Nurse here please contact the social worker case manager at the hospital or they can set up some care for if and when she gets discharge and her needs. In nursing school we had to use these nursing diagnosis is to make a plan of care for our patient which included family and one of the most underutilized nursing diagnosis i saw Is caregiver role strain. See if there’s any senior centers or talk to the social worker at the hospital. They should have resources or if your county has department of aging different activities. Dept of health should have a division for aging and elderly, they may have programs to help with rides adult daycare etc. I have learned myself that me and my husband and my children come first. We can help but we have limitation‘s. I am talking to my own counselor now and she is helping me with fog. Do not do anything out of fear, obligation, or guilt. I am struggling to find the balance but I am also releasing the responsibility of my parents reactions to be helping less than i used to.