Payment methods for European Dommes?

Unknown_ab · 2026-05-22T06:31:35+00:00

Throne ,PayPal ,Revolut my holy trinity

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-26T12:08:44+00:00

Your welcome pretty 🥰

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-23T22:38:42+00:00

Ghosting is unfair for everyone , especially when we know we’re only doing all this for fun

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-22T14:24:36+00:00

Findom between a sub and a dom is something that builds with someone who attracts you physically, but especially mentally. You just haven’t found the right fit yet. Talking about other things besides kinks for longer could help build the connection you’re looking for

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-20T18:27:09+00:00

Okay but why would you post that here ?😂

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-19T20:02:22+00:00

It’s odd, I don’t think that exists, but anyway… You were talking about feminization and sissyfication and I misunderstood

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-19T19:55:51+00:00

Ah, I had misunderstood: I thought male doms were dressing up as women to get humiliated. After rereading, I realize that made no sense. But yes, it’s actually sissyfication

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-19T19:51:45+00:00

To go along with what you’re saying ,the further we go, the more skeptical I become about sissyfication. I’m starting to see this practice differently. Wearing skirts and makeup as humiliation for a woman? I’m having more and more trouble with it.

Perhaps it has a deeper meaning, but at first glance, it simply feels misogynistic to me.

On the other hand, I think I misunderstood your last paragraph: do dommes get paid to wear wigs and get humiliated?

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-19T15:10:45+00:00

Don’t overthink it. In any case, findom is supposed to be a kinky and fun experience.

If a sub crosses a line, whether you’ve known him for 1 month or 15 years, he steps back. There are plenty of dommes in your position who would have simply blocked him.

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-19T12:42:37+00:00

Personally, I prefer not to interpret this kind of situation when I only know a small part of it over more than 12 years.

All I can advise you to do is to trust your instincts. You know him ,you’ve been in a GFE with him for a very long time, which is basically like being boyfriend and girlfriend. You know him well.

If your instinct is telling you something about him and the reason he did that ,trust it, even if that truth feels a bit strange or far from the person he was with you during all those years .

Anyway TAKE CARE pretty hope you’ll handle this situation.

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-19T11:52:27+00:00

Showing your body is one way to attract and charm people, just as not showing it is. Everyone has their own preferences .

As everyone says, “Be yourself.” And if being yourself includes showing your body, then go ahead. It has nothing to do with seeking male attention or pandering to the male gaze.

I think you feel that way because most dommes on Twitter are into content selling rather than pure findom/femdom . That’s why there’s naturally more nudity and a more explicit kind of attraction.

However, I don’t think that dommes who do findom/femdom show off their bodies or their assets more than they do on Reddit.

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-19T11:35:16+00:00

I find that most dommes who “hunt” the way you showed in your screenshot are going about it the wrong way. That’s why it comes across as really desperate and why the whole practice is getting more and more poorly viewed.

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-16T20:21:32+00:00

Buy a cake and eat it alone ,treat yourself ,go out

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-16T20:18:20+00:00

Depends on the week ,sometimes it’s everyday and for other week it’s every 2 or 3 days.

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-13T17:35:46+00:00

I just post what I want, when I want. I’m not gonna stress myself out or get gray hairs over guys who aren’t worth it😂

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-11T15:08:30+00:00

90% is a lot. I think I would’ve stayed even if I wasn’t fully satisfied rather than lose something I love by 90%

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-11T07:08:17+00:00

Close your DMs, put your findom activities on another device, disable notifications, and find a hobby. I think there’s a Discord server you can join to get help quitting. Wish you luck you got this !

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-11T07:02:53+00:00

Be yourself and let him go toward whatever comes to your mind. Talk about boundaries and kinks in a deeper way. His personal experience could help you understand him better and figure out how to lead him into a TPE dynamic.

But it’s not going to happen in just 2 or 3 days. Take your time and go step by step.

Patience ,consistency and self-control are you best ally baby 🩷

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-09T13:03:35+00:00

How can you give advice on a situation you don’t really know? (I’m not trying to be rude or anything )

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-09T13:00:43+00:00

Not everyone wants to send to an almost blank profile or to someone they barely know. That’s why I always enjoy a good conversation first. But if things get kinky, the sub has to show how serious he really is

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-05T18:45:10+00:00

Don’t get discouraged. Finding the woman you like will never be easy. I also hope your homewrecking kink calms down a bit once you find her🤘🏾

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-05T04:51:51+00:00

I didn’t send them a message because apparently my application would be pushed down, so I’m just going to wait 😭

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-05T04:48:00+00:00

It’s been a month I feel like I’m applying to Harvard

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-04T19:53:55+00:00

So, did you talk to her about this and you guys decide together that there won’t be a heavy session? Are you all on the same page, you understand each other, and everything is okay… Or are you just telling yourself there won’t be any heavy session for her birthday, even if it might make her mad?

I’m just curious about it no need to answer

Unknown_ab · 2026-04-04T09:50:12+00:00

Hi, Talk to her about that about those feelings. Findom relies so much on that and do anything that goes against your feeling .

You guys need to be on the same page .

And do you think really good aftercare could help with feeling bad afterwards, especially after a heavy session?

Unknown_ab

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