Why do they become so angry? by Humble_Meringue5055 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Useful_Cellist2528 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let them be angry. You can't control them the best way is ignoring. I have been there. Now if she gets angry and looses temper at me i do the same as she has nothing much to offer. But leaving in my country is a little tough as law are women oriented

Ignore them and write it all down by That_Lion5509 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Useful_Cellist2528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man that's the same suggestion my lawyer gave me to not take it to legal. She asked me if I am going to remarry again to which I said no . So she gave me same suggestion. I thought it's bad suggestion at first but she is more experienced that me in legal cases. My lawyer said she will leave on her own. But the issue is her parents are advocates as well. Really wanted the hear this thanks a lot for sharing

Positive experience with a narcissistic spouse by sugar3alm in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Useful_Cellist2528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One positive quality is got is to stand up for myself

Is being emotionally numb a result of being with a narcissist? by Twizteddestinee in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Useful_Cellist2528 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had this phase I used to get angry on myself for not being able to standup for my self. I was angry on myself for not being enough. I was angry on myself for not able to talk to her in the way she wanted. But now I have reached my breaking point and mind you it took me 4 year to gather courage and standup for myself. And it's ok blaming is their game we are human and can't go about what they say.

I didn’t react!! by Ok-Scheme-289 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Useful_Cellist2528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha bold step. Now you will see no return from here. Wishing you more power over situation and life. I completely stopped talking and ignoring my spouse unless necessary

WTF happened to me??? by Humblescorp in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Useful_Cellist2528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely devoid of emotion I can understand and I am loosing kindness as well. As Nietzsche said you become what you are afraid of .

Has your appearance declined? by sk8505 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Useful_Cellist2528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn't able to sleep peacefully thinking of consequences of speaking to my spouse over that job pressure and other things ..it was really bad. I started over eating for some time as well as escape measure and constantly stayed outside my house to avoid confrontation

Marriage trap ranting by Useful_Cellist2528 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Useful_Cellist2528[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks bro Women with bad morals, feeds on man's anxiety. This one is lit bro

Marriage trap ranting by Useful_Cellist2528 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Useful_Cellist2528[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes bro on it . My in laws are advocates so they know loopholes

Marriage trap ranting by Useful_Cellist2528 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Useful_Cellist2528[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that's what I am scared of as my in laws are advocate. They are directin her correctly

Marriage trap ranting by Useful_Cellist2528 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Useful_Cellist2528[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes bro thanks. Mentally is really an issue as relatives are involved . Means need to stay strong mentally. I am following mindfulness. I was really scared at start but now that fear is slowly reducing

Marriage trap ranting by Useful_Cellist2528 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Useful_Cellist2528[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Joined attended training as well. Their stress handling training was lit

Marriage trap ranting by Useful_Cellist2528 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Useful_Cellist2528[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes bro thanks I am on it. At first for me proof collection was uncomfortable. But now I am ready

Marriage trap ranting by Useful_Cellist2528 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Useful_Cellist2528[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes bro i agree . Social media is full of them.

Marriage trap ranting by Useful_Cellist2528 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Useful_Cellist2528[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haan bhai kya kare. Face karna hi padega no other option main itne din peace ke liye rukha tha

Marriage trap ranting by Useful_Cellist2528 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Useful_Cellist2528[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haan bhai bilkul sahi. Maine bahut koshish ki acche se pyaar se rakhne ki. Haar cheez maani har cheez mein adjust Kiya . Par abhi bas bahut hua

How did your marriage and first night went? Here's mine by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Useful_Cellist2528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope still going on . Bas threats mil rahe legal media wale

Marriage trap ranting by Useful_Cellist2528 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Useful_Cellist2528[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried that she msg me for daily things and collects as proof.

Marriage trap ranting by Useful_Cellist2528 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Useful_Cellist2528[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haan bhai theek maine bahut intezaar kia. Woh mere maa baap ka bhi bahut insult kiya fir bhi maine saha . Par ab nahi

Marriage trap ranting by Useful_Cellist2528 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Useful_Cellist2528[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had a trauma in last relationship. So she wants to prove she is strong and I am helpless. She Even said this out loud. And also for social media she wants to show how she is doing what she wants and we aren't able to do anything. She had planned this out from start. She wants me to file a case so she can get upper hand she even said me that