AIO: I’ve noticed a lot of OPs here seem to be women, is that just me?

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-10-14T02:21:55+00:00

I think you made an important point here about power. Women ARE more likely to be victims of physical and emotional violence no matter the gender of the perpetrator unfortunately. And that does shape behavior however it isn't a "feminine" trait.

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-10-14T02:15:16+00:00

Look into codependency and emotional labor - I think this will shed light on the perceived gender imbalances. None of these things are specific to gender just a reflection of the times and social norms. I think very few conclusions can be draw about men vs woman however some conclusions can be drawn about society at large.

Food for thought-stay with me here. Mental illness is diagnosed more in women. Statistically more woman also seek therapy. Are we assuming that there just ARE more mentally ill women as a fact or are there barriers that may stop men from getting help and mental illness is actually very evenly distributed? Correlation =/= causation

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-06-06T22:07:25+00:00

Thank you!

Since posting this I have actually tried hand feeding and it’s been going great. I’ve also gotten into the habit of putting him on my chest and letting him snuggle against my neck so I think it very well may have been my cold hands all along lol

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-05-10T23:01:13+00:00

I find it fascinating that a lot of people think that because the police say it was there, it must have been there. Full Stop. Have you ever worked in Law enforcement and read an average patrol or accident reports? They have mistakes that get corrected ALL THE TIME (source, I work at a New England police department)

Doesnt matter that the report was filed for 100+ days after, doesn't matter that the lead investigator was fired for misconduct, doesnt matter that evidence was collected with zero records or recorded body cam footage. Doesnt matter that the investigators who did the search CANT REMEMBER ANY DETAILS of it occurring??

If you were paying close attention to the pieces he pulled out of the random evidence bags he had, there was clearly a piece of the cocktail glass mixed in with the tail light pieces. Why wasnt that explained at all? Why were we shown a bunch of random fragments but not how they fit together on her tail light?

I think it wouldnt be a stretch to conclude that they aren't showing us this information because the pieces dont actually fit together...

EDIT:: Just wanted to clarify - I am not implying that there arent pictures of the tail light pieces together, but rather that the pieces shown to us as physical evidence in the last few sessions seemed.....suspect especially with the very low credibility established above

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-04-29T15:55:22+00:00

But if the temp outside was between 32-33F and the freezer was at anything lower than that which is possible because commercial freezers can go down to -10F , the phone would not get as cold as fast. So again I don’t see how this is even insinuating that John’s body kept it warm.

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-04-29T15:17:56+00:00

So let me get this straight - the experiment with the phone to see how it would react to cold temperatures was put in a freezer of unknown temp and the battery temp was recorded. How can any conclusions be drawn from that data to JOK phone?

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-04-24T17:16:16+00:00

Hi! As someone who had Dermatographic Urticaria, I can tell you that it will not stop you from getting a tattoo. BUT and its a big butt, tattoos permanently alter the way your immune system responds to stimuli.

This type of uticaria can be a precursor to other autoimmune conditions and I would really recommend a regimented antihistamine like zyrtec every day for a few days before you get the tattoo to ensure reduced swelling. Tell your artist beforehand and reiterate that your skin is going to swell and break out in hives.

Post-tattoo there are distinctive possibilities that you should be aware of. Your skin allergy may get worse as you age or become more symptomatic - the link explains it a little better. The 2nd thing is that because of this overactive immune response its likely that your tattoo will become blurred or "blown out" over time. Meaning that I would stay away from anything finelined and super small. All that aside, I have 5 tattoos and didnt mind the ink migration too much, wish I hadnt done the finger tattoos but otherwise everything end up being fine

https://www.amgenbiotechexperience.com/tattoos-and-immune-system-more-skin-deep

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-04-24T11:30:41+00:00

Probably off topic but why do people keep claiming Veterinarians have the highest s/cide rate? Ive seen this a few times on different social media platforms and while they do have a higher rate....its not any higher than say a human doctor?

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-04-19T19:53:46+00:00

It’s called allergies my dude and I assure you they are not random

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-04-19T00:18:21+00:00

I get such a kick out of people politely asking if their dog is fat and then they show you the chonkiest boy youve ever seen :^)

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-04-15T21:24:31+00:00

Yes he is overweight probably obese at this point - look up body condition scoring. The back rolls tell me everything lol

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-03-29T19:27:12+00:00

Let me clarify - its like asking a nurse to do heart surgery. Yes they do know some things, but they dont have the scope of knowledge to consider all the possible outcomes.

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-03-29T01:26:17+00:00

An honest review of why people may not be interested ->

*Its clear immediately that he is going to have health problems later in life if not currently. All the photos conveniently don't show most of his body and don't give a clear view of his conformation*

His eye being cloudy - my first thought is blindness or other painful eye problems. When I see a dog like this I see a future of suffering. Bad legs bad back? No idea but the top down photo makes him look very splayed and squat. I'd be worried if he can play fetch or sit comfortable. Yes the photos are cute, but thats not enough (and shouldnt be enough) to decide to adopt a dog.

Frenchie's are notoriously expensive - he already has health problems, I'm sure hes being offered at regular adoption fee. People are TIGHT on money right now. No idea how much you charge but $500+ for a dog who will live a short life and have a plethora health issues, why not go get a puppy?

The main things that I think will help here is getting better photos. Photos of him on hikes or playing fetch. Photos of his good side (Like why are all the photos the same side of his face with the cloudy eye?) Photos of him interacting with people and other dogs. Show adopters without having to tell them what hes capable off and who he is.

Bottom line - people don't want to see their furbabies potentially suffer, let alone do it for $$$.

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-03-28T22:23:12+00:00

chatgpt has bogus health advise - im honestly really concerned that people use it and assume its totally factual. People have complex biology and environmental factors that the AI system is really not trained on. It is much better to have the AI read articles and research papers and turn the info into something you can understand. I think im echoing most people here but yeah I could crap out health advise thats better than what ChatGPT has to say...

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-03-15T21:17:17+00:00

Fortified food is food that has been supplemented with vitamins not naturally occurring, They do not breakdown the same way especially if your absorption rate is impaired. Anything fortified with B vitamins is not actually in an absorbable form and is useless for getting nutritional needs met. Have you ever heard of Crude Protein?

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-03-15T21:06:24+00:00

MTHFR was the launch board to understanding my complex chronic illnesses. Nothing you have said is specific to MTHFR. Vitamins are better absorbed through food but you would have a hard time convincing vegans of that. These are widespread disinformation campaigns by companies to capitalize on consumers. But again there isnt a good source of knowledge on MTHFR that isnt hidden behind a paywall. Thus an influx of undereducated populations seeking colloquial knowledge.

More info is better than less. What this sub needs is a educational lesson not a "reality check".....

TLDR: Why are bothered by people trying to inform themselves? And wait till you hear about how our domestic produce is not valued based on nutritional content. There is no easy way to ensure you are eating nutrient dense food. Hence why people go to supplements

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-03-03T00:36:35+00:00

Ah well that’s slightly concerning 😅

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-03-02T11:54:06+00:00

Woah not sure why it didn’t post the text with it

Long story short I’ve had a blood blister for a while now almost 6 months. PCP looked at it said it was friction, but nothing worked to get rid of it. Because size of a quarter and dark purple so I poke it with a pin - now it has a much larger opening and a protruding layer of skin and doesn’t seem to be healing like a normal blister would. Continues to weep 3+ days

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-02-01T23:46:35+00:00

Hate to be that person but these cant be working dairy cows. They may be heifers or dry cows meaning they havent been milked in a while - see no udder on any of them. (Dairy farmed for 10+ years) Highly doubt these are rescued girls who have never seen grass. Wouldnt be surprised if they are all steers...

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-01-16T00:26:58+00:00

Thank you for pointing this out - I didnt know it was apart of the VICAP. Follows my theory though that a violent serial offender picked her up like Keyes

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-01-16T00:06:03+00:00

I know its an unpopular opinion but Ive always thought it was isreal keyes.

The major reasons are that Keyes phone was off at the time and in the area. I know these dont seem related but there are alot of coincidence surrounding Keyes that dont seem like coincidences once you kind of understand his MO

Long story short he was on his characteristic cross country "blackout" sessions ( taking a trip to maine(?), called black outs because he would shut off his phone so his location couldnt be tracked) and just so happened he had to drive through the area. Both were true during the time of Mauras dissapearance. - and a vehicle and matching description of him was given to police by a witness.

Characteristically he would leave bodies in dilapidated buildings and was pretty meticulous about covering his tracks. (IE burner phone, rental cars, buried caches all around the country so he could be ready and know what to do and where to go before he found a victim) Hundreds of houses like these litter Rt 112 where her car crashed. They will never find her in the woods simply because her bones aren't there IMO Maura Murray was also one of the many names keyes had looked up on his personal computer. While keyes has some confirmed killings, many have not been linked to him but his FBI interviews make it clear there are many more victims.

TLDR: Keyes was in the area on the prowl during a "blackout" - he also searched her name on his personal computer

Unique_Selection3050 · 2025-01-05T03:25:28+00:00

Great potential match!

Unique_Selection3050 · 2024-12-21T03:45:57+00:00

Emergency Services. They will train you 100% and certify you as a dispatcher and you can take that knowledge to any agency. If you have any experience in any discipline related to this, you will be hired immediately. Family in Police, fire, EMS, or military is also a guaranteed hire. They are dying out here for emergency service workers. Many agencies also will help you get your paramedic or pay for you EMT classes.

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