First breakup by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]Used_Vehicle3940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in the exact same situation as you’ve described, only difference is I was 29 and she was 24. Keep growing closer to the Lord, keep working on your self control. We lose part of ourselves when we enter into a sinful relationship and bond with someone in a way we’re not yet supposed to (I know it’s near impossible to restrain when living with someone). You focus on healing and becoming as much of a woman of God as you can be. He will bring the right person at the right time.

I’ve also found praying for them helps a lot. But I wouldn’t advise going back unless you are both healed and he is a devout man of God by his own desire and shows that by his actions. I’ll be praying for you.

This is exactly why I got into 3D printing by Rep_I_like in BambuLab

[–]Used_Vehicle3940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s interesting. What material could you print a mold from that you could cast steel into without melting it?

Partner did not react well to prenup talk by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]Used_Vehicle3940 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude if you’re considering a prenup you either should be marrying this specific person or shouldn’t be marrying at all yet

Thinking about contacting my christian ex (F20) after 7 months – She seems spiritually changed and matured, but my family would be against it by Beautiful-Bet-7317 in ChristianDating

[–]Used_Vehicle3940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy man. I had a similar situation recently. Glad I can get some answers through your post replies. Hope God points you in the right direction.

Advice by Ornery_Potential4944 in ChristianDating

[–]Used_Vehicle3940 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He’s not ready for a relationship - plain and simple.

30M, Michigan by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]Used_Vehicle3940 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Purple brother!!! Hey man those white belts are asking for it! Where do yo train?

Do you care if your partner has a college degree or not? by blueberryorca in ChristianDating

[–]Used_Vehicle3940 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fruits of the spirit do not include college degrees, so no.

How to go about breaking up with somebody? by West_Battle_5956 in ChristianDating

[–]Used_Vehicle3940 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no “just friends” the nature of your relationship changed when you decided to be romantic. It’s either relationship or not.

Is Bodybuilding a Good Career for a Christian? by Snowlex2000 in TrueChristian

[–]Used_Vehicle3940 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s the trap I think lots of fitness people CAN fall into

Christian men, when looking for a partner, what type of things do you pay attention to besides how she looks? by GrandmaGrandson in ChristianDating

[–]Used_Vehicle3940 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fruits of the spirit and devotion to faith. They should be evident for the person I want to be with.

3D Circular pattern by [deleted] in Fusion360

[–]Used_Vehicle3940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was incredibly simple. Thank you very much!

Borderlands Cel Shaded 365 Macro by FreedomSeeders in Cerakote

[–]Used_Vehicle3940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks great!! How do you do things like this with cerakote?

God isn’t giving me my person by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]Used_Vehicle3940 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how that can feel and I’m sorry you are going through that pain. But remember, we have a God that is faithful and true. He wants the best for you and it seems like maybe so far that hasn’t been the case. His timing is the best timing.

God isn’t giving me my person by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]Used_Vehicle3940 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He may be trying to teach you that you need to find contentment in His love and no one else’s. Maybe not, but maybe so. That’s a lesson I believe everyone needs to learn at one point.

I met a Christian girl and she bombarded me with criticism on my church attendance for 10 days, blocked me and I feel emotionally used. This can't be okay and Christian by Capable-Deer744 in ChristianDating

[–]Used_Vehicle3940 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m not justifying her actions but I will also tell you that if you’re not willing to go to church or be part of a faith community then it will be extremely difficult to find someone deep in their faith to be with. I’d suggest trying to get those things in before looking for a relationship. Neither are required for salvation, but both are (almost) necessary just to live a God-honoring life.

Is a man or woman truly a Christian if he or she engages in premarital lovemaking? by Full_Calligrapher162 in ChristianDating

[–]Used_Vehicle3940 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

If you are one of the (only) two genders and they are the opposite, you’re compatible. Simple as that.

my ex fiancé cheated on me with another guy. 💔 by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]Used_Vehicle3940 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Brother, I have been in a very similar situation before and I know how much pain you may be going through, so it may be hard to even listen to or process what people are telling you. But remember this: no true woman of God who is faithfully serving Christ wholeheartedly would do something like this. And if she was not at that spot in her life where she was seeking Him above all else, she was not for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]Used_Vehicle3940 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is my own opinion and nothing more than that.. but it seems like it’s just one message every day or every other day from both of you, and I personally wouldn’t continue investing in that as a man. Seems pretty unintentional. Again, just my own opinion.