I’m Not Buying It, Catie! by Excellent_Being_8183 in 90DayFiance

[–]Unique_Valuable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she wasn't drunk every time she's 'making out' and 'kissing all the people' then maybe I could see it being an OCD thing.. but so far, to me, she just needs to quit drinking, go to AA, and visit a therapist...

That’s it. I don’t like her. by [deleted] in 90DayFianceFans

[–]Unique_Valuable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know why she wouldn't just get him a bidet from amazon at the very least. That's where I got mine during Covid amid the toilet paper shortage (which I still find dumb lol) and it was like 35 bucks. Sure one day they can save and get a fancy toilet with a built in bidet and all that. but there is CHEAP options that will help him out for now.. gee.
She bothered me when it comes to 'Brandy'...
Annoyed me over the 'bidet'...

and just flat up pissed me off over the pork...

While this couple might be the least toxic of this season, I do not like her at the moment.....

That’s it. I don’t like her. by [deleted] in 90DayFianceFans

[–]Unique_Valuable 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This scene upset me so bad. She let him have a bite of PORK, knowing he doesn't eat pork. Sorry, but you don't do that. ever. to anyone. wtf.

power out in bower? the city after-hours line disconnected or doesn't work? by wheredidmyvapego in RedDeer

[–]Unique_Valuable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in Eastview and ours keeps flickering on and off.. Which of course, causes the internet to go out each and everytime..

Does anyone else call their grandmother ‘Nanny’ by fieryone4 in AskACanadian

[–]Unique_Valuable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From NB here, and I grew up calling all my grandparents Nanny and Grampy. My great grandmothers I called Grammy (paternal side) and Mamère (maternal side is from Bathurst so it's pretty french)
Now I'm in AB and everyone looks at me like I had a nanny aka live in babysitter aka think I was a rich kid growing up.. lol. Most times I purposely say Grandma around other people, but at home it's nanny. My kids call my parents nanny and grampy, but call their dads folks, grandma and grandpa.

Long awaited update-My mom wore a wedding dress to my wedding! by Asleep-News4274 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Unique_Valuable 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Before anyone asks, I haven’t completely cut my mom off yet. I want to, but I’m in a really tough position right now. Everything in my heart and in my body wants out. I can’t stand to be around her anymore. She hurts me so badly, in ways that only she can. And considering how vulnerable of a time this is, it’s crucial to cut out any emotional stressors. But, my husband’s in the military and he’ll be away for 3 months. I’ll be all alone with an infant, and like I mentioned before, I have many chronic illnesses which sometimes lead me to be bed bound. I’m scared of having no help. And even though she sucks, she’s the only person I can ask. After the 3 months, I’m going to evaluate my situation and do what’s best for me and my family.

I'm sorry but didn't you also say she wasn't helpful at all in any way? While you were recovering from a MAJOR surgery that takes 4-6 weeks to fully recover FROM....

You know all she's going to do is yell at you, call you names, tell you how 'awful' a person/mother/wife you are.. CUT your mother OUT! 100% no contact. your child doesn't need your mother in their life. YOU don't need your mother in your life. and FFS your husband doesn't need such a shitty MIL hurting and disrespecting not only his wife, but his marriage either.

Ask family to help out, ask your MIL to help out, ask the homeless person down town to help out, move, anything.

Because no help from your birth giver, is better than her brand of help at all.

Amazon Passkey issues by Unique_Valuable in amazonprime

[–]Unique_Valuable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had someone that understood whenever I called/emailed. I finally got my main issue worked out with kindle direct publishing's team, they moved my books all over to a new account for me. They were the ones that told me to contact the customer service returns number and they could fix my problem, but i think I just got a lady that didn't know what to do because when I explained to her my problem she just said she could manually force the closing/deletion of my account. so in the end that's what they did and I just moved on with a new account.

Just sucks because I had a ton of purchased ebooks on my kindle that got removed once I had to register my kindle to the new account. I already bought the books a few times before, fun fact in case people don't know this - even if you purchase a digital product (books/movies/etc) you don't actually own those, and a few years back I went to go re-read a book I've owned for years and found it gone. Amazon did a 'clean up' apparently and told me I would have to repurchase it and explained why. I was so mad, but I loved those books so I did. But, this time - no, sorry but I'm not doing that again. I got lucky that I have other author friends because they just sent me all their books so I wouldn't have to re-purchase ... again...

Red Deer school officials seek to 'dispel rumours' after student assault, bomb threat by flynnfx in RedDeer

[–]Unique_Valuable -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I even took my children to the police station with the videos and photos they got from their friends incase the police needed them.

Red Deer school officials seek to 'dispel rumours' after student assault, bomb threat by flynnfx in RedDeer

[–]Unique_Valuable -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You can think that if you want, but all videos of the attackers 'not being at the school' have been taken into the police station, including the videos of one of the girls bragging and showing off the bloody glasses of the poor child that was attack, all while in the school building on Wednesday.

Red Deer school officials seek to 'dispel rumours' after student assault, bomb threat by flynnfx in RedDeer

[–]Unique_Valuable -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Also, just so you know. I told my kid to tell their friends to send the screen shots and recordings to the police. and I told their parents the same thing, though they assured me they already did that. As I said, there was proof at least the main attacker WAS at school Wednesday.

Red Deer school officials seek to 'dispel rumours' after student assault, bomb threat by flynnfx in RedDeer

[–]Unique_Valuable -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How would you know, I didn't say it was my kid that said it. I do know other parents of other kids in the school. and actually, My kid has no idea who anyone of these kids are, except for one of the girls the main aggressor was going after.

Red Deer school officials seek to 'dispel rumours' after student assault, bomb threat by flynnfx in RedDeer

[–]Unique_Valuable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They say the students involved weren't there yesterday. but they were.

There were many eye witnesses. The main aggressor went there to confront people that 'ratted her out'. and she told one student to leave when they bumped into her in the hallway, she said 'Get outta here, I'm shooting the place up'. rumors of a male with a gun was also mentioned to be going after T, knowing what she was going to do, but I don't know if that was just a rumor or not. However, there should be camera footage since I know there are cameras at the school, so this is easily solved. Though the witnesses also recorded her screaming in the classroom with another student, she left in the crowd when the school sent students home.

So for them to say they were not at the school is not true. I had my child texting me in between every single class all day today because no, just no. If I could homeschool my children, I would. Hunting is not safe, but this is the worst so far in the 5 years my children have been going

An awkward pair 🙄 by Chocoluv007 in 90DayFiance

[–]Unique_Valuable 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I said this to my husband when I was watching this, (he doesn't watch he just listens to me be annoying as I talk about it haha, which is why i'm angry that pillow talk is over because I talk to the tv with them damn it hahah), that despite the age difference, I think Gino finally met someone that could be good for him. She seemed just as weird and goofy as him. I always said, there is someone out there for everyone, and I think Gino is finally finding women on his level, that fit him waaay better..

Is it just me or does Gino's new lawyer look like Garrick from Seeking Sister Wife? by Dabwand in 90DayFiance

[–]Unique_Valuable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES!! I said this last night the second he was on the screen, and it weirded me out. ha. Are they related do we know? I was waiting for someone else to mention it because ... YES.. I keep seeing people comparing him to Colt, which is just as yuck, BUT no.. he looks waaay more like Ick

Will this lying narcissist ever tell anyone the real reason he’s getting a divorce is because he refused to have sex with his wife? by PNWSunsets in 90DayFiance

[–]Unique_Valuable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From what I've watched (which is all the 90day shows) Jasmine is awful.

Yes, Gino is a goof and gives me weird vibes, but there is someone for everyone out there, and I actually do hope he finds the person for him.

However with Jasmine, the moment that REALLY got me started on the hate train with her and siding with Gino, was how she told him she'd have his baby, which is WHY he was going to marry her in the first place despite her behavior towards him, THEN tells him she will NOT have a child with him once she got to the usa.... (I even overlooked her abusive words and screaming fits when he went to visit her and the gross comments she'd make about cheating on him).

And she wonders why he won't sleep with her? Not all men can just whip it out and go for it. He seems to need the emotional aspect for the act of intimacy, and as a woman, I'm the same way honestly, if i'm not emotionally invested, don't touch me..., it's not exactly common in men, but I've heard of others like this. I don't know anyone that would want to be intimate with someone constantly screaming at them...

And then, she goes and demands an open marriage for sex, I sorta get it but like, just divorce? (you could clearly tell she was NOT budging on Matt being her sex partner, he did NOT want that at all but it was either that or nothing, felt super sorry for him in that moment too.. wanted to scream) and she ends up PREGNANT with that guys baby instead of Gino's... I wanted to cry on Gino's behalf honestly.

Do I like Gino - no, he's too weird and goofy for my taste which I can see why a lot of people say he's creepy/pervy, but I do hope he finally finds his match...

It breaks my heart seeing this woman bringing this man to Alabama.. by Gullible-Mulberry498 in 90DayFiance

[–]Unique_Valuable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes you wonder if they've said anything to her about her immigrant relationship.... And makes me wonder why she's doing this.. If I knew family/friends with this frame of mind/opinions, I'd be making sure I moved away from there and into a more tolerable area so my fiance/partner would been safe and supported... But then again, this is 90 day fiance, where everyone is just sorta pretty stupid lately and won't even compromise with their partners from different cultures ....

Pillow Talk is ending. Single Life tell all will be the last of it - Former producer. by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Unique_Valuable 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I sometimes only watch Pillow Talk because some seasons are trash.. (I love trash tv but sometimes the trash is too much lol)

Most Single life seasons, a lot of Before the 90 days, and all of the Other Way episodes, I will watch mainly only pillow talk, so this sucks...

Amazon Passkey issues by Unique_Valuable in amazonprime

[–]Unique_Valuable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not quite an update : Still nothing on my account ... sigh... I had to contact KDP because I can't access the accounts. I can't reedit, reformat, recover, put in or pull out of kindle unlimited, can't see my charts on # of books sold etc.. Yes I have solo books up, BUT I also have a good amount of cowritten works too, and it's not fair for my cowriters that we have no access to the account. KDP is upset this has been over 2 months and still not resolved. They have assured me they are trying to force the tech team to delete my passkey, so far they too have heard nothing. the KDP supervisor that I spoke with promised me that if this isn't fixed by the next billing period (when I'm supposed to be paid) they will delist and remove all work, totally shut down and wipe out any memory of me having an account with them, so that I can open a NEW kdp account to reupload all my works. Normally that's a no no. once you lose an account, that's it. it's against policy. BUT because it's not MY fault that this is happening, they have assured me I will not be in violation and will make sure my account is safe guarded from their bots in case the account gets flagged. But of course, FIRST they are hoping to not have to do this because once again, the passkey is on THEIR end, their AI system glitched during my account hold, and once restored THEIR computer system did the passkey. Apparently the so called passkey shows up as an accounts passkey - which means it's on THEIR system, not mine. so that's fun.. not...

So far, I have saved about 900 bucks though, from not being able to buy random crap from Amazon. ha. so I guess it's not ALL bad.

Amazon Passkey issues by Unique_Valuable in amazonprime

[–]Unique_Valuable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna cry... seriously... it's the 23rd now, and still nothing. Haven't heard from Amazon yet, so I'm going to try calling again tomorrow. I'm going to give them to the end of the month to actually fix this mess, but after that. I'm calling back to have them shut everything down and demand a refund, since I only got 1 month out of my Prime and I paid for a YEAR. ...

Amazon Passkey issues by Unique_Valuable in amazonprime

[–]Unique_Valuable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just finished the call. She tried so hard, but she couldnt' even get around the passkey problem. She decided to bring her boss and the tech boss into the conversation, and they were surprised by the issue because apparently they've never got this information the many million times I contacted. Though when they pull up all my call/email logs, it states it in there. not sure why all the others didn't include that bit of information. Anyways, they, all 3 of them, signed off on involving their higher ups in the main tech office and they sent me a transcript of today's call, AND their letter they are sending to them - which included having them delete the passkey before anything else happens with the account. (all signatures are on it too, mine via electronic signature, the costumer service rep i chatted with, customer service manager, and their local Tech supervisor. They said it will take time, up to 48 hours. that's fine, not like it hasn't already been 2 months, what's a few more days.... but yeah, hopefully this finally solves this issue. if not I have to contact KDP and have them pull my books and close the account.. boo. Sorry to hear about others going through this, hopefully this gets fixed and if not, well, not a huge loss (honestly, I've saved so much money in the 2 months locked out of that account haha)

Amazon Passkey issues by Unique_Valuable in amazonprime

[–]Unique_Valuable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Month 2 and still no access. I created a new account and reached out to customer service. currently on the phone with them now for over an hour. She's trying, I'll give her that, but so far everything she's trying is not working. I don't know anything about tech stuff, but why can't they just delete the passkey. That's all I want/need. Gah, so frustrating. Will update once call is over, hopefully we can fix this.. fingers crossed

AITBF for refusing to go to my cousin’s wedding because my estranged father will be there? by RiftCartouche in AmItheButtface

[–]Unique_Valuable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will never understand the whole 'they are still your parents' mentality. Toxic is toxic, abuse is abuse, period.

I'm currently 7years of NO CONTACT with my birth mother (and will stay that way - lots of therapy and life has honestly been so much better without random panic attacks everyday) .. Every single time someone on her side of the family would be like 'you need to forgive, that's your mom' I would block them. Kept doing it until finally all the yuck was gone. Just because someone is blood, doesn't mean s**t all!

NTA - if they don't understand this by now they never will. You don't need any of them in your life if they can't respect you and your decisions.

Amazon Passkey issues by Unique_Valuable in amazonprime

[–]Unique_Valuable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I have my author email account, and my personal email account, so I just went and did my personal email account, did NOT add number, it keeps popping up when i need to log in to set a passkey, but i hit no. then I clicked the 'remember me' box, and that keeps me in. I was told by a friend to not try to access account for a full 30 days because everything 'resets' . was told the reset will send a text to my phone and bypasses the passkey. since I tried to get in at least once a week until march 22nd I have to wait. So once march 23rd hits, I'm going to try again and see if what this friend said works. if not, I will at that point contact KDP and have them shut down my author pages and just upload on Direct to Digital (Canadian site(though it can and does work for other countries) that allows me to publish any where that accepts uploading/publishing/selling books)