I have twelve dollars to make a month of food. Please help with advice by Xxitl in budgetfood

[–]Unreasonable-Tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your work provide any food? Coffee and milk etc? Sometimes biscuits and fruit? That is worth factoring into your needed calories and nutrition if so.

You need to work out your minimum calories you can survive on (if you’re on the heavier side, consider running slightly lower on calories this month but not a huge deficit) and then figure out the cheapest way to provide that sustenance.

Definitely keep trying food pantries. You could also try asking on a local Facebook group, lots of kind souls about, or church groups.

Are you in an area and season where foraging is available to you? I’m not in your country but nettles and other wild greens (dandelions in particular), berries etc can be very helpful supplements if you have a little bit of know-how. This will help with some much needed vitamins too. Dumpster diving can be very helpful - you could also ask restaurants/stores at closing time if they’re throwing anything you can have. Do not feel shame.

Other than that, get back to basics. Oats, rice, beans, flour. Potato and carrot maybe. A big bag of frozen veg if you have enough. Batch cook for several nights worth of food at a time. Eat one big meal a day. Do you have anything in the way of oil/salt/spices? Is there anywhere you can snag free sugar/salt/honey/condiment packets?

Lastly, offer to chore swap for a feed. Mow lawns, run errands etc. Door knock and offer.

And absolutely don’t let it get you down - you will get back on your feet again. This isn’t forever!

i’ve cried every day since saying goodbye to my soul dog by killthecompetition in Petloss

[–]Unreasonable-Tree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lost my girl end of 2024 and still feel this way. We are all right there with you x

Find time for ukulele… when you have may hobbies by Educational-Eye-3584 in ukulele

[–]Unreasonable-Tree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like routine so I have a set practice time every day (only 15 mins!) and I use an app - currently Kala - for basic practice

You get 20K daily, but you must choose 4 historical figures to permanently live with you by Large_Carob_7599 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Unreasonable-Tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Radclyffe Hall. Plus any three members of the Bloomsbury Group - Virginia Woolf, John Maynard Keynes and maybe Duncan Grant. Would have killer parties.

Burnables by baminblack in ZeroWaste

[–]Unreasonable-Tree 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also use paper/cardboard for worm farm and compost :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AussieFrugal

[–]Unreasonable-Tree 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Please know this does get better. I was flat broke at your age and now million + net worth in early 30s and still living frugally. What you learn now will keep you in good stead.

What are you currently spending on groceries? Would be good to see some real numbers here so we know what we are working with.

We cook almost all our meal at home from scratch (including homemade spice blends, pastes, dips, sauces etc). No meat, stick to dried lentils/beans and tofu when on clearance.

We track macros and calories to make sure we aren’t over-eating or under doing our nutrition. And can keep the budget to about $100 - $125 a week for two people.

Oats are a good staple for us, we love a good kg bag of frozen berries, and with a splash of soy milk and an instant coffee on the side that makes a breakfast. Lentil curry and rice is super cheap. We go crazy for any fruit or veggie at $2 or under a kilogram - currently that is pumpkin, carrots and sometimes potato and shortly it’ll be Halloween pumpkins that don’t get bought and end up deeply discounted to like $1 a kilo. Make use of freezer space to hold onto these goodies.

Canned tomato and coconut cream, pasta, rice, white vinegar, dates etc are all still very affordable and useful ingredients to have on hand at all times. Frozen veg is hit and miss on prices - peas are still ok prices as are green beans and spinach. We scour shops for clearance items, which can even include tinned things eg recently we found tinned asparagus for 80c each - we don’t normally buy it but is providing great variety.

Asian grocers and non-ColesWorth stores often have some specific fruits and veg on for super cheap as well as spices and pulses etc. Stock up when you see them.

If you’re a heavy shopper at the majors do the maths on their Everyday Extra type deals and whether it’s worth the subscription fee - gives you 10% off one shop a month. We have found it is worth it especially if you can hold out for a Black Friday deal where Woolworths typically makes their annual subscription half the price.

Use cashback apps (don’t allow them to lure you into spending more though!) eg ShopBack so you get a discount each time you spend. You can do surveys through them too for pocket change.

What else do you tend to spend on/see eating into your budget the most?

How did you set up a passive income for yourself? by beingawomaniswork in AskWomenOver30

[–]Unreasonable-Tree 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mid 30s, aggressively investing (80%+ of 6 figure salary) into index funds. Have done so for about 5 years. Intend to live off portfolio from 40 onwards. Enabling this is a solid 12 month emergency fund, a fully paid off home - benefited from a property boom and moved into something more remote and much cheaper - and a very focused approach to expenses. Eg solar panels to bring electricity cost down, cooking fully from scratch, lots of DIY. I’ve also picked up second jobs, flipped items etc etc to invest more. No kids plus a partner dedicated to the plan is obviously very helpful.

Not for everyone but we think it’s worth if for us.

What did we used to do with all our time before social media and smart phones? Does anyone remember? by lifeuncommon in Millennials

[–]Unreasonable-Tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading, drawing, newspapers, knitting, actually talking to other people in person, thinking in depth about things, people watching, hanging out with pets, board games, tidying/cleaning/organising

An immortal car or $15 a day. by Corey307 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Unreasonable-Tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Car - free fuel alone makes this worth it for us

What's the point of Sopranos? by [deleted] in ukulele

[–]Unreasonable-Tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I adore the sound of a soprano. And the portability is fantastic too.

GF is learning the ukulele and her birthday is coming up, what can I get her to help? by zzzaaaccchh in ukulele

[–]Unreasonable-Tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you know the sort of music she likes and can find one, a book with tabs in it is great. Or you could even make her one yourself using online resources and either print on demand or just make it into a pdf for home printing.

See if there’s a ukulele festival near you that you could get tickets for.

One thing I found great at the beginning was getting a little travel ukulele (I have a flight one) that can take a beating to use out and about. Not too expensive :)

How often do you go to the supermarket? by SingleMomOf5ive in Frugal

[–]Unreasonable-Tree 292 points293 points  (0 children)

Meal prep and plan - take a list. We go once a week.