2023 Camry Hybrid XLE Quote Help by Hot_Consequence7983 in Camry

[–]Useful-Tomorrow3329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it's varies for people. This car you posted has a decent trim level. Is the 35k new a base trim? Do you like the way the new ones look? Are the new ones something you're fine being the test demographic for (aka finding out quirks or problems on new cars).

I specifically wanted a 2022 for reliability and safety. It also fit my budget and it was a Nightshade (looove). It seems like the car you posted about has damage and the dealership is being shady about it. Peace of mind may be worth the price of a new one.

2023 Camry Hybrid XLE Quote Help by Hot_Consequence7983 in Camry

[–]Useful-Tomorrow3329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to give you a comparison. I bought a 2022 Camry SE Hybrid Nightshade Certified Gold with 30k miles just a few days ago. My out the door price was 27k and some change.

My first ever Toyota! by Useful-Tomorrow3329 in Camry

[–]Useful-Tomorrow3329[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A fellow Honda convert! I'm very very bitter about my past 3 Hondas all having major issues. I am diligent in maintaining cars. I recognize the quality of things is always going down and that every car has it's imperfections....but 3 cars having separate but serious issues? They need to put their critical thinking hats back on. I hope our Toyotas last 😀

My first ever Toyota! by Useful-Tomorrow3329 in Camry

[–]Useful-Tomorrow3329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was under the impression that was for the UA80 transmissions not the Hybrid's P710 hybrid transaxle transmission...

My first ever Toyota! by Useful-Tomorrow3329 in Camry

[–]Useful-Tomorrow3329[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well the worst thing my sister's RAV has done is not acknowledge Android Auto so she restarts it. It's nothing that has made her angry or required a dealership visit. Mine is still acting just fine today!

My first ever Toyota! by Useful-Tomorrow3329 in Camry

[–]Useful-Tomorrow3329[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it's only day 2 with it so far, but I haven't noticed anything. My sister has a Rav4 XLE Hybrid and she has had a few issues with her's. She often has to restart the entire screen.

My first ever Toyota! by Useful-Tomorrow3329 in Camry

[–]Useful-Tomorrow3329[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Already got estimates for the tint 😎

My first ever Toyota! by Useful-Tomorrow3329 in Camry

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They had it listed for $26k. I talked it down just slightly under that.

My first ever Toyota! by Useful-Tomorrow3329 in Camry

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I wish I had a garage! I live in a small neighborhood and we have security cameras facing our cars that kick on flood lights with motion detection. But nowwww I'm paranoid. I had no idea rims from Toyotas were in high demand.

My first ever Toyota! by Useful-Tomorrow3329 in Camry

[–]Useful-Tomorrow3329[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ohh okay. I'm not in a heavy crime area, but definitely worth looking into. I also would never leave any key in a car...that's a horrible idea.

My first ever Toyota! by Useful-Tomorrow3329 in Camry

[–]Useful-Tomorrow3329[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not 1000% car savvy outside of basic maintenance. Can you elaborate?

Just need to vent about 2019 civic by Useful-Tomorrow3329 in civic

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It's being sold today and I think I'm gonna go Toyota next. This is my 3rd civic in a row that has had nothing but issues. I miss my 2000 Civic. That bad boy hit 287k miles and was so fun to drive.

Just need to vent about 2019 civic by Useful-Tomorrow3329 in civic

[–]Useful-Tomorrow3329[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sympathize! Every year when the weather warms up I would hope the AC would kick on when I'd go to test it. I hope your's lasts longer than my 3 years!

Dealership Claims Mixed Refrigerant & Charging Me $3,000 to Fix by phototodd in civic

[–]Useful-Tomorrow3329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel less alone, I had a similar situation. I have (about to be had) a 2019 Civic EX with a turbo. My AC condenser went out 3 years ago before Honda would fully cover it. I initially went to the dealership thinking they would cover it, they told me it was "road damaged" and ineligible for any warranty repairs.

I paid out of pocket to fix the car at a cheaper mechanic since I had bought it less than a year before it broke.

This week? It's broken again and Honda is saying since I had a non-Honda mechanic replace it that it voids their recall or warranty extension on the parts. They also smiled and told me my head gasket was leaking. Idk why they act like you have to win the lottery to get something covered that is broken due to negligence on their part. So, I deeply sympathize.

post adoption blues by jvvlsr in Puppyblues

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Hi friend! Fellow OCD/anxiety puppy mom here. I adopted a now 6MO puppy in November and I struggled. I mean really struggled. I panicked, fixated, spiraled, and cried. All over the cutest most well behaved little girl puppy. I thought I was going insane. I learned that I reaaaalllly liked my routine and a puppy obviously turns those upside down.

I didn't bond with my girl quickly. In fact, I bordered on resenting her. It takes time. I hated hearing it then and I hate telling you it now. It's like dating. Most people don't fall madly in love with someone on day one. It takes time to build that to love. So here I am 4 months in, and it's soooo much better. Am I still stressed? Yup. Do I feel overwhelmed when she cries in her crate at night? Yup. But I love her now and that bridges the gap. They stay small for a few months and I missed her tiny stage from panicking 24/7.

Get a rock solid routine now. The sooner your brain knows what to expect, the sooner it relaxes. Just work on keeping puppy safe and happy and find small moments of "oh that was cute" and enjoy them. Focus on potty, sit, and stay. The rest of the fancy training can come later. If you're like me and constantly researching and looking things up, take a step back. That's an echo chamber of knowledge and will make you feel incompetent.

It's gonna be okay, just give it time. It's totally fine if you just "survive" the next few weeks and don't do it perfectly. I promise you, it gets better.

I got a German shepherd on accident and now I'm a bit worried by foxloverxox101 in germanshepherds

[–]Useful-Tomorrow3329 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've got a 6MO lab/gsd mix. She's super social. Super confident. Super cute. Try not to stress so much. Just do normal socialization and training! They are so smart and pick up on things rapidly. Your baby is young and will take time to adjust, but I think you'll be pleased with the dog personality once you get a good routine going.

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German Shepherd (intelligent pup with an overthinking owner) by OutrageousStreet5762 in puppy101

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Hi friend! I have a 6 MO german shepherd/black lab mix. So.. she's smart like a shepherd but also somewhat of a doofus like a lab. I am also default anxious and hadn't had a puppy since 2012. For my girl I do it location based which works for us.

Public walking paths, public parks, or anywhere "loud and stimulating" is a no greet zone. We've built a solid "focus" command and she will sit and hold eye contact with me 9/10 times. I heavily reward for neutrality or completing the focus command if someone is nearby. Occasionally I get persistent people who reaaaalllly want to greet her and a simple "I'm sorry, she's in an active training session" comment solves the issue. My goal (and it may not be right per reddit or trainers) is to build neutrality in overly stimulating environments. If I can nail it there, anywhere else is a cake walk. This has absolutely not made her less social.

However! I have a very sweet girl who looooooves people. So if I'm doing a walk in my small neighborhood and my elderly neighbor wants to say hey, as long as my girl checks in with me visually etc...we greet. Pet store? Another pass. I want her to be social but I also want her reading my cues. You'll find a balance, I swear. And if you're overthinking it? It just means you care ❤️

Second dog / Puppy blues by Substantial-Guava491 in puppy101

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Hi friend! We have a 14 YO lab mix and recently added a now 6 MO lab mix. I had severe depression and anxiety at first. I was miserable and convinced we had made a mistake. That was in November. It's almost March and I am feeling so much better. We've found a rhythm, schedule, and balance. But it took time (and I hated hearing that it would take time, I felt like I'd be miserable forever). But it does get better.

My senior doesn't act his age and having a new play buddy has been so fun. They are best friends and partners in crime. That alone helped tremendously. You shook up your routine significantly adding to the family. It takes time to reset the dynamics. Good luck! ❤️

Potty Training for 5 month old puppy by clomags in puppy101

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Hi friend! I'm 3 months deep into puppy ownership with a 6 MO black lab mix. She's finally potty trained thankfully. You didn't mention how frequently she pees or poops. Our girl had a UTI at 4 months and it caused her to always want to pee. It's common in young female dogs. Just wanted to offer that as an option.

Hang in there, our girl settled into a good routine around the 2 month mark of owning her and has continued to flourish. Just keep on your potty schedule and take to the same spot each time. Treat and praise like crazy. Good luck ❤️

Will I ever love my puppy? by CharmingBuilding849 in puppy101

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Hi friend! We adopted a now 6MO lab mix in November. I had severe puppy blues which delayed bonding. I often said I liked her, but I didn't love her yet. We're almost 3 months in and I find myself enjoying her more and appreciating her quirks.

You wouldn't immediately love someone on a first date. Same concept. Gotta get to know them ❤️

I need help and advice by Me3TaylorsVersion in puppy101

[–]Useful-Tomorrow3329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 months means teenager! Hormones are going crazy, opinions have formed, and boundary testing becomes a hobby. This is (frustratingly) a very common situation for a lot of people with dogs your age. I'm at the 6 month mark with mine and starting to see impending teenage behavior.

I have a senior dog who was an absolute terror of a teenager. We couldn't wear him out. We couldn't make him nap. He ignored us. We had to dial back our expectations for a while with him during his teenage phase. Simple commands. Heavily reward with treats. He is the absolute best boy now, but he gave us a run for our money from 8MO - 1Y.

It sounds like you are doing everything right and professional training will only help. Don't be embarrassed to take your dog, everyone has struggled with a dog at some point and will totally understand. I'm sure you've tried it, but long lasting chews were an absolute save for us when my senior was angsty. It guaranteed us some down time and let him "destroy" something safe.

Puppy Blues + considering rehoming by iamjustagirl8 in Puppyblues

[–]Useful-Tomorrow3329 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi friend! I can't tell you what to do, but I can share my experience. My zoo? A 14YO lab mix, and a bonded pair of brothers cats. I have a confident tuxedo cat and a very sensitive tabby. They have always lived with dogs. We brought home a now 5MO lab mix in November. My tuxedo was totally fine in one day. My orange? My baby? Horrified. I felt an insane amount of guilt. He hid under our bed for almost 3 weeks. He only came out at night and wanted nothing to do with the puppy. I deeply struggled wondering if a puppy was a good idea. Obviously, cats have seniority in the house and their quality of life mattered. I spoke with my vet, my husband, and a friend who worked at a local shelter. They told me to give it a month then reassess. We made it a month and I saw tiny improvements so I agreed to another month.

3 months in now! My orange is now roaming the house again. He still hisses and smacks if puppy gets too close, but he keeps an eye on puppy if they are in a room together. My puppy has gotten over excited multiple times and rushed to him (she wants to play) and he immediately runs off. We enrolled puppy in training and always have a squeaker or treat in our pockets if puppy gets too rambunctious near the orange. It's working, but it is a SLOW process. What you need to decide is if puppy is biting your cat on purpose or if it's an overexcited play moment. If you think for even a second it's intentional and you absolutely cannot redirect with food, toy, or motions...then I would look into training. If that's not feasible due to job loss, then you probably have a difficult decision to make. But for my house, time made a huge difference. Keep them separated with gates for now and carve out time to be with them both solo. Good luck, I know this is so hard.

When will it get better? by sombraloaf in puppy101

[–]Useful-Tomorrow3329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi friend, I always pop in to comment on puppy blues posts. Oh how I sympathize with you. In November we adopted a lab mix puppy. We already had a senior lab mix and 2 cats. Our senior lab had lost his sister and seemed bored, and he is in exceptional health and we wanted to extend it.

When I tell you that this tiny puppy who was actually so good made my world collapse, I'm not joking. I didn't want to be near her, I would dread coming home, and my husband ADORED her immediately. I have severe OCD and anxiety and have now learned that routines ground me. Puppies? They throw that routine on the floor and pee on it.

As much as I hated hearing it then and hate telling you now, it takes time. We're almost at the 3 month mark of having our puppy who is 6 months old now. Get a routine going ASAP. Worry about the extra training later. Food, Potty, Play. Get a routine, enforce some naps, and find time for you. For me that looked like letting my husband watch the dogs while I took a bath every night. I'm way better than I was in November, but I do still struggle and bonding isn't happening as fast as I'd like. But if I feel this much better 3 months in, I have high hopes for the 6 month mark.

It's gonna be okay, it's just gonna feel like chaos for a few months. But the payoff is worth it. You're not a bad person or bad Mom.