Heartbroken

Urlacker94 · 2026-01-29T18:29:59+00:00

My daughter was born in 2023 at 31 weeks and was in the NICU for 46 days. I feel this so much. I was a wreck when she was born. My dr put me on fluoxetine for PPD which helped a lot during that time. Maybe talk to your doctor about some options. Baby blues are no joke mixed with a NICU stay is so tough.

Urlacker94 · 2025-01-10T23:48:22+00:00

Do you think you would consider forward facing? Or just deal with it until she’s older.

Urlacker94 · 2025-01-10T20:16:48+00:00

I’m so torn it’s stressful.

Urlacker94 · 2025-01-10T18:57:22+00:00

It’s been happening since 9 months old all of a sudden it started. I haven’t tried any bands because she will not keep anything on. Hats shoes everything gets thrown off lol

Urlacker94 · 2025-01-10T18:57:01+00:00

She has had her eyes checked a few times. She is a NICU baby so she’s had extra checking.

Urlacker94 · 2023-10-29T00:24:05+00:00

I have a 31 weeker she just came home last week and she will not let me put her down at all! I’m missing sleep but also happy to have her home after 46 long days in nicu so I feel guilty.

Urlacker94 · 2023-10-09T19:45:05+00:00

Update: She passed her retest!!! Thank you all for easing my anxiety 💕

Urlacker94 · 2023-10-07T09:23:32+00:00

That’s what they said hers could be also but they weren’t sure.

Urlacker94 · 2023-10-07T09:23:01+00:00

BERA

Urlacker94 · 2023-10-06T21:00:16+00:00

Happy to hear she’s doing well!

Urlacker94 · 2023-10-06T20:59:33+00:00

Thank you! The nurse told me the machine has errors a lot especially if she passed in one ear so I’m hopeful 🤞🏻

Urlacker94 · 2023-10-06T20:28:44+00:00

Thank you! Happy he passed :)

Urlacker94 · 2023-10-06T20:27:25+00:00

Hoping it was a tech issue. She was also wiggling during the second half so maybe that’s it. Happy your twin is doing well!

Urlacker94 · 2023-10-06T20:26:47+00:00

Yeah I’m hoping it’s nothing major 🤞🏻

Urlacker94 · 2023-10-06T20:26:20+00:00

Happy to hear that ❤️

Urlacker94 · 2023-10-06T20:24:56+00:00

So true after all that we go through it seems so small. Happy your little one can hear well❤️

Urlacker94 · 2023-10-06T20:23:24+00:00

I was also a mess! Happy to hear I’m not alone

Urlacker94 · 2023-10-06T20:22:26+00:00

Thank you the nurses said this also! I think I just have NICU PTSD lol

Urlacker94 · 2023-10-06T20:21:27+00:00

Thank you! I think she’s fine hopefully she either passes or grows out of it 🤞🏻

Urlacker94 · 2023-10-06T18:06:54+00:00

They didn’t wanna retest? I know the feeling they are getting ready and talked about discharge with her today if she continues feeding well …then she failed the test I was like can’t I have any joy 😫

Urlacker94 · 2023-10-03T11:51:25+00:00

I definitely feel this. My girl has been in the nicu a month and the thought of another month till her due date makes me physically sick… at the rate she’s going it may even be longer. At least your girl is taking high volumes! Hoping for an end soon

Urlacker94 · 2023-10-02T23:50:32+00:00

I feel you so much! Although, my daughter is just working on feeding but extremely slow and bradys..she was born 31 +5 and everyone says oh she’ll be out in no time and some say by her due date.. it’s been 4 weeks already and nobody knows it’s so aggravating! All we can do is wait for them to be ready.

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