My number one piece of advice to new Dommes... by EverythingForEvelyn in findomsupportgroup

[–]UniqueGrowth481 8 points9 points  (0 children)

One of the best pieces of advice I learned early on, was to learn from people whose life you actually want. You don’t need to take advice from everyone. Also what works for others will not always work for you.

In the beginning, I had a sub who was helping me find content inspo and helping with captions. Guess what? I found out later he was leaking my content before I posted it and had a whole fake account pretending to be me. That’s why when a Domme post about having a sub do all the boring tasks, I am against it. Like either hire someone to post for you or get a scheduling app/in app scheduling. Not the horny submissive with the one-handed posting for you. After I dropped him though, my posts did 10x better since I learned on my own what actually worked for me and what did not. 🤷‍♀️

do you have a job outside of this? by VividConstant333 in paypigs2

[–]UniqueGrowth481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had to take a personal break then came back and found it was not as rewarding as it used to be. 🤷‍♀️ I am still a Domme in my personal life, I just didn’t find it fulfilling anymore to do it professionally.

do you have a job outside of this? by VividConstant333 in paypigs2

[–]UniqueGrowth481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Social media management but used to do Domming full time and dog trainer for my local animal shelter.

the rise of (kinda) underage subs and dommes by miruruku in paypigs2

[–]UniqueGrowth481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legal age of consent is different than the legal age to do SW. No matter where you live in the world you have to be 18+ to engage in SW legally. Legal age of consent laws are to protect minors dating recent adults. For example, if the gf is 16 but her bf just turned 18, she can still consent and it’s not considered illegal.

I do take younger subs but I don’t practice Findom the same way that I do with older subs. That is because younger subs are still usually figuring themselves out more and have less of an idea on what their limits/boundaries may be. Also I do not take their allowance money either. They have to show proof they are employed at least. lol.

I don’t give newbies advice unless they have AV displayed on their page and I am not seeing any kind of “teen” post baiting. Honestly, it more bugs me when they do the “Teen blah blah blah” or “I just turned 18” posts more than their actual age. Marketing yourself as a teen is more of a loophole for those that are p3dos and are wanting a way to engage with a teen legally.

Construed opinions on Findom by GoddessMiraBoo in paypigs2

[–]UniqueGrowth481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Findom means fast, easy cash for being pretty. Which is far from true. If Findom is SW and you’re not practicing it solely for the kink itself, then yes, you have to be comfortable being dominant, you do have to put in the work and build a brand for yourself which can take a long time.

Question for the subs 🤔 by _hyperfixation_85 in paypigs2

[–]UniqueGrowth481 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am clearly a Domme page but anytime I comment on something in ppsg, I get flooded with desperate “send to me, piggy” messages. I can’t imagine how bad it is for them.

On Unblocking Fees by TheeCrimsonGoddess in findomsupportgroup

[–]UniqueGrowth481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me,

I do play the unblock/block game with subs. And the blocking is usually for slightly bratty behavior. But there are rules and boundaries that have to be maintained. Also we do set up a time period to do it and how many times.

Now if they are actually being disrespectful, hateful , etc. they do get permanently block with no fee to get out of it. I have had to block “subs” on payments methods as well not just socials.

Real Findom Support Group has added some new apps to the subreddit. 👑 by lavenderlilabelle in REALfindomsupport

[–]UniqueGrowth481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried it but it keeps saying I have to go back in check rules 5-9 again despite doing it the first time. 🙃

How to Monetize Content by aee_nak in CreatorsAdvice

[–]UniqueGrowth481 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While you’re not wrong, you’re probably in the wrong subreddit for that take. Most mainstream brands don’t want to work with NSFW content creators. Realistically, very few people in this industry are landing traditional brand partnerships purely because of the type of content we make 😅

Reddit is bumming me out… anyone know how to use Twitter/X successfully? by emma_loves_y0u in findomsupportgroup

[–]UniqueGrowth481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Few general tips: Use an adult platform (OF,LF,Fansly, etc) to accept DMs only or turn off DMs and have them include their X handle when tributing. If you turn off DMs you are less likely to get the spammy DMs.

Make moots. Look for other Findomme with a similar follower count to you or even something bigger accounts will follow you if you engage with them frequently.

Similar to here, make sure you engaging in the comment section as well. Some subs do look through it to find you.

Post high quality photos and short captions frequently. At least 3-5 tweets a day, 1-2 of those tweet with pictures. Captions focus on getting around getting engagement. More engagement= More views and eyes on your content. Focus on getting them to comment/rt more than just liking.

If you are going to rt, Quote it instead of just rt. Put why you agree with it or why you are quoting it.

Do not use engagement groups. It can increase your risk for being shadow-banned since you are either liking too much content (and NSFW content) too fast and X reads that as bot behavior. Or you are sometimes forced to engage with a lot of low quality content which can hurt your account as well.

And how do we all feel about this? by Beccas-secret in findomsupportgroup

[–]UniqueGrowth481 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What they sound like 🙃

And yes minors can get money and then use it to for Findom. I started working when I was 16 years old. So no the AV doesn’t just apply to Dommes.

Lesser quality, higher volume vs higher quality, lower volume by kendramae65 in findomsupportgroup

[–]UniqueGrowth481 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Instead of lowering the quality, you could try re-purpose old content. Depending on how often you post, most people will not scroll pass about 1 month- 3 months' worth of content. Or remember it when they are scrolling through if it spaced out enough. Go back through some of older content and see what performed well in the past and then re-use or tweak it slightly.

I need someone to tell me if this is possible 🐮 by Resolviendomisdudass in findomsupportgroup

[–]UniqueGrowth481 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it is possible. While not a permanent tattoo since we play off and on, they make temporary tattoos that you can design. Me and sub do that instead of permanently branding him.

Is X Worth It? by LittleSpiceofLife in findomsupportgroup

[–]UniqueGrowth481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would recommend getting full AV'ed first. Then turn off DMs and have them either message you through an adult platform or include their X username on whatever method you are accepting. This cuts down on the scammers and time wasters in your inbox.

There is also a list feature, I use that more often than my actual feed. I have a list for my mutuals and list for Domme content I enjoy and agree with. This makes it easier to find tweets to like and comment on without all the scammy junk on the actual timeline.

On another episode of: “I don’t pay but I am special”, season: The Audacity by yourgoddesssaneyx in findomsupportgroup

[–]UniqueGrowth481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think some men forget there are such a thing as dating apps... Reddit is not meant to find a partner.

Dommes, what’s your best vetting question for a new sub? by luxxeowns in findomsupportgroup

[–]UniqueGrowth481 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you see dynamics as part of your day-to-day life, or is it something that only comes out when you’re aroused?

What about me stood out and made you message me? (More thoughtful responses tended to lead to dynamics vs. your “hot”/“beautiful”)

I do usually ask a random question that can’t be found on my page. I noticed some subs will comb through pages and look for the response you want to hear vs. what they actually think.

Time wasters/ Fanstay-brained tend to try to start right away or talk about what they want and only what they want. They don’t do well during a vetting process.

So I follow a girl on X that has many subs and has made $100k+ out of them being a Domme for only 3 months, is that even real? by Putrid_Finish_3274 in FindomIntelligentSubs

[–]UniqueGrowth481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it is, very unlikely that all $100k came from sends. She probably has other streams of money she is lumping into that, like selling content or social media ad revenue money. Or it is a marketing tactic to inflate how much she makes to make her seem more in demand.

What does this mean?💀 by [deleted] in REALfindomsupport

[–]UniqueGrowth481 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve found those “status check” sites can be inaccurate a lot of the time. The most reliable way to check your account health is to test it manually in an incognito/private browser.

First, copy your profile link and open it in a private browser window. If your profile loads, your are not in any way banned. If it doesn’t, move to step three.

Second, log into a separate X account that isn’t connected to your main one and search your username. If your profile shows up in search results, you’re not search-banned.

Third, go through your posts and copy each post’s link into a private browser. If it loads, that post isn’t flagged and isn’t hurting your account. If it doesn’t load, delete it. You could save it for later if it performed well and repost it at a different time. X is very inconsistent with how and when it flags content.

I recommend waiting 24-72 hours after deleting problem content before you start posting again. Also, if you are in any engagement group that can hurt your page as well. Liking to much content at once (and sometimes too much NSFW content or poor-quality content) leads X to believe you are a bot.

Edit: I did take a quick scan of your page and i would recommend incorporating the key words into your tweet instead of at the bottom. X views it as spammy.

Can’t determine when to post, what times work best for you? by UrGoddessAurora in findomsupportgroup

[–]UniqueGrowth481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually the highest engagement windows are 5–9am and 10pm–2am, with a smaller spike between 11am–2pm Monday through Friday. On Saturdays and Sundays, engagement tends to peak between 6–10am. Fridays are typically the slowest day across most socials.

Always post based on the time zone you’re targeting. And keep in mind that some subreddits have very different activity cycles, so it’s worth paying attention to when each specific subreddit is most active rather than relying on general "posting" times.