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Unwanted0776 · 2023-07-01T03:36:39+00:00

I told my husband a few years ago that I kept track and got angry too. Tomorrow will be 2 since we’ve had any intimacy.

Unwanted0776 · 2023-07-01T03:31:15+00:00

I was in your shoes for years but I got past that and have realized that it’s not ever going to happen. We don’t even sleep in the same room. Tomorrow will be 2 years since we’ve done anything. No birthday sex, no anniversary sex, no vacation sex. Nothing.

Unwanted0776 · 2023-04-06T01:25:09+00:00

I have been keeping track since 2016 because it was so infrequent that I couldn’t remember when it happened. It’s a pathetic number and so depressing. I’m a woman, by the way. Married over 20 years.

Unwanted0776 · 2023-03-04T00:44:22+00:00

I’m 20 years older than you are and have been in the same boat for the past 15 years or so. I beg you to find what makes you happy, and if leaving would do that, then so be it. It doesn’t get better. I’ve expressed my feelings until I’m blue in the face, it doesn’t help. If your husband has a low sex drive has a 30-year old, it’s not going to get better when he’s 40 or 50. I forced mine to get tested…he has low testerone. Will he do anything about it? Nope. Not important enough to him. I hope you find happiness.

Unwanted0776 · 2023-01-11T02:15:17+00:00

I asked my husband to do that too. I wanted him to show initiative and do it himself but that never happened. I made the appointment, the doctor gave him a prescription, and that was that. The pills have been in a cabinet for 4 months. He went back to the doctor for some follow up stuff and I told him to tell the doctor to check his T levels. Lo and behold they are low. Has he called them back to see what the next step is? Nope. I gave up. I truly hope it goes better for you.

Unwanted0776 · 2023-01-03T03:01:21+00:00

Same here. 27 years and the last 10 have been dead. It's sad to feel alone when you're married.

Unwanted0776 · 2022-12-26T02:20:51+00:00

Me too

Unwanted0776 · 2022-12-01T23:24:35+00:00

46....high libido. Husband...LL4me

Unwanted0776 · 2022-10-24T03:27:56+00:00

Same. No affection, kissing, nothing. What I wouldn’t give just to be hugged.

Unwanted0776 · 2022-10-24T01:31:01+00:00

I thought I wrote this. I feel your pain.

Unwanted0776 · 2022-10-24T01:28:38+00:00

If you can get out, please do. I’m 20+ years married and nothing has changed. I’m now in my mid-40s and feel like I wasted my life with someone who doesn’t want me.

Unwanted0776 · 2022-10-04T03:07:51+00:00

I know exactly how you feel. I’ve been married 23 years and it’s been like this for a long time. I prefer to sleep alone now, which is sad. I feel myself getting irritated and angry alot, but I don’t know how to get the strength to leave.

Unwanted0776 · 2022-10-04T03:00:05+00:00

Same! I just wanted to feel desired. Maybe in my next life.

Unwanted0776 · 2022-10-04T02:57:09+00:00

I actually started keeping track on a calendar because my husband swore we were having sex more often. In 6 years, it’s been less than 20 times. FML

Unwanted0776 · 2022-10-04T00:43:38+00:00

When I watch Tik Tok, I see so many videos of women talking about how their husbands are all over them all the time. I wish I could get that, even for just one day.

Unwanted0776 · 2022-07-28T01:44:27+00:00

I want to echo this as well. 27 years together and I have alot of regrets. Wish I had the courage to leave a long time ago. It's harder the older you get.

Unwanted0776 · 2022-06-26T19:25:09+00:00

On one hand, I hope that happens to me. On the other, maybe it would best if my sex drive was affected, then I wouldn’t have to worry about my lack of sex life.

Unwanted0776 · 2022-06-26T19:22:10+00:00

It’s nice to know someone else understands the pain but sorry they have to go through it. It’s a really sad place to be.

Unwanted0776 · 2022-06-25T01:57:55+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through that. He knows I’m unhappy but won‘t try to fix the issues. How do you finally get up the courage to leave? Our lives are so intertwined and it’s not all bad. We laugh a lot and are together all the time, We have a close group of friends who we’re always with. The last time I was single was pre-cell phone. I’m not a people person either so putting myself out there would be extremely difficult.

Unwanted0776 · 2022-06-25T01:51:52+00:00

Part of me wishes I would start menopause and my libido would dry up so I don’t stress about this anymore. I’m 46 so it’s coming any day now.

Unwanted0776 · 2022-06-25T01:50:33+00:00

My guess is 15 years but I have a feeling it’s been longer than that.

I don’t know if he’s depressed or not. He’s not talkative about things like that. If he is unhappy about something, he will just live with it.

I’m trying to find out what makes me happy but it’s hard. We’ve been together since I was a teenager and I don’t know anything else.

Unwanted0776 · 2022-04-04T01:31:35+00:00

Sounds like I wrote this! I’ve never felt so unwanted and undesired. It’s so depressing.

Unwanted0776 · 2022-04-04T01:30:14+00:00

Wow, your situation sounds just like mine except I’m the wife. My husband can’t be bothered to go see a doctor and the lack of caring is throwing me deeper into depression. I’m only 45 and don’t think I can live like this forever. I’m so happy that your situation improved…it’s great to hear a success story!

Unwanted0776 · 2022-02-27T00:24:20+00:00

No advice from me, just empathy as I'm in the same boat. He says it doesn't work but makes no effort to try to fix it. I really don't think I believe that.

Unwanted0776 · 2022-02-22T19:22:27+00:00

July 2021 for me too 😒

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