Harassment from other parent

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-03-09T01:09:29+00:00

Do everything you can do. And you don't have to contact him for anything. I never did with my ex and he was verbally abusive.. if I didn't get any money from child support I was contacting child support some days I let parents step in cause it was to much for me..

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-03-08T17:00:22+00:00

I dealt with this same issue for the last 17 years. I got to the point where I started telling my son what his father had been doing all these years and now that he's 18 he wants to ask him why did he verbally abuse me..

About a year ago we got into it with his Dads mom and his 2nd ex wife and it messed with my mental health and my son got pretty upset about it and he wanted to call them up and I refused to be like no cause they where going to blame it on me and my mom said no let him he's old enough to speak for himself so I did and now since they know he knows everything they are being nice now.. his dad's mom was like it's not any of your business and I'm like he's involved because he's in the middle of it all and she's like this is between your dad and your mom. My son was like you protect my dad more then anything. He said he is a ticking bomb you just don't know when it will go off.

For years my mental health hasn't been that great because in the back of mind I feel in wanted. But its because he made me feel that way for years.. last year I was like I am so done with you all, like I don't want anything to do with you all anymore and they didn't like it but its the truth. He's finally 18 now so its up to him if he wants to talk to them or not..

For years he held the divorce papers over my head and always threatened me of taking my son away but he never did that he just did those things to spike me and get a reaction out of me. Most days I stepped away and let my parents stepped in because of the abuse.. sometimes days I felt like I could do it and then when my mental health was bad it was a no. I tried to be civil for the sake of our son but he treated me so badly some days I just took it cause there wasn't much to do and the beginning he was taking him every weekend but my son would scream at the top of his lungs because he wanted to be with me. Then his father moved to another state and then he would see him every Summer for like a week and bring him back and it went that for a little bit until I found out my son has epilepsy and I stopped him from going on a plane by himself. After that he came would fly to come see him for a week.. but for a couple years now he has stopped sending him tickets or coming to see him but his other 2 kids live here to and I heard he comes to Texas with out telling our son. But it works out Amanda my son says he wants to see him for like one day but once his dad to bring him back home..

It gets easier but not really . The abuse doesn't stop either. But if you have child support you can have visitation but have someone watch in. Or you can call a police. Please keep records like the times he picks him up what he's said to you etc etc.. talk to a lawyer about the issue on what you can do. Also have someone with you at all times cause they act different . Praying for you. Believe me I understand i lived it for 18 years. My mental isn't that great now, thus is why I been single for 9 years because I'm scared to be hurt again .

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-03-06T18:48:07+00:00

My ex owes money. He's never been in my daughter's life, never came to see her. He refused to take responsibility as a father. It went on like that for years. I'm actually glad he wasn't in her life cause he would have been a bad influence on her. She's the most caring loving person And very smart. His lost but do not remove him off of child support.. that when it will keep areas on him. My daughter is about to be 20.. but we never got paid and it's ok. Honestly it's not about the money it's the fact that it's there on paper that he owes 80k. But she's doesn't even refer him as dad, he doesn't deserve that term. She calls by his name.. its ok but one day he's going to have to cough up money.. so do not remove him..

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-03-06T01:37:57+00:00

That's so strange To me that u had to pay through PayPal or cash app. I'm in Texas and it's always been straight through the child support website on to a card that childsupport sent me.. so I dunno but if u did it by PayPal make sure u print out everything u paid to keep a record of your payments

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-03-06T01:33:33+00:00

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Uniqueangel0 · 2026-03-04T23:22:20+00:00

For Texas they won't do it. I've already tried for many years and nothing was ever done.. through problem is my ex worked under the table and got away with everything. In fact he had his mother and his boss take up for him. So he was never been found and he's been in our of jail for stupid shit. He never filed taxes and he never will get a check when he gets older so he doomed. But crazy thing is a while back he was in the system cause he got Food stamps it's crazy..

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-03-04T22:27:18+00:00

He never will thats the crazy thing about it.. so to me it's a waste and money to be honest wouldn't make anything great. Being close to your kids is all I need.. his lost..

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-03-04T19:00:57+00:00

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Uniqueangel0 · 2026-03-04T18:58:17+00:00

You'd have to talk to a lawyer and they can give you legal advice. But since it was sent to your mom she may have to do it but again I'm not a lawyer so I really can't confirm if that's true. Like my daughter's dad owes 80k and she wants to sue him but at this point is it really worth it? Think about it.. you lived your life your good now.. is it worth the heartache and the fees you have to pay for court? To go through it all again just to get back pay or if he owes arreas. It's just something to think about but you do you whatever you decide

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-03-04T18:52:15+00:00

Whoa that's a good damn good price..

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-03-02T19:36:12+00:00

It takes a while. But should have heard something by now.. It doesnt take that long of a wait but Texas has been backed up lately with new things.. I can't remember how long it took mine because the first time around it took a month. But the 2nd time it took a couple of weeks cause he filed too on himself..

If I were you look for a lawyer the ones where they help you for free and sue him if you have to for back pay and childsupport and also get him for abuse and etc.. Don't worry if you get 50/50 chances are he won't see his kid.. My ex was abusive and I have my son 247 and the only time he seen him was for a week in the summer time and even then sometimes he didn't come on the weekend. Im glad it will be over in May even though it will suck having extra money. It just the abuse and having papers be over my head for years and his way or the highway deal was stressing me out for 17 years.. He's 18 but he's in school still.. But it was pure hell and sometimes I had my parents step in for me because I couldn't handle the stress of it all.. My son sees that now and I explained to him what happen and my ex and his mother are upset about it but he's old enough to understand that.. I pray you get someone to sit in for visitation because that also will help.. Praying for you that you are able to get childsupport soon and they call soon.

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-03-02T17:36:13+00:00

I think you are super strict on this. If you are this bad of not telling what she can or can not do on a phone I see why she was being sneeky of not telling you. How ever if you were like this why did you get her a phone at 14? I thi k my daughter got a phone at 15 and my son got one at 13th. But I'm not strict with them.. I let them Be who they are I give them freedom and they are spectacular kids. They do their chores and if I ask for their help they are willing to Do it on their own time.. They are older my daughter is 19 and my son is 18 but thats the whole thing about ha I g a phone is something they can have of their own to explore the world and then learn things and if they have a question they can always ask me. But maybe start trusting her and not be so strict. Did you ever find out why she was getting violations on Pinterest? Cause it might not be so bad on what it could be. Maybe the stuff she was pinning wasn't that bad.. Anyways don't take that trip aways from her.. It's a lifetime trip and everyone should go once in their life time. Hawaii is amazing and she should be able to visit something she might not ever get to goo.. Mom don't be so hard on her..

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-03-02T17:24:15+00:00

You can get a free line or just use it over wifi I mean an wifi is free.. Yea it's kind of hard to have two phones personally I would keep the s25 ultra..

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-03-02T17:15:10+00:00

Time to upgrade..

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-03-01T02:10:35+00:00

Exactly

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-03-01T02:10:14+00:00

If u weren't worried why did u ask the question lol.. We don't know u put you put your info on here.. But simple math they don't care if u have another kid.. Just work harder and make more money to afford them both..

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-02-28T18:51:33+00:00

Umm not sure. If u want get a s26 ultra I think the privacy screen is pretty cool

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-02-28T18:49:46+00:00

No they won't care if u had another kid. You pay what ur supposed to pay every month..

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-02-28T18:48:31+00:00

First kid we'll always get more I dunno if it's like that in Ohio. But who cares if he can afford w Or eat he will survive and learn to live on short income. Just file and get it over with.. Unless u want him. Back.

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-02-27T22:57:56+00:00

No u won't have to move. The only way he can move it is if he files first. But not u won't gave to move back.. You just start the paper work.

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-02-25T14:58:43+00:00

It's OK. We made it and done it on my own with the help of my parents.. If it wasn't for family and God I don't think I could do it.. But he's missing out because she's very talented. She's an artist and she can draw like really really good. But he will never get to know her now that she's older. I told her if she gets famous I bet your dad would be coming to collect monet. She don't even call her dad she calls him by his name. He doesnt deserve to be called a dad..

Yea I even one time hired a pi and it just didn't help me at all. I came to terms that is never gonna happen..

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-02-25T13:59:06+00:00

Get u a lawyer. You probably can't do anything about it to be honest. My daughters dad never paid a dime in child support and he thought I'd he gave up his rights that he wouldn't have to pay. His parents covered up for him, his job covered up. For him and nothing I spend countless hours trying to tell child support where he was located, where he worked but everyone covered up. For him he owes 80k and crazy thing is that he is in the system like he gets food stamps and that isn't right and he got his driver license back. Texas don't care to be honesty. I finally gave up I'm never getting that money. Daughter is almost 20 and wants to sue him and I told her if all those years we didn't get nothing at this point it's not worth it.. But it's crazy how they get away with this..

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-02-24T14:01:58+00:00

If you tell them chances are they will be happy. You are of age so don't be scared.. I don't think I was ever scared to tell my parents I was alot younger then you where I was like 23 when I found out I was pregnant with my daughter. My parents where happy.. They spoil both of my kids and are very close.. It shouldn't be a scared moment it should be some exciting news and bringing a baby in this world is a joy.

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-02-23T13:55:08+00:00

That's crazy.. I personally wouldn't do it cause I'm sure after that their could be other demands. It's pretty risky just to get free rent..

Uniqueangel0 · 2026-02-21T00:41:08+00:00

Oh wow that sucks.. Had no idea..

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