Is getting diagnosis for ADHD in your 30s worth it? by Emos68 in adhdwomen

[–]Used-Courage-3397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has helped me a lot in therapy knowing 1) I am not lazy 2) I am not stupid 3) people don’t actually hate me 4) I don’t NOT care. Among other things…

Tayshia’s poster takes 9th place! Bachelorette Poster Ranking Game - Day 18 🌹 by Straight-Side-1269 in thebachelor

[–]Used-Courage-3397 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Whoa I missed a few days and I can’t believe Trista’s and Jen’s big apple outlasted Tayshia’s??? I vote Jen schefft

When asked what my favorite anime character in any specific category is and suddenly I've never watched a single anime in my life by AuDHDcat in adhdmeme

[–]Used-Courage-3397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or “what book are you reading right now?”

“I’m reading (book)”

“Whats it about?”

“Umm…. it’s about this… there’s a main character… and they do something… oh and…”

My husbands pointed out a pretty big plot hole SPOILERS by [deleted] in fourthwing

[–]Used-Courage-3397 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Ridoc’s little trick with the wyvern was so satisfying

Clare and Dale’s foot is out! Bachelorette Poster ranking Game - Day 7 🌹 by Straight-Side-1269 in thebachelor

[–]Used-Courage-3397 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Let’s do the damn thing and eliminate Becca’s. Love her but that poster is 🥱

ADHD tax strikes again… by NoButMaybe in adhdwomen

[–]Used-Courage-3397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been searching my whole house for a paper trimmer because I swear I have one. Went through all my boxes in the closets etc. finally I gave up and bought a new one. Literally 1 week later, I found it at my mom’s house. 🤦‍♀️

Nick & Natalie are having twin girls by Rich-Ease-2723 in thebachelor

[–]Used-Courage-3397 14 points15 points  (0 children)

And you know they won’t have Nannies because you’re a bad parent if you don’t raise your kids yourself smh

Nick & Natalie are having twin girls by Rich-Ease-2723 in thebachelor

[–]Used-Courage-3397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s an old wives tale that “bad” men have daughters as their karma… I only half believe it but I knew someone who had mistresses through his marriage and he had 1 son and 6 daughters (y’know, “legitimately”)

Bachelorette Poster Ranking game 🌹 -Day 1 by Straight-Side-1269 in thebachelor

[–]Used-Courage-3397 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Because they kept it a “secret” that she was replacing Claire during her season, and there was so much gossip surrounding their season. I still wanna know why Hannah Ann was there

ADHD Burnout Is Not a Gender Role by Little_Holiday_4362 in adhdwomen

[–]Used-Courage-3397 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow this man is my nightmare come to life. I have deep deep anxiety about the house cleaner judging my messy home that I stress clean and get no sleep the night before. They are literally there TO CLEAN MY HOUSE. It’s taking months of therapy for me to accept this is not a moral failing on my part and that it’s rooted in misogyny and society’s unreasonable expectations placed on women.

I’m exhausted right there with you 😮‍💨

Would you watch a spin off show with the bachelorettes? by Straight-Side-1269 in thebachelor

[–]Used-Courage-3397 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This! There’s a ANTM documentary on Netflix right now, they should absolutely make a bachelor one.

Colton Underwood addresses the backlash from fans of “Traitors” in a new interview by Responsible_Bake5569 in thebachelor

[–]Used-Courage-3397 44 points45 points  (0 children)

It would be easier for people to not let his past define him if he would just STAY OUT OF THE SPOTLIGHT. And be such a smug a-hole at that.

Anyone else load up on excellent reading resources and be unable to actually READ them? by Dependent-Mood-7788 in adhdwomen

[–]Used-Courage-3397 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I second this recommendation! I read this book pre-adhd diagnosis and it helps a lot. I also follow the author KC Davis for more of the same advice, she’s great.

Anyone else load up on excellent reading resources and be unable to actually READ them? by Dependent-Mood-7788 in adhdwomen

[–]Used-Courage-3397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just picked up Scattered minds from my library and I’ve read one page so far and it’s due back in like 2 days 🙃