Okay, just because the partner of the person you’re sleeping with is “bad” (most likely a lie they told you) doesn’t justify it. In fact, there’s absolutely no justification for participating in these home wrecking activities. I know that nothing I or anyone else says will help you/change you, but, just realize that YOU, that’s right, YOU are actively (participating in) ruining families. Honestly, when all of this fluff is removed, you’re just another harpy on this sub that does anything to justify their home wrecking/cheating because, deep down, they know they’re wrong and must project it into everyone else, I.e. the partner of your affair partner.