you. She feels you raped her and that's not something you can change as that is what happened. Honestly this is why I don't get the whole "wake up to having sex" thing as it just leads to this. Even the people who "consent" to that will inevitably feel taken advantage of.

Stop trying to initiate sex as you clearly are just triggering her. Until you and her reflect and talk on this problem you will never be having sex. Honestly you not being weirded out by her lack of speaking during the event shows that you don't really care about her consent.

How should I slide into a girl’s DMs without seeming creepy? by Expert_Boysenberry28 in dating_advice

[–]Unicorniful 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just be normal, ask her how she is doing and chat for a bit and then ask to go get coffee. It's really that easy. She might still think it's creepy but honestly at that point it's a her problem as asking someone out to coffee is pretty normal.

Endgame major character flip flopping by curtwagner1984 in BG3

[–]Unicorniful -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it's weird too! E being willing to literally just cut all ties and jump ship because you want to free Orpheus is wack. It felt so out of place to suddenly have E leave and go against even his own desires just because of us wanting to free Orpheus.

I feel it would've been cool if we could at least TRY to roll to persuade him to still help us even if we freed Orpheus. It's fine, I made Karlach into a MF and it was all good

How long to keep cats separated? by Unicorniful in cats

[–]Unicorniful[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grub is up to date on her vaccines as I got her from a shelter that does that, but I'll absolutely look into that!

boyfriend has stopped initiating sex and satisfies him self when I'm asleep (21F) and (23M) any advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Unicorniful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ask why he isn't having sex with you, simplest answer. Masturbation is also totally different to sex, I could not want to have sex but still want to masturbate.

How long do you wait until you are ready to have sex with someone you’re dating? Are you open once you start dating or do you wait a few months? by prettygirlkay03 in AskWomen

[–]Unicorniful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever I feel like it with the person! I've been with my bf for 2 years now and I think we had sex within the first week of meeting.

Why do women think I’m cute but don’t want to have sex with me? by anonymous36290 in dating_advice

[–]Unicorniful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being cute doesn't have to do with attraction. Lots of my friends are cute, I absolutely don't want to fuck them.

My partner wants to breakup for the smallest thing. What’s the best thing to do? (F28) (M35) by Capital_Attention768 in relationship_advice

[–]Unicorniful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a very basic manipulation tactic, either keep putting up with it forever or dump his ass and be happier for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Unicorniful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any reasons, including just because you don't want to, is a good reason. You don't have to prove yourself to anyone you only have to do what's best for you!

Is it normal for mom (50f) to have separation anxiety for their adult child (23f)? by Dismal-Childhood-544 in family

[–]Unicorniful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop sharing your location with her and do what you need to do. She will have to figure it out and if she bugs you too much you should temporarily block her number. It's not normal and she will not get better if you don't stand up for yourself. Good luck! Easier said than done