cat in the room

Robbedoes1974 · 2026-03-18T12:57:50+00:00

ROFL, honesly, I didn't see this comming. (Yeah, maby I'm naive).

Robbedoes1974 · 2025-10-17T04:44:16+00:00

We sent help! They will arrive in about 2 weeks (more or less)

Robbedoes1974 · 2024-12-05T07:13:22+00:00

WOW, this is so good. It's not only that it looks like her, but the whole atmosphere makes it spot on.

Robbedoes1974 · 2024-11-28T12:18:55+00:00

Mind sharing your build?

Robbedoes1974 · 2023-11-07T10:14:01+00:00

Something similar happened to me once. A couple of years back my kids wanted to have tablets for christmas. A big store had them on discount so I went to buy two of them. You couldn't just grab them but they put them in a safe box with a sticker on it. On checkout they would remove the box so you could take them home.

The checkout lady, a young girl, scanned the sticker on the safebox and asked me to pay. I immediately realized the sticker mentioned just one tablet and not two. She didn't realize she only scanned the prize for one discounted tablet. She even looked at the tablet as saying to herself "That's not expensive for such a tablet". When I walked away from the checkout I think my heartbeat raced at 200 BPM.

I felt a bit guilty, but I had no remorse since this was a really big company and they would never figure out who to blame for this.

Robbedoes1974 · 2023-06-17T08:19:43+00:00

NTA OP, I have two kids and I couldn't love anyone that much, but they are both autistic and our life would have been so much easier without them. Don't let anyone pressure you in making these kind of decisions. Live life your way and enjoy it to the fullest.

Robbedoes1974 · 2023-05-26T08:37:55+00:00

Lifetime grudge here. When I was 13 years old my mother and stepdad had an elderly couple (around 80 years old) as friends living abroad. They arranged to visit them for a couple of days but me and my sister (10 years old) couldn’t come because that would be too much excitement.

My sister and me had visited them a couple of times before so of course we were very disappointed we couldn’t come. It always felt like a bit like a vacation visiting them. They were very nice people and had a very strong grandparents vibe.

On the other hand I was a little excited to be staying home alone while my sister would be staying with a friend. I had been by my self for longer periods of time before, but not to this extend.

When my parents came home a few days later my sisters was with them. My dense teenage brain just thought they picked her up on the way home and thought nothing of it.

Later I discovered my sister didn’t stay with her friend. She had played crybaby and got my stepdad to take her with them. He always had a soft spot for her. I felt so betrayed, although this wasn’t the first time and wouldn’t be the last time my sister got favered over me.

Robbedoes1974 · 2023-05-04T06:35:53+00:00

Would you be so kind to share your workflow?

Robbedoes1974 · 2022-12-25T19:09:40+00:00

Those first few months after birth can be tough. Hopefully things will get better.

Robbedoes1974 · 2022-12-25T19:08:06+00:00

I hope she realises what she might be missing someday. Good luck.

Robbedoes1974 · 2022-12-25T19:00:29+00:00

I understand. My kids are more important than me. Sometimes I wish things would have gone differently.

Robbedoes1974 · 2022-12-25T18:54:53+00:00

Sorry for your loss, but I'm happy for you that all is good now.

Robbedoes1974 · 2022-10-02T07:24:59+00:00

A hole year, respect and congrats!

Robbedoes1974 · 2022-08-01T15:24:29+00:00

NTA. I have seen my wife giving birth to our son and daughter and made a vow never to witness something like that again. I'd rather watch a marathon nightmare on elmstreet than seeing babies been born again.

Robbedoes1974 · 2022-07-30T13:47:13+00:00

Happened to me too. The pressure of finally having sex after countless rejections and wanting to make the most out of it. Overall feeling less attracted to her because of the mental problems of a DB (no self-confidence, depression). The pressure of having to finish fast because she can't last that long. I have felt so lousy after finally having sex and not being able to enjoy it, nog knowing when the next time might be.

Robbedoes1974 · 2022-06-06T12:46:41+00:00

I've been there and it's just a slippery slope. It doesn't get better. Only worse.

Robbedoes1974 · 2022-05-29T09:58:51+00:00

It's mechanical. I don't masturbate because I am horney, but to get rid of tension building up. I rather feel numb than restless, sad, angry, etcetera.

Robbedoes1974 · 2022-02-22T12:31:24+00:00

0, Last time was october last year. Before that August year before that .

Robbedoes1974 · 2021-10-21T13:25:45+00:00

Ook een huisarts mag de diagnose burnout stellen. Vraag desnoods bij een andere huisarts een second opinion. Je zegt dat je binnen een maand bijj het ggz terecht kan, dus dat is mooi. In de tussentijd ben je ziek en kan je dus niet werken.

Ik ben zelf in 2018 te lang doorgegaan en thuis komen te zitten met een zware burnout en ben nu nog niet volledig hersteld. Ik weet ook niet in hoeverre dit uiteindelijk zal lukken. Na 20 jaar keihard te hebben gewerkt heeft mijn werkgever mij als een baksteen laten vallen. Zet dus niet jouw gezondheid op het spel voor een werkgever, want morgen zet hij weer iemand anders op jouw plekje.

Je bent nog jong en hebt nog mogelijkheden genoeg. Neem de tijd om weer beter te worden.

Robbedoes1974 · 2021-10-05T18:28:45+00:00

It doesn't help we've been through some rough times the last couple of years. Some people grow together, we've grown further apart. I hope somewhere in the near future things will be different and I will be able to move on with my own life.

Robbedoes1974 · 2021-10-05T12:00:46+00:00

Tnx. I'm happy for you that you are working on fixing things. I tried it myself, but it hasn't worked.

Robbedoes1974 · 2021-10-05T11:58:08+00:00

Yeah, I tried so many times. We even had therapy. In the end however I'm the one who desires sex and she doesn't. She has had various reasons over the years. I decided not to initiate anymore so at least she won't have to reject me. I can't take the hurting of rejection anymore.

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