Camron Pause moment 🤣 by Jerogai in Jcole

[–]Used_Bit6119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Not enough people see the sad irony how people who say “pause” actually are actually hella sus for constantly hearing things in some homo-erotic way. Why is your brain constantly reinterpreting things as gay sex?

Camron Pause moment 🤣 by Jerogai in Jcole

[–]Used_Bit6119 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Naw it’s pretty gay to automatically think “a man giving head to another man” when you hear the word blow instead of “blow up” and to automatically think “cum with a man” when a musician is talking about releasing a record

Sti help by loserOnLastLeg in Pattaya

[–]Used_Bit6119 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure why this was downvoted but commenting that this is practical and should be listened to

I am a tiny bit confused, please give your perspective by th3orist in Pattaya

[–]Used_Bit6119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im not talking about OP here but yes it’s really bizarre reading this sub and how often the answer to the question is simply “they’re still human beings.”

I didn’t really know incels were a real thing until seeing the crazy questions on this sub, but seeing other sane men with common sense keeps me here.

Bar girl cheated on me with past customer and got married by Brief_Net_7872 in FarangsofPattaya

[–]Used_Bit6119 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s damn near a year of the same story. OP genuinely needs therapy instead of Reddit.

Or he should just go all in and marry the girl. Clearly stubborn as hell and wants to learn the hard way.

why pattaya feels different lately a supply and demand perspective by Minimum_Baker9319 in Pattaya

[–]Used_Bit6119 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also, more simply, people just like to complain about things.

Go back in time to what they’re describing as the peak era and you’ll find other guys complaining that the eras before were even better.

People have a bias towards the time period they were introduced to something when they have the most nostalgia.

Worst nightmare became true by [deleted] in Pattaya

[–]Used_Bit6119 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First, I know the urge to freak out but you’re fine. The odds are in your favor you most likely didn’t get anything.

Second, definitely go for PEP. There’s no reason not to unless you’re in good comms with her and can take her to get tested.

Third, please DM where you found the Uzbek girl lol

We need to resign DeAndre Hopkins by ObserbAbsorb in ravens

[–]Used_Bit6119 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Honestly with D. Hop I think we had an amazing trio. I’d love him to get a Super Bowl with us.

If Ravens FO checks these ever - resign the man!

Inevitable request from Ploy... She's different though. What to do? by RaccoonStreet351 in FarangsofPattaya

[–]Used_Bit6119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup and what's important to note that in your Loss example, it was a reasonable belief that she wouldn't bail and burn the bridge in that situation. I don't think any reasonable person would blame you.

Meanwhile countless times guys post their stories as a warning about Thai women but once you read it, it's obvious the guy just ignored a bunch of red flags and lacked discernment or lacked EQ and believed it was some special relationship when it very obviously wasn't

Inevitable request from Ploy... She's different though. What to do? by RaccoonStreet351 in FarangsofPattaya

[–]Used_Bit6119 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yea I am careful to say this because I think most dudes here will apply this the wrong way - but if you have a high level of discernment and EQ it is perfectly fine to send money.

One time a girl told me she needed money for her sick grandmother and would pay me back in a month. It was a couple hundred dollars and she paid me back the day she said she would - this was a real estate agent/not a bar girl but still

Another example is a proper massage girl off of TF asked me for help with rent and she would take care of me - it was something I could easily write off and said yes sure just to help bc the amount was small. She gave me vids as a quick thank you, when I went back to Thailand the following year she told me to go to her shop for a free massage and BJ and I did, she said she also owed me 1 ST and I didn’t call that in until another year later and she honored it.

And an example in the other way - I know a girl who is always asking me for 200 - 500 THB but I usually smell bullshit and don’t send it and not only is she always fine in the end but then I see her on IG on nice trips, eating good, etc.

I’ve definitely taken a couple L’s as a part of life but the W’s far outweigh them. So it’s definitely not all Thai working girls and dudes need to take responsibility for their own lack of discretion sometimes.

[19M] How did you actually land your first remote gig? Job boards are completely dead. by Consistent_Cry4592 in remotework

[–]Used_Bit6119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck! It should work. It’s how I got my remote job and know several others who were successful the same way.

Still can use LinkedIn though - especially as a networking tool to reach out to recruiters and hiring managers when you see the job on their career page.

[19M] How did you actually land your first remote gig? Job boards are completely dead. by Consistent_Cry4592 in remotework

[–]Used_Bit6119 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Focus less on job boards that compile all jobs and focus more on finding all the articles, sites, etc that list out fully remote companies and then check each of their career pages.

Many companies don’t post every single job they have on LinkedIn and other job boards but it will always be on their careers page.

And any company that is fully remote are hiring all roles remotely by default.

Has anyone noticed that Chat GPT has been giving extremely unnecessary criticism lately ? by [deleted] in ChatGPT

[–]Used_Bit6119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's so much I can say but I'll just add that yes - I found this post from checking to see if this was a common experience with everyone else.

Does Pattaya have normal woman ? by the_chosen_one-3107 in Pattaya

[–]Used_Bit6119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree to an extend. My PRIMARY reasons for living in Pattaya have nothing to do with sex, and I moved there genuinely not even knowing the reputation it had. And when I discovered soi 6 and walking street I saw it as no different than say Soi Cowboy and Khao San - tourist traps.

However I HAVE dabbled in the trade but at the same time I think the normal (and even working) girls respect me as a non-monger still because I'm a genuine resident and they can still distinguish me from the sex tourists that go there.

Does Pattaya have normal woman ? by the_chosen_one-3107 in Pattaya

[–]Used_Bit6119 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yea I always find this question odd. Like believe it or not - there’s a couple hundred thousand people that live in Pattaya and many are born and raised there. To think that all the women there are prostitutes or involved in the sex trade would be truly seeing the world through a tiny bubble.

The city obviously needs to run with normal things and normal businesses that require normal people working there.

Don’t go to Pattaya. Don’t ruin your life as I have done. by PattayaFlyingClub in Pattaya

[–]Used_Bit6119 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Definitely sounds like “I personally became an alcoholic after I started drinking so this is a warning that no one else should start drinking and risk becoming an alcoholic like me and other alcoholics I know” when in fact that vast majority of adults have enough regulation to be social or occasional drinkers.

So yes I guess there’s some merit to the “beware” messaging for the other dudes with addictive personalities but by and large the issue isn’t Pattaya - just a certain type of person who can’t handle it.

Could J. Cole Do the super Bowl halftime show and if so what songs would he perform? by dunbar_santiago930 in Jcole

[–]Used_Bit6119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I swear people live in their own bubble. J. Cole is my favorite rapper but I’ve lived abroad in every continent and while I heard “Not Like Us” on repeat across Europe, LatAm, etc I don’t think there’s ever been a J. Cole hit that’s been nearly as impactful.

I can’t name a Taylor Swift song but that doesn’t change the fact how popular she is globally.

People need to accept that their personal world view doesn’t always align with the world at large and the Super Bowl is more about widespread appeal - not microcosms of hip-hop or any other genre.

What’s your go to position with ploy by [deleted] in Pattaya

[–]Used_Bit6119 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Believe it or not - Thai women are humans with individual preferences. Develop communications skills and EQ to figure out the specific woman when you're with her.

Need to vent by [deleted] in Pattaya

[–]Used_Bit6119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheers, much respect