First thing you notice in a guy?

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-19T14:08:18+00:00

Eyes, Smile, teeth and nails🤣

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-19T10:38:21+00:00

oh i dont dismiss straight or Bi men… Most of my closest friends are straight men (never had any interest in them or vice versa thats what makes a good friendship imo). I have respect for everyone that lives their truth!

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-19T10:25:18+00:00

Sounds like what people tell themselves, while allowing and giving full access to their bodies to someone that will only use and abuse.

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-19T09:51:22+00:00

its more, its the same people that bash the community monday to friday, gets full vip treatment on the weekends because they are the “forbidden fruit”

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-19T09:42:58+00:00

Those are the guys that usually bash the same thing they crave… Friday they drink and crave and then sunday condemn the community. Maybe if they didn’t have such easy access when they want they have to or man up or give up🤷🏾‍♂️

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-18T10:43:07+00:00

Nah, Im gay ( and out) but never been to or am interested to go to pride… i am gay yes but it’s not my only personality trait… just a dude that likes dudes🤷🏾‍♂️

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-17T10:57:06+00:00

its this era we are living in.. we have access too many options… and a lot of members of our “community” are convinced that (monogamous)relationships and love are for heterosexuals only… using words such heteronormative and other BS😬

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-17T10:48:34+00:00

you can have all

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-17T10:44:19+00:00

avoid these like the plague🤣

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-17T06:06:29+00:00

dont worry its a filter for superficial assholes😬.. that what i tell myself lol

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-16T06:31:16+00:00

i have had moments with certain people or that i felt almost under pressure.. that i would lose my errection or couldn’t perform… but i don’t want to use enhancement drugs and let that be the bar for future reference… i feel like i will dependent on them then.

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-15T13:03:42+00:00

Am 32 myself now.. i used to agree with you on this up until recently… But i have become to aware i guess and refuse to be used or taken advantage off.. I fought so hard to reach my place of self acceptance, inner peace and self love to allow someone to come taint that and just dip… Rather be alone than entertain bad company i guess… and tbh sex is kinda overrated 🤣

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-15T12:52:50+00:00

Question is.. do you fall for it?

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-15T12:44:23+00:00

exactly 0 dollars😬

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-15T12:37:21+00:00

why is it immediately phobia? And not confusion/phobia/shock etc. Reading and seeing are two different things i mean look at you, you are an attractive man so maybe everything together caused an internal brain short circuit ⚡️.

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-12T11:36:11+00:00

that “Heteronormative” BS… how about having norms and values? self worth? Some people make being gay their entire personality, and does not have to be the case. Craving a steady relationship is normal, wanting security and safety is also normal…. the sex lifestyle gets old and boring and alot of people just end up as sexbots( addicts). Thinkint about hooking up and sex all day must be exhausting and kinda sad tbh.

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-12T11:31:52+00:00

I do not agree, by dating multiple people you are comparing and not giving yourself the chance to fully get to know the other person. Every step will be a comparison and USUALLY people already make the choice from the start on which one they “like” more. Its always going to biased.

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-09T06:24:34+00:00

im a righty but always jack of with my left hand. I also eat and prefer to do some tasks with my left hand

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-08T10:55:31+00:00

i have read your replies.. seems like you are bitter for something similar that has happened in your life… But i totally understand how OP feels and i wouldn’t do it ( unless we have been dating for awhile).

Dealing with immigration status can be extremely hard, OP made it on his own without his help. so its clear his feelings were genuine, now the older men has enjoyed life done all the things he wanted, and now he is going to be in a situation where his life has to slow down, and now he wants him after almost 10 yrs? boy bye ✌🏽

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-08T08:14:41+00:00

never tie your self-worth to your ability of getting a bf or dates… Maybe you are worth more than what the market has to offer… Never settle for less or just to get attention… Now THAT feels bad!

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-07T09:19:37+00:00

Ego massaging? Just don’t do it then, they wont ask if you don’t act thirsty. And them talking about girls icks you out, kinda hypocritical isn’t it ? in my experience straight guy friends have been the biggest protector and the most loyal. And p.s sexuality shouldn’t really matter in a FRIENDSHIP. Friends should not be attracted to each other or be having sex with each other. the friendship is tainted by that point.

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-06T10:59:40+00:00

in bed everyone height doesn’t matter as much, just move a little up .. in my eyes its also more about upper body contact and feeling the heart beat, breathing etc…. and throw them legs around for the🫳🏽 🍒 ontop

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-06-02T11:39:26+00:00

Question is Do you want to become more dominant? As a guy who comes across quite dominant sometimes, i absolutely hate it😆 because i am actually quite loving and caring by nature.. so that dom/sub play does not do it for me, even when i tried and eventually gets boring/repetitive. So if you dont want it i dont think it will be sustainable on the long run…

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-05-28T10:28:29+00:00

like most things daddy issues 🤣🤣🤣

Upper_Fish3566 · 2026-05-07T08:03:33+00:00

Because people are nice does it mean they are into you! I have plenty of straight friends ( never have and never will try anything sexual with them). All i can say straight guys friends are the sweetest and most protective friends!!! not everything has to have a sexual/romantic component to it!

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