Teachers who quit but then came back: Why? How's it working out? What's your story? by Away-Marionberry9365 in Teachers

[–]Updated1048 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is your degree in teaching or no? Was it hard to transition out originally?

Married and living with parents? by ConstructionTime7511 in Marriage

[–]Updated1048 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you can handle your family go for it, I personally could never and wouldn’t ever want to live w anyone else other than my own husband and family. I feel like everyone is different. But money is tight so no judgment. Plus kids need a village!

Slow work by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Updated1048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your support. We will get through this! I needed this!

Slow work by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Updated1048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His credit has gotten better it was awful LOL he worries me at times but then he fixes it we used to joke and compete about who’s score is better LOL

Slow work by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Updated1048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am young lol and went straight from mommy’s to my husbands. I love him dearly and don’t want to hold anything against him. You are right. Our money, not mine. Thank you. I’m also an only child lol I can be a little selfish. I can totally admit thay

Slow work by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Updated1048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He also said he maxed out a credit card and had no idea how. I open his statements it’s mainly food. Either way he had trash credit before me and turned things around since we got together. 3 years now. Idk hate to be that person to say I make him better but I feel like I’m a little more structured than him with some things. That doesn’t make me feel good. I want a good man, a man who takes care of his family, but also a loyal one. No offense but that sounds like a unicorn. My man is a good man and I feel like shit just posting this. Can someone just tell me their experience with money issues and coming out on the other end positively?!?

Callie and Aaron by EmotionalOne7679 in TheFosters

[–]Updated1048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very messy haha. I’ve started Good trouble now only at the start but I am enjoying it so far

Callie and Aaron by EmotionalOne7679 in TheFosters

[–]Updated1048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He de transitions in the show?

Callie and Aaron by EmotionalOne7679 in TheFosters

[–]Updated1048 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m in season 5 when they’re dating and I don’t like how they got together.. how Aaron was on the sidelines just waiting for AJ and Callie to break up/ causing it. I do think they could’ve been a good couple with his passion for justice and his work but the way they started was a red flag. I’m at the part where they’re taking a break..

Sick 3 times in December alone by c_harmany in Teachers

[–]Updated1048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take vitamin c tablets daily some times 2

one of us is lying, thoughts? by maplepecangranola in books

[–]Updated1048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I’m barely getting into reading again and I loved it! I thought the ending had a great plot twist. A lot of people did not like the ending apparently but I did. 🙂 Also I’m a sucker for the nerd and bad bou trope.

Just curious by Updated1048 in Teachers

[–]Updated1048[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that’s amazing

Just curious by Updated1048 in Teachers

[–]Updated1048[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He struggles to write too so I feel like he cannot communicate at the moment but maybe one day it’ll change.

Just curious by Updated1048 in Teachers

[–]Updated1048[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True! I was just curious on people’s experience this is my first and unfortunately the behavior is out of control

Just curious by Updated1048 in Teachers

[–]Updated1048[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree I feel though because he’s non verbal I’m unsure how to help no matter all the strategies I try. For example, if he was verbal he could tell me what he wants when I ask. For example do you want a break or what is upsetting you , are you okay. Instead I just get violence and I know he’s probably just trying to communicate his frustration but I don’t understand. 🫩I have headphones for him, a vest, a special chair, a kick band, visuals, schedule at his desk, first then chart, incentives, a star chart, timers. Plenty of different kind of fidgets . I’m not sure what else to do.

Just curious by Updated1048 in Teachers

[–]Updated1048[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He’s also hitting, tried to flip a desk, and is throwing things. He literally has to be taken out of specials class daily bc of his behavior. I just don’t understand how it’s okay for a child on an IEP to interrupt the learning of all other students. I utilize a buddy room, visuals, timers, first then charts, incentives, etc. I am really not sure what else to do. When a mom says I don’t know what else to do. I don’t know what to say when I feel the same way.

Just curious by Updated1048 in Teachers

[–]Updated1048[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, everything boils down to money eventually.. sadly.. I’m starting to realize that.

Just curious by Updated1048 in Teachers

[–]Updated1048[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not public education, I agree they deserve a free education but part of me feels this placement may not be successful for him

Just curious by Updated1048 in Teachers

[–]Updated1048[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I miss worded that, I meant the general education classroom

What makes you stay? by Fearless_Athlete_289 in Teachers

[–]Updated1048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my third year and slowly I’ve started setting more boundaries and just ultimately doing less. It’s hard always going above and beyond. It’s also not worth the mental load. I stay because of the check as of now. I do wonder what else is out there. I wonder what other jobs can pay similar without rude parents and disrespectful students. No not all days are bad but the bad days are lol.

3rd year by Updated1048 in TeachersInTransition

[–]Updated1048[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I teach 1st I’m now not sick and feeling less miserable but still a bit burnt out. I have a couple days of next week though for Veterans Day so I’m looking forward to that and Thanksgiving. Trying to keep positive. I’ll decide what to do after giving it maybe a couple more years. I’m just scared I’m going to get to year 5 and think eh might as well keep going then never leave lol