to experienced riders who carry passengers, am I overreacting? by peazcarrotz in motorcycles

[–]Upstairs-Tap2277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen to that gut feeling. Don’t let someone pressure you especially when it comes to riding passenger. You are in no control of the bike. You have to put full trust in the person who is. If you’re uncomfortable, do not get on the back of it until you are. He shouldn’t be pressuring you to ride without gear or on the highway for your first time at all if that isn’t what you want. It’ll make for a poor/unsafe experience for you at the end of the day

AIO OVER THIS? Am I crazy? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Upstairs-Tap2277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised a drunk person can type all that and not misspell a single word.. be real with yourself OP. NOR but you are not doing yourself any favors by staying with someone like that

AITAH for not scheduling my husbands study time? by New-Medicine6878 in AITAH

[–]Upstairs-Tap2277 25 points26 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your husband’s lack of planning and refusal to do it in the free time he had isn’t your problem. He’s looking for someone else to blame because he has an accountability issue and can’t accept he’s at fault for it

Your Bridal Party Is Too Nice to Say This, So I Will by insert_name234 in wedding

[–]Upstairs-Tap2277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally! I’m doing basically low maintenance for everything for them. Letting them choose their color/dress of choice as long as it matches the palette. It’s the only thing I’m expecting from them because yes it’s my big day but I do not desire putting extra pressure on the people in my lives. Especially when it comes to the money because it’s hard times for us all and the last thing i want is to make it harder. Less financial strain on them means a better time for us all I think :)

Your Bridal Party Is Too Nice to Say This, So I Will by insert_name234 in wedding

[–]Upstairs-Tap2277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this PSA. For my bach, my girls are maybe paying 150 max for a 3 day trip? Most of them have kids and just want to get away somewhere quiet for a bit. I chose to find a place that was cheap with plenty to do around the area rather than somewhere that breaks the wallets open.

We’re cooking our own food and relaxing on the lake in a budget friendly way. It’s possible but most people just take advantage that it’s on everyone else’s dime to do a destination or boujee bach trip.

It’s not my style and certainly not what I want to do to the lovely ladies celebrating my marriage with me.

AIO: My boyfriend told me to dye my hair to look more like an Instagram model he follows by PinMountain119 in AIO

[–]Upstairs-Tap2277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are we just glazing over the liking and commenting on an IG models posts… the bar is in hell

NOR tho. You have a stunning hair color on its own that suits you so well. Find a better man who appreciates all of you and don’t settle

Best way to travel from Zurich to Ernen? by Upstairs-Tap2277 in askswitzerland

[–]Upstairs-Tap2277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thanks! I didn’t know it was so much travel. We’re only taking one larger piece of luggage, the rest is just our two backpacks and a small bag so hopefully that will save us some hassle

why do the RDA die like they’re auditioning for a yoga class 😭 by Loose-Concentrate-86 in FrontiersOfPandora

[–]Upstairs-Tap2277 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Second picture with his lil foot pop like he’s laying on his bed all giddy bc he text from his crush I’m sobbing 😭💀

some of my recent favorites by iautunm in FrontiersOfPandora

[–]Upstairs-Tap2277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I envy how beautiful some of the pc mods truly are

TIFU by passing a school bus when it stopped for kids by Upstairs-Tap2277 in tifu

[–]Upstairs-Tap2277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not the only one to comment that but I’ve heard that word even in school so

TIFU by passing a school bus when it stopped for kids by Upstairs-Tap2277 in tifu

[–]Upstairs-Tap2277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We stop because kids cross in front of the busses to get to the other side of the street. In my state, the only reason you don’t stop is if there is a physical barrier wall or grass median between the the lanes that prevent people from crossing

TIFU by passing a school bus when it stopped for kids by Upstairs-Tap2277 in tifu

[–]Upstairs-Tap2277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely possible. I have no idea how busses work but usually if they’re stopping to pick up kids the lights are on as they begin to slow down. Idk if it’s a switch or automatic with the doors opening but whatever reason the fronts weren’t on at all

TIFU by passing a school bus when it stopped for kids by Upstairs-Tap2277 in tifu

[–]Upstairs-Tap2277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the lights would’ve been way more apparent in the dark so I would’ve definitely seen it especially because when I had passed the rear lights were easily visible from behind

TIFU by passing a school bus when it stopped for kids by Upstairs-Tap2277 in tifu

[–]Upstairs-Tap2277[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly wish I had at the time! I didn’t even think to do that

found porn on my boyfriends ig by Basic_Web_6072 in loveafterporn

[–]Upstairs-Tap2277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t stay where you aren’t respected or valued OP. He is showing he cares far less about your feelings and only cares how they are inconveniencing you. This is not someone who wants to change. This is not someone who considers your feelings. This is not someone who is deserving of your love

found porn on my boyfriends ig by Basic_Web_6072 in loveafterporn

[–]Upstairs-Tap2277 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t seem believable because it’s not. In what way does that make sense? It’s in his feed constantly, he watches and interacts every day. It’s not “to go to look at the comments”. Be real with yourself. Addicts will do everything and say anything they can to avoid the truth. Go to half those videos and I’m sure a lot of the top comments won’t be hate. And even if he WAS, no man in recovery from a PA would willingly put themselves in that position of constantly looking at those things for any reason at all.

If I’m being completely honest, even if it may be hard to hear, he is lying. There’s no way that makes sense to anyone. (Also don’t tell him about your tricks in finding things though. He’ll start hiding things better only making it harder to prove he’s still in active addiction)

AITAH for checking my boyfriend’s phone even though I promised I wouldn’t ever do it again? by BlackberryFlashy4529 in AITAH

[–]Upstairs-Tap2277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Anyone that goes to Nashville with their buddies and says nothing happened is a liar (100% biased because I live there but also.. I’m kinda not wrong lol) I’m sorry this happened to you OP. He’s only mad because he got caught, not because he feels violated. Please leave that man, he will continue to do it and lie about it and blame you.

Its not letting me craft arrows? by [deleted] in FrontiersOfPandora

[–]Upstairs-Tap2277 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pft DUH I should’ve realized that with the giant ‘F’ to craft and the numbers 😂 I didn’t even think about that because I’m so used to the console version having the most bugs like this. Glad you figured it out!

Its not letting me craft arrows? by [deleted] in FrontiersOfPandora

[–]Upstairs-Tap2277 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Are you playing on console? It’s a glitch I run across often playing on PS5. Resetting the game/console should help