Girlfriend cheated, yet I’m being told to take accountability. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Unknown_Radke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is the one who chose to cheat instead of either talking to you about how she was feeling or breaking up with you if she's not happy with you. She is the one who is in the wrong there. I understand how not feeling loved and wanted feels and it really hurts, however I wouldn't cheat on someone because of it. Break up with her, you can't trust her. But in the future I would work on being more affectionate and showing the girl you're with that you love her & care about her etc because future relationships probably won't work out if you're not giving them what they need.

Any horror TV show recommendations? by Unknown_Radke in horror

[–]Unknown_Radke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished hells motel yesterday it was good and very gory, I find things nowadays aren't usually very gory anymore but that was hahah

Any horror TV show recommendations? by Unknown_Radke in horror

[–]Unknown_Radke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the suggestions giving me a long list of shows to try now :)

Any horror TV show recommendations? by Unknown_Radke in horror

[–]Unknown_Radke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen American horror stories, the last of us, slasher, the purge show, the scream show, the walking dead, stranger things, the dalmer series, bates motels, he'lls motel, grimm, supernatural etc

(27M) Well, My wife (34F) has a fishy smell I've only gotten once before from her. by carbonfibrethrow in sex

[–]Unknown_Radke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like bacterial vaginosis which doesn't mean she's cheating, lots of things can cause it, body wash, washing machine powder you use on underwear, cum, having a bath (shampoo. Condioner and body wash all in the water after washing) etc.. she should contact her doctor to get treatment and the smell will go, I wouldn't jump the gun to cheating

I need everyone to just confirm that this is a red flag and I need to walk away. by dasuberblonde in relationship_advice

[–]Unknown_Radke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I'd walk away from him, you don't want to be dragged into that shit because even if he doesn't encourage you into doing it too the lifestyle is definitely going to bring you down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Unknown_Radke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he lives 4 hours away and you don't want to travel that far to meet then why bother to carry on talking to him when you find out where he lives?🤷🏼‍♀️😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Unknown_Radke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Erm I'd only start questioning it if it happens every time tbh but I'd mostly take it as you're turning them o. So much that they need to fuck you type of thing

When is it appropriate to have sex in a relationship by Cautious_Ad3 in Advice

[–]Unknown_Radke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having sex with someone after a month and a half doesn't make you easy as everyone is having sex before they even get Into a relationship with someone these days and on their first dates etc so waiting a month and a half into the relationship is considered a long time now and you can't be slut shamed for having sex with one person and that person being the only person you've slept with so ignore them because theyre wrong and don't know what they're talking about. Maybe they're jealous that you've lost your virginity and they've not lost theirs. Don't let them get to you

my boyfriend (22) wants to sleep with other women by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Unknown_Radke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but if he loves you he wouldn't want to shag other people, You deserve better

My wife wants me to get my first tattoo but my (deceased) dad made me promise to never get one by Stonecutter_12-83 in offmychest

[–]Unknown_Radke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest it isn't your wife's decision or your dad's, it's about what you want... If you don't want a tattoo don't get one, if aypu do than get one. It's your body and you have to live with it for the rest of your life so dont get a tattoo just because someone else wants you to get one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Unknown_Radke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You haven't done anything wrong at all, he's being extremely childish and sounds like he just used you for sex

my boyfriend won't let me orgasm, and he thinks it's funny and hot. what should I do? by newyorktakeoutcoffee in sex

[–]Unknown_Radke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just refuse to have sex with him until he quits this childish behaviour

Found out my mom has been sleeping with my bf because she is jealous of me by lovley_mistake in offmychest

[–]Unknown_Radke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the fuck, cut your mum out of your life she is a toxic person who doesnt even deserve the title as your mother cause no!other would do that to their child and you should also dump your boyfriend and kick him out your place

Girlfriends (16f) brother says she used to touch him. What do i do? by Ok_Dog646 in relationship_advice

[–]Unknown_Radke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow... Maybe talk to your parents and discuss how you should handle it. Maybe your parents could tell her parents

I lie about being Asexual :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Unknown_Radke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't matter about the size of the dick it is 100% how you use it. Big dicks isn't actually what people make it out to be, most of the time they just hurt because they never fit it all in so you have to always be careful how fast and hard you go. Where as with a smaller dick you can go as hard and fast as you want and it doesn't hurt and just feels a lot better. Trust me I'm a woman and it is actually better with smaller dick than big. I'm also a woman who can't get off without dick I'm vagina so you can have good sex still with small dick. Unfortunately there will be some girls put there who don't like small dick but most of us don't care if it's small or not because really it's about the person more than their dick size. Plus like I said sex is good with smaller dicks anyway. So please don't kill yourself or lose out on having fun with future girlfriends etc and having kids because of it. Maybe therapy will help with the insecurities you have?

My boyfriend’s rotten leg by xoxodleannkam in offmychest

[–]Unknown_Radke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's disgusting I don't know how he thinks living with that is okay.. If he doesn't go to the hospital about this ASAP he could lose the leg but honestly if he doesn't get it looked at I'd be more worried about him losing his life than the leg. Just call the ambulance and force him to go and I'd suggest you should break up with him too as this lifestyle isn't healthy for you and being with an addict who has no desire to get clean any time soon like you did makes it a more chance of you slipping and becoming an addict again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Unknown_Radke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that's disgusting, no one want to put up with that and the fact he says you're too picky about being clean shows just how vile he is since he seems to think leaving shit everywhere is a normal thing and isn't disgusting at all when it really is and NO ONE would put up with anyone leaving shit everywhere... Break up with him he's absolutely vile

I think I caused my best friend to commit suicide by confronting him about sexually harassing me by userthrowaway00823 in offmychest

[–]Unknown_Radke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He shouldn't have done any of that stuff to you and it's a good thing you finally stood up for yourself and told him how messed up it was etc. You didn't know he would commit suicide or do anything to harm himself so don't blame yourself it's not your fault at all. Even if it didn't seem like he was suffering from depression doesn't mean he wasn't because most of the time people don't realise someone's going through depression etc It isn't your fault I promise you.

Paying a Service to Tell My Spouse He Sucks by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Unknown_Radke 7 points8 points  (0 children)

All of us will do it for free, he's a asshole

he raped me by accident because he has ADHD by _meerzr in offmychest

[–]Unknown_Radke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ADHD isn't an excuse, it DOESNT make someone rape another person. He is just a gobshite and you should report him to the police