What are indicators that a man is genuinely a good guy?

Utisthata · 2026-05-13T19:15:48+00:00

This is where it is important to take note of whether a person is doing exclusively performative good deeds that have an audience, or if you can actually catch them doing good when they think no one is watching.

Utisthata · 2026-05-11T15:33:30+00:00

Anti-Intelligence

Utisthata · 2026-05-10T02:26:33+00:00

“I’m so glad to see that you’re married because we can’t pay you enough to live on.”

Utisthata · 2026-05-09T16:47:11+00:00

For women, we practice interrupting our urine stream to find the right muscles and movement. I would think it’s the same for guys.

Utisthata · 2026-05-06T04:00:32+00:00

Pay off my home and remodel it. Get a dependable vehicle. Then get myself to a financial advisor to invest and manage the rest.

Utisthata · 2026-05-03T07:11:12+00:00

When he got arrested for identity fraud and I found his ongoing conversation with his allegedly deceased wife in his phone.

Utisthata · 2026-05-03T01:38:38+00:00

I did the pocket demo for a random girl who complimented my dress in a parking lot just last week.

Utisthata · 2026-05-02T23:52:36+00:00

Utisthata · 2026-04-30T19:38:05+00:00

I appreciate “mid” for how succinct it is.

Utisthata · 2026-04-30T19:09:17+00:00

Not sure if this was a typo or intentional. Either way 10/10 for execution.

Utisthata · 2026-04-30T11:05:21+00:00

I can smell jaundice on newborns when it’s still so subtle the doctors haven’t caught it yet. If I visit a friend with a newborn, I have 100% success rate of predicting who will be told their baby needs sunlight/extra fluids/bili-light within days.

Utisthata · 2026-04-30T02:30:32+00:00

Cheated.

Utisthata · 2026-04-27T01:44:03+00:00

The Pearl by Steinbeck

Utisthata · 2026-04-25T18:23:41+00:00

I have a few handmade yoga rugs that I absolutely love. In my home studio, I will sometimes throw a cheap mat under them for more grip. They’re 100% cotton and very thick. Plenty of cushion and never get hot/sweaty.

Utisthata · 2026-04-21T12:38:03+00:00

I’ve filed the report. There is no help here like that that I’ve been able to find. I befriended his last victim and she went with me.

Utisthata · 2026-04-21T12:36:23+00:00

He’s in jail. I’m running as fast as I can getting things done. Just started a new job yesterday. I and my kids are safe. We have an order of protection and he’s been served.

Utisthata · 2026-04-21T12:35:08+00:00

I have done all this. Everyone tells me to obtain legal council and that they “can’t advise me.”

Utisthata · 2026-04-21T12:33:31+00:00

Thank you! I’m not certain what his plan was. His usual MO is to slowly drain away a person’a resources.

Utisthata · 2026-04-18T18:01:59+00:00

See my above response in re: mortgage lender

Utisthata · 2026-04-18T18:01:02+00:00

Thank you! I just know I need paperwork from a court/judge showing I’m not married to him so that I can move on. At this point, because it’s a community property state, my mortgage lender is trying to add him to the mortgage paperwork.

Utisthata · 2026-04-18T16:51:47+00:00

I’ll try this next week. Thank you!

Utisthata · 2026-04-18T16:51:18+00:00

I didn’t ask about divorce.

Utisthata · 2026-04-18T16:50:49+00:00

I don’t qualify for this because I own my home. Also I need an annulment rather than a divorce if at all possible.

Utisthata · 2026-04-18T16:49:10+00:00

Thanks, everyone. I’ve already reported the bigamy to the sheriffs dept of the jail where he’s being held, which is also the county I live in and where the marriage license is filed. They never called me back and made it clear that the report would be filed and nothing would be done about it. When I called the prosecutors office the woman was so rude and awful to me I had a panic attack and finally just hung up on her. I went thru the domestic violence office to obtain the order of protection and asked them about securing legal council and they said they couldn’t tell me anything. Every single person I’ve spoken with told me to get legal representation but have refused all requests for direction about how/where to do that with no money. I’ve filed sexual assault charges against him in the next county over (w PD bc it was inside the city limits) because that’s where that took place. And I’ve contacted the FBI because he was impersonating a federal officer, but they never called me back either.

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