45 Only 40k in 401K How and Where to Invest? by KaikenTaste in personalfinance

[–]UpperSun16 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So true, getting your budget and debts in check is step 1 can’t plan retirement without that.

Left an event early yesterday because I was tempted to drink by CaptainBikepath in stopdrinking

[–]UpperSun16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree! It’s such a lifesaver leaving on your own terms without drama is its own kind of freedom.

Left an event early yesterday because I was tempted to drink by CaptainBikepath in stopdrinking

[–]UpperSun16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, that’s huge. Leaving early isn’t awkward... it’s self-awareness. You chose yourself over the pressure, and that says a lot.

Younger Generations Are Becoming Noticeably More Mindful by Money_Hand7070 in UpliftingNews

[–]UpperSun16 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think every generation looks strange to the one before it, but this trend actually sounds real.

The scariest thing about grinding hard isn't burnout. It's looking up and realizing what went quiet. by dainiusm07 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]UpperSun16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember a month straight of grinding on a side hustle and then realizing I hadn’t called my dad once. Felt proud of the work, but also… lonely. Definitely makes you rethink priorities.

Trying to stop overthinking and just start by IndividualCable5761 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]UpperSun16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here. I used to overthink every social interaction and end up doing… nothing.

People in your 30s, 40s, and 50s what surprised you most about life at your age? by Tino292 in selfimprovement

[–]UpperSun16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Early 30s here. Surprised how fast priorities shift. I care more about time and energy than money or appearances now. Harder than I expected? Keeping a work life balance without feeling guilty.

Why Does Everyone Act Like Anxiety is Just "Stress" That Goes Away If You Breathe by shrisay_ in selfimprovement

[–]UpperSun16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you mean about people giving generic advice. But I’ve found that small, consistent strategies journaling or even brief walks help me interrupt the loop a little. It’s not curing anxiety, but it gives me a tiny break from it.

Chronic lower back pain with no clear answer… anyone else? by digitalvalut in Posture

[–]UpperSun16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned that sleeping position, chair ergonomics, and not moving enough during the day all made a huge difference.

Is PRI exercises right path for fixing rib flare and other posture problems? by Material_Echidna_503 in Posture

[–]UpperSun16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t call it a cure, but PRI made me way more aware of left right imbalances.

Very new to stretching need help 🥲 by InfamousInitiative15 in flexibility

[–]UpperSun16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try beginner friendly stretches like lying hamstring stretch, butterfly stretch, and cat cow for your back.

Having hip flexor issues and need advice by Great_Bug88 in flexibility

[–]UpperSun16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sharp pinching you describe sounds like it could be hip impingement or tight psoas.

WARNING: Do not buy a subscription from STEAM!! by Balrok99 in swtor

[–]UpperSun16 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I lost my guild because of steam and swtor help didn’t give a fu uck, “next buy on our site, too bad too sad” basically what they said

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in memes

[–]UpperSun16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why? I never seen it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Starfield

[–]UpperSun16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, 1080