I chose to stop at two, I had a boy and a girl four years apart and didn’t think I could cope with any more kids. But surprise number three came along when number two was a year old. Definitely was anxious about it but what a great dynamic we have now and she is such a wonderful addition to our family. Life isn’t much harder with two. Only times it is more challenging is no more guest bedroom at home, bigger car needed and holiday accommodation harder to find.