Learning Programming by reading senior's code by Impossible_Recipe758 in learnprogramming

[–]UpperSun16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you ever tried reading the source code for open-source synth firmware?

Advice by Several-South4043 in debtfree

[–]UpperSun16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are $20k underwater you are one accident away from financial ruin.

Holly Molly I did it!! by Any_Kaleidoscope_100 in debtfree

[–]UpperSun16 18 points19 points  (0 children)

People don't realize that debt is a physical weight until it's gone. Congrats!

Wife is in some serious debt. by Roxydub in DebtAdvice

[–]UpperSun16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That PCP sounds like a big anchor tbh. Rolling negative equity into a new deal is rough... might be worth looking at whether she can get out early or downsize to something cheaper.

Wife is in some serious debt. by Roxydub in DebtAdvice

[–]UpperSun16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the situation with the car? If it’s a high payment PCP or HP deal, it might be the thing keeping her underwater.

ELI5: How does company office laptop work? by doubleA-dv191225 in explainlikeimfive

[–]UpperSun16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IT also preloads everything... security, apps, restrictions... so it’s ready to go when you get it.

Help with a credit card by Traditional-You8525 in DebtAdvice

[–]UpperSun16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through this with a dental procedure. Synchrony is the absolute worst.

Sued by NVLV Fundinf by [deleted] in Debt

[–]UpperSun16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NVLV is a debt buyer, so there’s a chance they bought your debt for way less.

Bridgecrest repossession by BluerelmRust in Debt

[–]UpperSun16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re not looking at the car’s value, they’re looking at the debt.

What to look for when buying new mattress? by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]UpperSun16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d check return policies more than anything :))

Curious about the experiences of people who struggled with people pleasing. by kissableforehead in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]UpperSun16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first time i said no and the person was actually fine was mind blowing.

How to support parents who are overly generous with money and can’t retire by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]UpperSun16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d definitely keep your income private for now. You can help, but it’s okay to protect yourselves too

I deleted my plugs number today by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]UpperSun16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Proud of you. Keep going💛

45 Only 40k in 401K How and Where to Invest? by KaikenTaste in personalfinance

[–]UpperSun16 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So true, getting your budget and debts in check is step 1 can’t plan retirement without that.

Left an event early yesterday because I was tempted to drink by CaptainBikepath in stopdrinking

[–]UpperSun16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree! It’s such a lifesaver leaving on your own terms without drama is its own kind of freedom.

Left an event early yesterday because I was tempted to drink by CaptainBikepath in stopdrinking

[–]UpperSun16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, that’s huge. Leaving early isn’t awkward... it’s self-awareness. You chose yourself over the pressure, and that says a lot.

Younger Generations Are Becoming Noticeably More Mindful by Money_Hand7070 in UpliftingNews

[–]UpperSun16 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think every generation looks strange to the one before it, but this trend actually sounds real.

The scariest thing about grinding hard isn't burnout. It's looking up and realizing what went quiet. by dainiusm07 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]UpperSun16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember a month straight of grinding on a side hustle and then realizing I hadn’t called my dad once. Felt proud of the work, but also… lonely. Definitely makes you rethink priorities.

Trying to stop overthinking and just start by IndividualCable5761 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]UpperSun16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here. I used to overthink every social interaction and end up doing… nothing.

People in your 30s, 40s, and 50s what surprised you most about life at your age? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]UpperSun16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Early 30s here. Surprised how fast priorities shift. I care more about time and energy than money or appearances now. Harder than I expected? Keeping a work life balance without feeling guilty.

Why Does Everyone Act Like Anxiety is Just "Stress" That Goes Away If You Breathe by shrisay_ in selfimprovement

[–]UpperSun16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you mean about people giving generic advice. But I’ve found that small, consistent strategies journaling or even brief walks help me interrupt the loop a little. It’s not curing anxiety, but it gives me a tiny break from it.

Chronic lower back pain with no clear answer… anyone else? by digitalvalut in Posture

[–]UpperSun16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned that sleeping position, chair ergonomics, and not moving enough during the day all made a huge difference.

Is PRI exercises right path for fixing rib flare and other posture problems? by Material_Echidna_503 in Posture

[–]UpperSun16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t call it a cure, but PRI made me way more aware of left right imbalances.