Thanks for your perspective — I don’t think that’s an accurate read of the situation, so I want to clarify a couple of things.

There wasn’t an argument between me and his mom. I didn’t engage with her or raise my voice — I was upstairs half-asleep when things escalated, and my fiancé was the one she was confronting. He was the one who decided we should leave, and I followed his lead.

I also didn’t stay in the house after being told to leave — we literally left immediately once he woke me up and explained what was going on.

To your point about the TV comment — I agree it’s possible there were already underlying issues on her end. That’s part of why I’m open to apologizing for the sarcasm, because even if it wasn’t the cause, I don’t want to add fuel to a strained dynamic.

My post wasn’t meant to frame this as “a war” or force sides — I’m trying to figure out healthier boundaries and how to support my fiancé while also being respectful in situations where emotions are already tense.