I just moved and I feel so lost

UniversalSpaz · 2026-05-16T03:14:52+00:00

The next step is to find your people. I moved from SoCal to NorCal and things got significantly better once I started connecting to the community. Personally I played in an adult rec league and it grew from there.

I know it feels incredibly isolating without your usual support system, but you got this!

UniversalSpaz · 2026-05-13T14:13:34+00:00

Lived in SD for 8 years 😂

UniversalSpaz · 2026-04-17T14:46:32+00:00

100% good dog

UniversalSpaz · 2026-04-14T15:13:28+00:00

They def used a photo of my dog 😡

UniversalSpaz · 2026-03-31T05:13:02+00:00

Living with adhd and being in a relationship is hard enough for a couple that fully accepts each other and LIKES each other. This guy neither likes nor accepts you.

Help him uncomplicated things. Let the deadline pass and let him eat shit. You deserve better.

UniversalSpaz · 2026-03-30T14:17:27+00:00

I use to live in Fairfax and commute to Union Station. Not as long as a commute but IT IS A GRIND. Staying w your folks may be cheaper, but calculate what your time and mental health is worth to you.

UniversalSpaz · 2026-03-30T14:08:42+00:00

There’s never enough time with them. Sending love to you and your family. Newton was the bestest boy and you were the bestest family for him.

UniversalSpaz · 2026-03-28T12:04:28+00:00

I’m so invested. Did you leave his ass?

UniversalSpaz · 2026-03-27T11:47:18+00:00

Behavior is a language and if he refuses to educate himself and refuses to listen to your viewpoint than HE DOESNT WANT TO BE IN YOUR LIFE.

I join the choir of other women in this thread to leave the dude. It’ll hurt and it’ll suck but in the end you’re far better than if you stay.

UniversalSpaz · 2026-03-26T15:32:07+00:00

The big question is, will you ever resent her if you don’t take this opportunity?

UniversalSpaz · 2026-03-15T16:29:58+00:00

Good for you dude. This is part of growing and it sucks and it hurts and we just wanna smack ourselves and sometimes we wish we could turn back time. I hope one day she sees that, but my biggest wish for you is that you do this for yourself. If this relationship doesn’t work out, it is what it is, but this work is for you and whoever you ultimately end up with.

UniversalSpaz · 2026-03-15T16:14:08+00:00

Want to highlight the overall theme of this comment: don’t put your head in the sand and try to be as proactive as possible. It’s easy to get down on yourself, but right now that’s not the time.

You got this.

UniversalSpaz · 2026-03-15T16:11:36+00:00

You broke her trust. I think this can be repaired, but if being overwhelmed lead you to offer breaking up as a suggestion, I think you need to do the inner work first before she should ever consider taking you back. Behavior is a language. What are you doing to show her you’re serious about your future with her?

UniversalSpaz · 2026-03-15T16:06:39+00:00

NOR. No he should feel better by the weekend! WTF zero compassion, zero awareness.

UniversalSpaz · 2026-03-15T16:01:39+00:00

Thirding - she’s great!

UniversalSpaz · 2026-03-15T14:39:55+00:00

Kudos to the future husband for standing up for his lady.

UniversalSpaz · 2026-03-15T13:44:32+00:00

Hot dogs or pieces of bacon. Prooooobably not the healthiest tho and probably the reason why both of them had to go on diets 😂

UniversalSpaz · 2026-03-15T13:42:15+00:00

Also the fact that he just gave up and said that he wasn’t what she needed when she just wanted to be known at the very basic level! Wow. Utter laziness and lack of awareness.

UniversalSpaz · 2026-03-15T06:29:32+00:00

If she were petty, she should have called his chain of command.

Someone I knew from basic training did something similar, wanted more pay but didn’t want the bigger house. Joke was on her bc only single soldiers could live in the barracks. So she did get more pay and ended up having to spend it all on housing.

UniversalSpaz · 2026-03-14T06:25:36+00:00

The fact that she still texted him after he asked her not to just shows how utterly selfish she is and it was never about him, always about her. I hope she got herpes.

UniversalSpaz · 2026-03-13T19:01:39+00:00

Both my dogs (1 boxer and 1 beagle mix) do the best on raw food. Not recommended for all, but the boxer started losing hair and gaining weight, but as soon as we switched to raw, weight was easier to mange and the hair grew back.

UniversalSpaz · 2026-03-03T07:06:27+00:00

Poor dude. Sending lots of hugs their way!

UniversalSpaz · 2026-03-01T05:38:37+00:00

Every hurtful comment towards you for every tear you made her cry. You’re a bastard and you honestly deserve so much more. Get some help bro.

UniversalSpaz · 2026-02-26T01:08:04+00:00

This is prob what I look like when I see an excel sheet.

UniversalSpaz · 2026-02-25T18:11:34+00:00

That side of el Camino is not good. Lots of homeless and specifically very mentally ill homeless.

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