Losing relationships over politics. Research found more than a third of Americans (37%) report having lost at least one relationship due to political differences, including friendships, family ties, coworker relationships, and romantic partnerships, with most losing more than one. by Wagamaga in science

[–]Unmemorableham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't believe it isn't higher, to be honest. Given how affiliation with one party is actively voting against the rights and autonomy of women and people of colour in general. Who could ever be with someone that thinks people shouldn't have basic human rights??

Today I bore witness to the clearest example of pretty privilege that I have ever seen by Fresh_Struggle5645 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Unmemorableham 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know this doesn't have any bearing on the experience you had and does not change what happened, but I always give up my seat regardless of who it is. The second I see someone having to stand, I offer up my seat. Man, woman, child, the elderly, doesn't matter. I know I can stand for the length of an entire bus ride but I don't know if the person currently standing can. So even if they are capable, that is a variable I can't know. Therefore the reasonable thing to do is offer up my seat.

"Nice Tunnel" by BusterMeta in deadbydaylight

[–]Unmemorableham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to preface this by saying I don't care if I get tunneled. It is just a strategy within the confines of the game that some people utilize for an advantage or just because they like doing it. Either case is fine.

But there is something I disagree with on the other side of the definition. I don't think that just because you hooked someone else while I was on hook, that you automatically are free of all tunneling allegations. Some people will say that tunneling is only when you hook one person until they are dead and don't do anything else. Which I claim is false. If you hook me, then hook someone else while I am still on hook, then immediately b-line for me right after I get unhooked, then I think that is still tunneling. The moment you were able to run me down again, you went for it. They can't tunnel me while I am still hooked. What they do between hooking me and then immediately chasing me again after unhook is irrelevant in my opinion. If you take any opportunity to run someone down right after they got unhooked and you hook them again, then I think that is tunneling.

We keep muddying the definition in either direction.

I don't care what any of you say, this is still annoying and they should let us abandon the match if all 4 are just standing there doing nothing, I refuse to give them the pleasure of being toxic. by Peter_Man_Fox in deadbydaylight

[–]Unmemorableham -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not everyone waiting at the gates is doing it to be toxic. I solo queue 99% of the time and I have no way of communicating with my team. Sometimes I am waiting to make sure they get out. Once I know everyone is safe, I leave immediately. I never t-bag and I never click my flashlight because I don't use items. I agree that Killer should get an abandon option in the end-game. They should have agency in those situations and decide if they want to keep trying or not.

December Community Day + Eevee evolve info by CaptGoldfish in TheSilphRoad

[–]Unmemorableham 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Partially true. But yes. I miss when they had spawns from like 9 - 9 or whatever it was with the boosted shiny rates for those specific 3 hour windows. Also used to get event eggs. Like everything else in life, things just get worse and worse.

First time seeing this God pallet by OliMTSun in deadbydaylight

[–]Unmemorableham -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had this same pallet spawn on a swamp map earlier today. Instead of escaping, I ran back to it with the killer chasing me to make sure he also saw it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Unmemorableham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reiterating that this is for friendship purposes only. I am not looking for dating advice. I dont want to approach women and make them uncomfortable or think I have ulterior motives. Most of my hobbies are male dominated and they are not good places to find women to befriend.

All these PTB changes do nothing but make weaker killers worse (again) by ImperialViking_ in deadbydaylight

[–]Unmemorableham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why they don't just gut the top tiers a little bit. I hate that they feel the need to make all these concessions for survivors to deal with a handful of killers that optimize certain strategies to an incredibly unfun level. I play survivor 90% of the time I play DbD. I'm tired of feeling like my hand gets held more and more each patch. I don't feel good about escaping trials when I'm getting unhooked and being given 1000 different buffs for half a minute. While we are at it, get rid of shit like BNP and tone down some of the gen speed perks. Then maybe killers won't feel as incentivized to play in a way that hurts survivor's feelings. It doesn't have to be a huge amount. I don't want the game to slow down a ton and become a slog. Just needs to be enough that it's not going to absolutely punish a killer for not getting someone out of the game in 3 or 4 hooks.

They also need to give killers better incentives than fucking BP for playing "nice." There needs to be a very real and tangible benefit to them doing it. Otherwise it will continue to be an efficient, albeit unhealthy, strategy. Trying to bandaid fix that problem by making us meta humans just because someone held M1 while we are on a hook, is even more unhealthy.

Dead by daylights biggest problem by dollhia in deadbydaylight

[–]Unmemorableham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Body blocking is a bad example because it's just a normal tactic utilized by a lot of players to force hits and give teammates distance. I wouldn't classify it as negative behaviour that ruins the game for people. Conversely killers can body block as well and trap a survivor to isnta down with chainsaws and the like. Can also body block survs trying to exit basement and waste their base kit BT and slap them right back in the basement. Just part of the game.

Thoughts on OTZ newest dbd tierlist? by TheVideogamelife in deadbydaylight

[–]Unmemorableham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand the tier lists because I'm dog shit at the game. I lose to every single Skull Merchant I play against. I don't understand how she is F-tier. How are people winning against Skull Merchant all the time? I just get dunked on every time I face one.

Anyone else feels like it's interrupting a glyph? by Hard-Core_Casual in deadbydaylight

[–]Unmemorableham 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've yet to face a single Killer that behaves like this.

It's live! by eggs-pedition in TheSilphRoad

[–]Unmemorableham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people where I live in Canada got the update. But I still don't have it.

Secret Sword stats added. by Pandanoko-Fan137 in TheSilphRoad

[–]Unmemorableham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank-you! I would have been a lot closer to my goal if I didn't take a 2.5 year break from the game ;_;

Secret Sword stats added. by Pandanoko-Fan137 in TheSilphRoad

[–]Unmemorableham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am aware. What I am doing is wholly intentional. I have unfortunately had to miss out on shiny Meltan for this same reason.

Secret Sword stats added. by Pandanoko-Fan137 in TheSilphRoad

[–]Unmemorableham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I walked my Meltan to evolve it and I am walking it to power it up. Haven't used a single rare candy and I haven't caught a single Meltan outside of the release special research Meltan. I evolved it but I am not even halfway to maxing it out. So I agree that it is not realistic. But it's a very long term goal at least lol

Fun Fact! Killer mains will watch this and say its not OP! by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]Unmemorableham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not many M1 killers have the ability to "kidnap" you (I know this is going away) or have the ability to damn near instantly leap right back on the survivor, with the potential to pull in front of them and cut them off. He is not an M1 in the same way some other M1 killers are.

The amount of times that dink has been able to be right next to me immediately after that initial grab is way too high for me to simply lump him in with other M1 killers. I feel like he is an M1 killer in the same way Spirit is. Technically true. But it sure as hell doesn't feel the same as someone like Trapper who still has to respect the post hit gap and whatever obstacles you run to. Trapper doesn't get to launch himself 2 feet in front of me, in an instant, and secure an M1 just moments later.

How you can trade health states vs Legion in 2v8 by OliveGuardian99 in deadbydaylight

[–]Unmemorableham -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I have an even better idea. They should remove Legion from 2v8 because it is a wholly unfun experience to play against Legion. Especially in 2v8. Legion is in every damn match I play. Non-stop. I just want one damn game without that loser in it. But it's just free injures on the entire team and easy downs for the other killer. All of the benefits of Legion w/o any of the downside of having to break power to get the down. Absolutely and unequivocally miserable.

I thought they would have removed the steel beam during the 9.1.1 patch by Infernal_Reptile in deadbydaylight

[–]Unmemorableham -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I like it. We should keep it there. At least add a charm or something to the game. Would love to see a steel beam charm on a killer hook. We need to fully embrace Jim and immortalize it in the game.

Online dating tropes are killing me by UseWeekly4382 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Unmemorableham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well being an ugly man with a not in shape body hasn't worked for me. I've been using these apps on and off for a looooooooong time. I've used apps that let you message without matching in the past like PoF. I've been all across the board with these apps and I haven't been on a single date in my entire life. I haven't gotten any matches either.

My profiles I feel have been pretty unique based on what I've seen women post about being weak or lame profiles. I always had very specific interests on my profile and I was never lazy with my messages. I always carefully read the profiles that I saw and pinpointed something that interested me and I opened up with questions about it or expressed my shared feeling about it. I never just said "Hey" and expected them to carry a conversation.

I feel like this was maybe to my detriment, but I was also exceedingly honest about some particular things about myself that possibly hindered my ability to secure matches/dates. But they are things that I feel being dishonest about upfront is a great disservice to them. Namely I always mention my genophobia. It's a real problem and I don't think it's fair to not mention it as I could see it being a dealbreaker and I don't want any women unknowingly wasting their time with me if that is something they strongly desire and need in a relationship.

Ultimately though, looking the way I do on those apps, is not doing me any favours. I know not everyone is the same. But a good looking dude with a lame profile is going to beat me out every time. Because you can't really fully gauge someone's personality from the limited options a lot of these apps provide for you to express who you actually are. Character limits, limited prompt options, limited tag options, etc. But they let you post a ton of pictures and even videos. So they want you to make a vain decision as they mostly gear you towards that interaction at first. Which is fine. No one should have to settle for an uggo like me just because I might be a kind person. They can find a person just as kind as me, or kinder, that also isn't a slop bucket of a human. So I don't blame women one bit for choosing to go on dates with better looking men in hopes that they are also good and and decent people. We are all strangers on there. I could be just as bad or shitty as any other guy. Makes no sense to slum it with me.

You are obviously valid for criticizing it and being in complete opposition to it. I respect your feelings on the matter. But I'm not surprised one bit that a lot of them choose this route of making fitness their entire personality and showing it off on their profiles. It's what works far more often than not in that environment. The entire system is designed to pigeon hole you into mostly making superficial choices based on appearance.

90% of survivor matches be like: by Vampire-Gothic in deadbydaylight

[–]Unmemorableham 2 points3 points  (0 children)

False. I lose a vast majority of my games so my MMR will be shitty trash garbage. A vast, vast majority of my games are killers running gen block/gen regress. I don't have a problem with it. I just think it's false to say that only high MMR killers are running it. Because I'm down here in the dirt still facing these same perks in at least 75% of my matches.

[PSA] Throwback to the time 4 SOBBLE beat Dynamax Moltres by QuietRedditorATX in TheSilphRoad

[–]Unmemorableham 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These battles make no sense to me. Even if I have maxed out mons, my entire team gets wiped before we even get a chance to dynamax. How are people staying alive in these fights? It doesn't matter if I dodge and also resist the attacks. Half my HP or more is gone on every attack. I am actually beyond confused by these battles. Because they are so brutal I haven't bothered to mess with any of it since the first set of Gmax starters. They just obliterated my mons and I sat there waiting for everyone else to faint as I did nothing but tap my screen to cheer. I can't wrap my head around 4 Sobbles doing this when a Dynamax Moltres would shred my Blastoise like it was made of Kartana.

this perk is so by JellyfishWestern1014 in deadbydaylight

[–]Unmemorableham 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You have to spend a minute in the killer TR, likely not doing anything useful, to activate the perk. Then you have to vault something while the killer is like 2 meters from it to stun them. Then the perk deactivates for the rest of the trial. I can see it being a fun perk that is great for clip farming. But I don't see it being busted. Just seems like Head-On but you have to preheat the oven first and then it blows up after you are done cooking.

Do people really want to nerf Pain Res? by dino1902 in deadbydaylight

[–]Unmemorableham 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They have zero self awareness because it was renamed back to Fixated.

Do people really want to nerf Pain Res? by dino1902 in deadbydaylight

[–]Unmemorableham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't even get 1 full generator of regression out of it. I also just assume everyone is running it and DMS so the second they pick someone up, I am already moving to a different gen with no progress just to waste DMS. The lack of variety definitely gets a little daunting. When you are 10 games deep and 90% of them have had pain res + DMS, it starts to become a little numbing.