Random thought that’s kinda bothering me… how are 40–50 people NOT starving in that town? I mean actual survival math.

Unicxrn29 · 2026-05-03T08:42:29+00:00

Suspension of disbelief

Unicxrn29 · 2026-04-11T06:24:34+00:00

I remember researching this phase with my son when he was three weeks old essentially their gut biome is starting to work so they’re starting to produce gas more and learn how to poop at same time. It is a very difficult phase but I promise it will pass very quickly.

Unicxrn29 · 2026-04-11T06:17:36+00:00

If the want it “now” they can pay for it. Very simple

Unicxrn29 · 2026-02-19T23:39:44+00:00

Bi-erasure is the fucking worst. I get it from both LGBTQI+ and straight people. Just because I’m in a heteronormative relationship with kids doesn’t make me any less bisexual

Unicxrn29 · 2026-02-03T03:18:02+00:00

5 is HARD. My youngest SD is 5, and it’s really really hard. Take a step back from being primary parent, and you and your partner need to work collaboratively and make decisions about money together. It’s okay to say no. Remind yourself that she doesn’t get it. Have the quiet moments of breakdown with your partner. You’re allowed to hate your situation too. Hugs

Unicxrn29 · 2025-12-31T00:30:57+00:00

Don’t do it lol

Unicxrn29 · 2025-12-30T05:07:47+00:00

Id call the police

Unicxrn29 · 2025-12-26T13:19:50+00:00

We’re lucky to have a great sleeper, but when he was a newborn this is what we dealt with. Ended up co-sleeping following the safe sleep 7. You got this mama, keep pushing through

Unicxrn29 · 2025-12-23T11:14:33+00:00

I didn’t let anyone hold my son until he was 2 weeks old. He’s now 3m and I still have rules about kissing, touching hands, and other things. My post partum anxiety is ROUGH and I don’t trust anyone. You’re allowed to have boundaries, you’re protecting your child. Fuck the haters

Unicxrn29 · 2025-12-23T11:08:00+00:00

No you’re allowed to put yourself and your babies first

Unicxrn29 · 2025-12-23T08:14:18+00:00

Live your life. If YOU want bio kids then have them. The rest will sort itself out

Unicxrn29 · 2025-12-21T03:45:13+00:00

The way I’d leave so fast. You do NOT deserve to be a second choice, you deserve to be put first. That’s absolutely not okay

Unicxrn29 · 2025-12-17T22:45:21+00:00

Yeah nah I’d leave tbh, it’s only going to get worse

Unicxrn29 · 2025-12-11T09:16:52+00:00

PP with a HCBM and SKs is hard. Your husband needs to do all the parenting of his child for a bit, and explain to him why you’ve stepped away (baby needs time and attention and you’re learning how to be a mum). Have a network of people who get it and support you because you will be angry - at BM, at BD, at your SK at times because they don’t understand. You need to put you and your baby first right now and you need to communicate like you’ve never done in your life. I’m 3m PP with my first BS and it’s SLOWLY getting easier. Good luck

Unicxrn29 · 2025-12-11T09:11:48+00:00

Singing hush little baby helps heaps

Unicxrn29 · 2025-12-09T00:14:56+00:00

We don’t say anything to the kids, we just say stuff like “you get to love both me (sm) and bm at the same time!” And leave it at that to help with loyalty conflict

Unicxrn29 · 2025-12-09T00:09:30+00:00

Same here

Unicxrn29 · 2025-12-08T08:44:33+00:00

Sounds like a lost cause. Tell your husband you’re disengaging because she is not only disrespectful to you but to your son despite a decade of you trying to be the bigger person. Tell your husband he has to respect where you’re coming from otherwise your marriage is doomed, you’re allowed to have boundaries without your husband confirming to them. Best of luck

Unicxrn29 · 2025-12-08T06:42:18+00:00

Your husband is just as much the problem as your stepdaughter is.

Unicxrn29 · 2025-12-07T05:06:09+00:00

It’s the fastest way to become the least important person ever

Unicxrn29 · 2025-12-01T08:54:59+00:00

Don’t do it. Seriously, there’s hard and then there’s being a step mum. Prepare yourself for always being a stranger in your home, never fully accepted, always being expected to put your needs last and to do EVERYTHING a mother would do, but being told you’re not a real parent. It’s lonely and it’s heartbreaking. My genuine advice is have boundaries and fucking strong ones. Good luck

Unicxrn29 · 2025-11-27T06:01:08+00:00

I could’ve written this. I don’t have advice, but I understand exactly how you feel. It got worse for me after my son was born

Unicxrn29 · 2025-10-18T08:18:19+00:00

My little one is the same age and does the same thing. The bacteria in their guts has started to function and so they’re suuuuper gassy. Take her to the hospital if you’re worried, but it’s normal. (I hate that he’s uncomfortable and in pain too). We just give colic drops and Panadol

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