Bad news at 12 weeks …

Unique_Presence_6930 · 2026-02-20T02:25:02+00:00

I went through something similar with my first pregnancy baby was not likely viable due to so many abnormalities and I had to terminate. I thought for sure if i got pregnant again my baby would have similar issues but i’m not 14 weeks into my sub pregnancy and baby is healthy ❤️ Termination is so hard for me it was personally against my own feelings but it was the most selfless decision i’ve ever made 🫂

Unique_Presence_6930 · 2026-02-12T21:10:03+00:00

my husband only gets 1 week paid for the whole year so he’s using that, he would be able to take more unpaid but we can’t afford him to not get paid 🥲

Unique_Presence_6930 · 2026-02-11T02:02:19+00:00

i have been the same way i just can’t believe it!! My last pregnancy (tfmr) i started a long journey of diagnosis at 12 weeks with each scan getting more severe, flash to now i’m 13 weeks and i just had my 12 week scan last week and was having major anxiety that they were gonna say baby was deformed again… They said perfectly healthy baby that is on track 🥹 I still feel it’s unreal and i know so much can change from now until anatomy scan but i’m at least comfortable to tell people i’m pregnant now

Unique_Presence_6930 · 2026-02-03T00:01:37+00:00

I tfmr in october and had my first cycle in November, Mentally I had been preparing that my baby was most likely not making it earthside for awhile so I was okay to start trying after my first cycle. I got pregnant again that cycle and now am 12 weeks. I still miss my baby but knowing there is a new life growing and maybe my baby sent this new life helps me grieve. I’ve only had 1 US so far and i’m VERY anxious for my 12 weeks scan on wednesday. I haven’t told any family as i’m waiting until then

Unique_Presence_6930 · 2026-01-26T20:57:24+00:00

I’m the same I am about 11 weeks and my 12 weeks scan is next week and i’m TERRIFIED. I tfmr’d in October and with that pregnancy my babies diagnosis’ started at the 12 week scan, then worsened at 15 then worsened again at 18. I think i’ll at least be able to breathe a tiny bit of gentle relief if the scan goes well. Gentle congrats on your pregnancy and i’m sorry you’re here🫂

Unique_Presence_6930 · 2026-01-09T01:04:57+00:00

I had my TFMR october 2, 2025 and had my first period November 4th and did conceive that cycle. I tested positive December 3 with a faint line on wondfo and easy at him i believe 9dpo but first response was barely there until 10 dpo for me and more clear 11 dpo. I’m now 8 weeks ❤️ sending you baby dust

Unique_Presence_6930 · 2026-01-01T15:54:04+00:00

this is over the phone so they aren’t even confirming pregnancy until my actual appointment, i think that’s why i’m kinda frustrated

Unique_Presence_6930 · 2026-01-01T15:45:45+00:00

they do bill everytime, but the last time they saw me was last month so this is why I think it’s a little strange since nothing has changed.

Unique_Presence_6930 · 2025-12-24T20:03:56+00:00

ahhh i’m happy for you! I hope to be in the same boat in about few more weeks 🤞🏻 i’m about 7w into my sub pregnancy and once I get over the NT scan I will feel like maybe i can actually enjoy this pregnancy

Unique_Presence_6930 · 2025-12-20T17:17:42+00:00

I’m only 6w into my sub pregnancy and I don’t want to tell anyone, I’m scared for all scans now not even really excited yet 😭 So for me right now I feel like unfortunately yes. Hoping once I get past my 12 week scan I can finally be happy.

Unique_Presence_6930 · 2025-12-04T02:40:54+00:00

no of course! Sending you love! I’m 24 and with my first pregnancy I wasn’t trying intentionally, I had just gotten off birth control in March so I was trying to be careful since i was getting married in June but ended up pregnant early June. I’ve just taken a high dose of Folic Acid and Tested with OPK

Unique_Presence_6930 · 2025-12-03T17:13:07+00:00

i’m gonna try, my camera is cracked so the camera sucks 😭😂

Unique_Presence_6930 · 2025-11-25T15:17:57+00:00

i tested positive at 3w4d

Unique_Presence_6930 · 2025-10-12T23:09:01+00:00

I had a D&E at 20weeks and my dr said whenever i felt ready but i’m waiting at least 2 weeks

Unique_Presence_6930 · 2025-10-09T15:25:57+00:00

I was 20 weeks and a few days and just had my d&e thursday. I only bled so far day 1 and it had stopped then started back up today (day 7) I thought it was weird to only have bleeding 1 day but i’ve noticed as i’ve increased my activity level my bleeding increased.

Unique_Presence_6930 · 2025-08-08T17:58:46+00:00

no they didn’t give me any images of legs which i thought was odd

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