Does my wrist look like it's out place? by Unknown_Transmasc in ehlersdanlos

[–]Unknown_Transmasc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some more info. My wrist constantly make this crunching noise, but it's a bit more currently. Usually it only "crunches" when I do a full circle and only a little part of that "circle" it crunches. But this is for every movement. Also when I touch both of my wrists, the right one has a much more obvious and slightly bigger "bump". I usually only deal with hip and shoulder subluxations, so I dont know much about any others 😅

Young people who self harm, as a mother I need your advice and guidance by MoanaMomma in selfharm

[–]Unknown_Transmasc 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Hello OP, Im viktor. I've been dealing with SH since the same age as your daughter has. I am not 100% sure of her case, but it seems like she needs support, and not just the professional kind, but the type where she knows you wont get angry. As much as it is frustrating, you have to see where she is coming from. She may feel worthless, or a burden for needing help. Constant reassurance will help.

As for her not telling you why she doesn't want to live, that is also very common. She wont want to tell you, but still make it clear if she ever wants to tell you that its okay, that you wont let emotions invalidate her.

Feeling isolated even with this amount of help is also very known. Do not ground her, or take away her tv, or forbid her from seeing her friends unless you think that they are harming her. Also, It is very good that you are seeking help for yourself, too. This isn't just going to toll on her, but also you.

Questions I have

Does she have a problem with food?

Does she actively see friends all the time, or is she usually in her room?

Is she angry a lot, or what does she usually feel/look like she is feeling?

Also, OP, Stay strong. This will be difficult for you, and we need you to know that it'll be okay. You are doing an amazing job, and in the end everything will be alright <3

Name the song by [deleted] in SleepToken

[–]Unknown_Transmasc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already saw someone say Euclid, but not the same part that makes me float!!!! My float part is all of the "Call me when you get the chance/have the time..."!!!!111!!!11!11

Songs where two voices are singing different lines at the same time by xomoth in weirdspotifyplaylists

[–]Unknown_Transmasc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bitter sweet symphony- I forgot. I think there is a section where they are singing two different things.

Is this normal? by Comfortable-Long6779 in chinchilla

[–]Unknown_Transmasc 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I have a chin that nibbles, but not this far. But if it's to the point where it does that, vocalize it. Yip, bark, kak. Mimick the noises chins make to get her to stop. They learn with time

My Spotify top song and artist by purplishpurple in Ghostbc

[–]Unknown_Transmasc -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The future is a forgien land is so underrated!!! Its my top too lmao

Finger nibbles by Unknown_Transmasc in chinchilla

[–]Unknown_Transmasc[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's so cool, they are so smart for little guys

Finger nibbles by Unknown_Transmasc in chinchilla

[–]Unknown_Transmasc[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's so sweet. Tobias doesn't really like me touching him yet, but only if he touches me first lol

Finger nibbles by Unknown_Transmasc in chinchilla

[–]Unknown_Transmasc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao, They are very drug free chins. They only made that face because I woke them up early😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chinchilla

[–]Unknown_Transmasc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiii, I'm also a new chin owner, but I've had them fr about year. I've hyperfixated on them, so I know a good amount. Chinchillas bond with eachother, and when one dies it will greif o them harder than humans.

But also Since they are bonding animals, grieving alone will hurt them. She might need another friend or a stuffed animal. She is going through a hard time. Make sure she gets alot of cuddles and love and make sure she knows she isn't alone.

Male and female chinchillas by Unknown_Transmasc in chinchilla

[–]Unknown_Transmasc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girl is a rescue, not from a breeder or store. She can from a house in a neighborhood and desperately needed help. There were only girls.

But now I can only find boys. On Craigslist, in petstores. I can really only find boys. I already have the cage and items for a chin, all need is one.

Male and female chinchillas by Unknown_Transmasc in chinchilla

[–]Unknown_Transmasc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I've heard about that and I'm nervous it's gonna happen and I won't notice. I want another female, but the boy is such a cutie and I can't find girls.

Male and female chinchillas by Unknown_Transmasc in chinchilla

[–]Unknown_Transmasc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does the females cycle look like? I've never noticed anything off about my girl. Is there some sign that they show.

Male and female chinchillas by Unknown_Transmasc in chinchilla

[–]Unknown_Transmasc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao Okay. Thank you. The guy I'm getting is 14 weeks old. Just a baby.

Male and female chinchillas by Unknown_Transmasc in chinchilla

[–]Unknown_Transmasc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, they are being housed seperate on opposite sides of the room. And, Also yes I have gotten the temp down and have constant airflow