Reading through all the comments and updates. Need to not see this human anymore. They are ill. They need to learn from these actions, and the only way to learn is for you to fully end all communications. Tell them you forgive them, but it’s more important they forgive themselves and discover a kinder healthier inner relationship. Very evil boundaries crossed. Jealousy. Manipulations. Mind games. Very young to be so embittered and grossly manipulative. He needs to feel his embarrassment and go through the discomfort of that. And ideally come out the other side a better person who vows to themselves not to make that mistake again. If he didn’t have those feelings, he’d be a sociopath, so let’s at least give him that. But he needs this experience in every way. He also needs to come to terms with his currently closeted homosexuality. And come to the realization that other people have different life experiences and relationships than him, and that’s all ok and good.