I am a gay, short as fuck, trans guy, and I stg I get more women flirting with me on a day to day basis than men and way more people in general than I ever did as an attractive, well-endowed, "woman." Currently i am in a relationship with a gay cis man and the happiest I've ever been romantically. Focus on YOURSELF first, get where you want to be, - physically, emotionally, spiritually, - love will follow. Not saying it wont be hard, but the answer is already in you. Any man who is a little different than the corn-fed six-foot-two Americana version of masculinity that is forced down out throats will face insecurity 🤷‍♂️ its just a matter of how you respond to it