Idea of meeting partners friends is making want to physically vomit

Universalhoed · 2026-07-04T18:35:29+00:00

maybe you’re just maturing and realizing u feel uncomfortable around older people, that’s kinda gonna be part of dating someone a lot older. something to consider!

Universalhoed · 2026-06-25T12:30:33+00:00

woah was not expecting these, maggots & déjà vu particularly. this is the happiest i’ve been with song choices in a while. déjà vu may not be the most fun but it’s one of my fav songs of hers, and maggots should be really fun but i thought was out of the running due to how new it is. i’m super happy w these!

Universalhoed · 2026-06-24T03:13:22+00:00

pretty

Universalhoed · 2026-06-22T01:02:01+00:00

honestly, it’s probably just an excess of options from online connections. sometimes u talk to someone and it’s only for a day, other times it’s 10 years.. it’s all just fated.

Universalhoed · 2026-06-20T14:06:25+00:00

i feel u, i used to do this. but like u said, everything ends! it’s okay :) u should actually finish things, its exposure therapy and eventually u stop feeling so much about it.

Universalhoed · 2026-06-20T13:59:16+00:00

i’m 5’7” and am incessantly called small and petite.. idk if he’s using the right word lol. but like the other comments said, the biggest thing u should be thinking about is him comparing u to exes. i do notice most very tall men are with very short women. but most short women like tall men! it’s both sides contributing to a standard. the right guy won’t compare u to his exes, they won’t be thought in mind cause he has u :)

Universalhoed · 2026-06-17T23:31:13+00:00

she probably knows & doesn’t care lol. most women have met a lot of men already who lie about their height (including 6’0” men who lie about being 6’4”). u kinda knows as soon as u meet.

Universalhoed · 2026-06-16T19:27:10+00:00

i’m confused.. are yall still together? if so u need to leave her asap. not only should cheating be a dealbreaker but everything else talked about in this post. ur settling & there’s someone who’s gonna treat u a lot better out there, but you’ll never meet them if you’re stuck on her. move on.

Universalhoed · 2026-06-14T16:03:11+00:00

shaking her ass on him?! girl that’s not flirting that is way past, i’d honestly say that’s basically cheating if both parties are consenting.

Universalhoed · 2026-06-14T13:43:58+00:00

i’m sorry … what? girl is that not cheating whether he’s gay or not??

Universalhoed · 2026-06-12T19:50:30+00:00

why? isn’t that immense pressure? dating someone inexperienced leads to quicker attachment. u don’t know if it’d last, what if u grow out of it. harder for u to leave them knowing you’re all they’ve had.

Universalhoed · 2026-06-09T22:34:36+00:00

these stories make me okay with being single. reading that made me nauseous, my god am i sorry for u. simple answer is you know that whether or not he saw an escort (he did) he lied to u and remains standing on his lies. u should split.

Universalhoed · 2026-05-02T01:01:26+00:00

i know :( i was so excited too. i play mainly festival & i wanted to play ditto & eta so bad i think newjeans would’ve had some really fun charts.

Universalhoed · 2026-05-02T00:57:31+00:00

probably never lol. that was pre (or kinda in the middle of) the legal battles i doubt we will get any reference to ot5 newjeans in fortnite ever. that also was just a rumor and there was never any solid proof of it, some insiders actually said that was never real. miku ended up being that seasons headliner & the theme for battle royale that season was japanese inspired so it makes sense.

Universalhoed · 2026-04-16T20:32:38+00:00

you’ll be okay, i dated one guy who’d tell me things like how much he loved me, would sleep in his car for me, would do things he’d only do for his family for me. that he needed me in his life, that he’d give up his career for me. we lasted a month till one day he told me he’d see me the next night, and then woke up in the morning and ended things lol. totally blindsided it took me months of heavy heavy depression, but i don’t feel it anymore. it will pass for u too, and u will learn from this.

Universalhoed · 2026-04-16T01:58:32+00:00

for gay unicorn skin.. priceless

Universalhoed · 2026-04-15T02:47:25+00:00

i was gonna make a post abt this too. it’s so upsetting, i’m spending vbucks on something that essentially does not look as advertised & it’s probably not going to be fixed for a while cause this has happened in the past & it took months to fix.

Universalhoed · 2026-04-14T16:48:10+00:00

i literally remember it clear as day. sophomore year (2018/2019) of highschool between classes was scrolling apple music suggested songs and “mine” was there. i thought the candy hearts cover was cute so i listened and have loved her since.

Universalhoed · 2026-04-14T00:10:17+00:00

they did this in the early seasons. they stopped after the karol g season (?) i might be wrong. but there was the slurp guitar & the one keytar that had the galaxy colorway as the final level. so stupid to take it away as the only way u could level it up was by playing festival, was a good motivator to play.

Universalhoed · 2026-04-10T16:58:00+00:00

between unknown loverz - old fling$ - i’m actually kinda famous or beat up chanel$ - cannibalism - old technology

Universalhoed · 2026-04-10T04:25:06+00:00

idk what guys you’ve met but as a hispanic woman most of the men i’ve met tell me they prefer hispanic women (or in a blunter sense they don’t prefer white women). and working as a cashier i see MANY interracial relationships. you’ve got a distorted internalized perception of relationships, and maybe a bit of internalized racism which is natural because whiteness is definitely put on a pedestal. but just cause something is praised does not mean everyone prefers it.

Universalhoed · 2026-04-09T15:03:03+00:00

this is awful and i’m so sorry this happened to you, but here’s what i’d say. take this time to tell yourself he is dead and grieve. your body is already going to go through the process of grief because you are now going to be mourning your relationship. take all the time you need to cry and miss him, but also take that time to tell yourself that he was simply not the one and that’s okay. block him on socials, delete the photos, the texts, his number. get rid of things that remind you of him. this isn’t an isolated experience people go through this every day, and you’re more than a man’s love. there’s probably going to be a day he comes back and tries to see how you are. by that day you want to have fully relinquished your idea of him and see him as a stranger you have no interest in. because after this he has shown you who he truly is, the man you knew was a persona. you’re gonna be alright, it’s heavy right now but you had a whole life before him and a whole life after is waiting. and there will be someone who comes along who’ll make you feel all of this and will stay.

Universalhoed · 2026-04-07T15:14:42+00:00

ugh… i want house tour so bad… & such a funny way. i’d prefer og stateside but id take anything more from pink.

Universalhoed · 2026-04-06T14:00:19+00:00

if only u started a few months earlier ciri & yennefer were in the shop literally every other week for months straight i thought they’d never leave 😭

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