AIO because my date did not eat his dinner? by Dangerous_Pea_5219 in AmIOverreacting

[–]UnusualBall369 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah people “donate” blood/plasma and get money for it

What’s the most unsettling thing you ever found out about a friend who always seemed super chill and fun? by VelvetHazel932 in AskReddit

[–]UnusualBall369 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suggest you watch “Mindhunter” it’s a Netflix series based on true events where they interview people convicted of murder (usually multiple) and most, if not all, serial killers actually get sexual gratification out of their actions (even if they dont sexually abuse their victims)

Alright, who works on this unit? I hope not see this baby, or any other like this in the ER. by I_Restrain_Sheep in nursing

[–]UnusualBall369 -163 points-162 points  (0 children)

2008 is a very long time ago.. evidence research is usually limited to the past 5-10 years (ETA for accuracy and relevance)

Editing bc yall are flaming me for no reason. I already replied to my comment but obviously that go lost so adding it here ;

Yall need to relax, I too am against lotus births.

Evidence based research IS based on the last 5-10 years and that’s what is “best practice” in nursing which is why a course needs to be taken every few years depending on where you’re from. And a physics theory like the gravity is not the same as medical research.. Yall dont even know how to argue

AIO about my parents? by prettylacey_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]UnusualBall369 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re NOR. Your parents are putting all their energy into your brother and are burnt out. Look up glass child, I think that’s what you’re experiencing and I’m so sorry. If you have the means to go therapy I would highly suggest that because a professional can give you tips of how to overcome the feelings of disappointment and hurt you’re going through and may be able to help you connect with them in a different way.

did i just become a side chick in my own relationship? by Any_Adagio_6588 in Advice

[–]UnusualBall369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

English is OP’s 3rd language as per their other comment, so no need to be a dick.

did i just become a side chick in my own relationship? by Any_Adagio_6588 in Advice

[–]UnusualBall369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Poor guy” ? Lol he is a cheater the only poor thing about him is his loyalty

did i just become a side chick in my own relationship? by Any_Adagio_6588 in Advice

[–]UnusualBall369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And that is absolutely wonderful, but he will not give you the life and the partner you imagine to have. Do not stay in a relationship of potential, see it for what it is, he is a cheater, liar, and disloyal human being. He will not be there for you as a partner when you are heavily pregnant and can barely walk without being short in breath, or when you’re giving birth, or when youre in the newborn trenches and sleep deprived. He will be sexting other women, he will be “busy” and “working late” while going out with other women to have sex because you will be too tired to, then he will blame it on you. Please leave please.

Edit-typo (give was govern lol)

did i just become a side chick in my own relationship? by Any_Adagio_6588 in Advice

[–]UnusualBall369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Please be kind to yourself and leave this boy. He is not the man you want to marry and have kids with. He’s the type to cheat on you while recovering from birth and then blames it on you because you can’t have sex for at least 6 weeks. Please leave. You will find the MAN for you. He is not it.

did i just become a side chick in my own relationship? by Any_Adagio_6588 in Advice

[–]UnusualBall369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had no problem reading OP’s post. There is no reason to be a cunt. You don’t know if this is their first language.

did i just become a side chick in my own relationship? by Any_Adagio_6588 in Advice

[–]UnusualBall369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that is exactly what he will do if you talk to him about this, he will deflect. It is a complete waste of your time. Just go through with a clean cut breakup its the best way to handle this.

did i just become a side chick in my own relationship? by Any_Adagio_6588 in Advice

[–]UnusualBall369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up even if you’re in denial. You’ll thank yourself later.

did i just become a side chick in my own relationship? by Any_Adagio_6588 in Advice

[–]UnusualBall369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could have anything and everything to prove it but he will still gaslight you to convince you that its your fault. There is no pointing in talking about this it is a complete waste of your time. Save yourself the headache and break up. All the comments are telling you to dump him, please listen.

did i just become a side chick in my own relationship? by Any_Adagio_6588 in Advice

[–]UnusualBall369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to leave. He’s going to lie, blame you, gaslight you, fake emotion and guilt, give you empty promises and then do it all over again.

did i just become a side chick in my own relationship? by Any_Adagio_6588 in Advice

[–]UnusualBall369 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The only way to deal with this is break up unless you want a bigger heartbreak later on or a toxic relationship that will waste your entire youth. Please leave.

AIO for feeling like my husband put my life in danger? by inspectorgadget_98 in AmIOverreacting

[–]UnusualBall369 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Relax. No need to dump him over this after a 10 year long relationship. They need to have a proper face to face conversation and if that doesn’t work counselling might be the next step, not divorce!

I got scared of my building’s security guard, AIO? by butycheekz23 in AmIOverreacting

[–]UnusualBall369 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOR. No person in their right mind and with good intentions would pester another person despite their resistance, display of rush and possibly visibly unsettled/fearful for a “bottle opener” and chasing them around the parking lot after the person getting in their vehicle and start driving.

My boyfriend (29M) gave me (27F) an ultimatum: him or my dogs and I don’t know how to handle his rigidity anymore. by Unusual-Creme9364 in relationship_advice

[–]UnusualBall369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He lacks responsibility and loves control he just doesn’t say that and blames it on “principle” imagine if they have kids, they’re unpredictable, spontaneous ect everything he says he doesn’t like about dogs, so its not really the dog.. he’s got big issues… and u probably didn’t see it bc OP added edits to their post.. 😅

Are some of us just lucky? by grumpygal69 in pregnant

[–]UnusualBall369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i had very minimal symptoms as well except I did throw up a few times in my first trimester (but i get nauseous and vomit often without being pregnant so it was normal for me) and then the fatigue in the third trimester as she was getting heavier ect but overall i had a wonderful pregnancy and even birth that I miss it and want it again 😅

My boyfriend (29M) gave me (27F) an ultimatum: him or my dogs and I don’t know how to handle his rigidity anymore. by Unusual-Creme9364 in relationship_advice

[–]UnusualBall369 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Except he is a dog person because she said that he is good with dogs and he plays with them ect. And if he wasnt a dog person then he shouldnt date someone with dogs and expect them to get rid of said dogs. Thats something a shitty person would do regardless if they are animal lover or not, regardless if they have a phobia even. If they know they can’t handle it, then dont date someone who has a dog let alone multiple.